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Open Question: What should I do? Help!? and more... Open Question: What should I do? Help!?There's this guy that likes me, but i don't like him. Normally this wouldn't be a problem but he is kind of creepy. He had a crush on one of my friends last year and he started basically stalking her and writing notes, and spreading lots of lies about her becasue she wouldnt date him. I don't want this to happen to me and i really dont know what to do? Any tips on how to get him not to like me or turn him off or something? Open Question: Please help. is it weird to date a sisters old guy?So here goes my story. About my a year ago my older sister met a guy and she hung out with him a few times. All she did with him was kiss him, things didn't work out and they've just been friends since. OK forward to a year later ---> i move in with my sister and we threw a party here. I met the guy she used to date and he was totally my type. At the party we talk, he tells me he doesn't like my sister and i gave him my number, seeing as i was a little intoxicated i gave him the wrong number. SO a month after the first party goes by i forget about him. We throw another party here and he comes again. This time we really hit it off and i gave him my correct number. We have talked ever since and we hang out on a weekly basis. I really enjoy his company and we are kinda a "Thing" now. BUT i just found out that between the time of the first party and the second party he continued to text my sister and try to "talk" to her. SO now i feel weird knowing that although the first party he told me he wasn't interested in my sister he still tried to talk to her after. Is this weird? He doesn't ever bring up my sister and makes it a point to avoid her. What should i do? I feel as if i'm second choice. My sister is fine with it. that's not really the problem. I'm just wondering if this is weird? Maybe i shouldn't talk to him? Or maybe i should talk to him about it? 6 minutes ago Ok so i think i might have been a bit confusing. Since me and this guy started talking and seeing eachother he has not talked to, tried to talk to, or tried anything with my sister. We started talking after the 2nd party. things didn't work out with them because my sister goes threw guys like nothing. In my eyes he is a really sweet guy and my sister even says so. I wanna believe that if he had met me and my sister he would have picked me first but he didn't even know i existed at the time he and she met. I feel really shitty because until today things have been going extremely well. And since i moved up here i haven't met anyone i've enjoyed hanging out with as much as him until now. Open Question: does freshman year kind of suck, or am i just being a baby?0kay i go to this highschool, its pretty nice and everything supposedly great educatoin system whatever has a nice perfect image to it, full of "nice" suburban people. whatever that doesnt bother me too much, but some days it is soo annoying with all these people who dress and act the same, and are freinds in the same groups and date the same type of people blah blah blah. and most of my friends got to a different high school, and they are having so much fun cuz they go to a school where its not like all stuck up i guess? and i have like a few freinds, but if you dont have a solid "group" you are like a damn loner here. also there is this one girl who i am sort of freinds with, she was tight with my cousins back in chicago thats how iknow her and now she lives here. and shes nice and stuff but she is the type of person who is verrrryyyy eccentric and always talking about themselves and their problems, plus she is bi polar so it adds to her like crazy moods. and so many people at school think she is crazy cuz she swears and talks like she is from the ghetto all the time. omg... its embarrassing kind of/// and how do you handle people like this??!?? i really dont want to stay freinds with her cuz she like drains you with all the things she does and she is always up in my face . omgg hellpp. sorry for the long sob story ahh .. Open Question: I want to ask out my best friend, advised against it, but it's complicated. I know its long but what do I do?This girl is a close friend of mine. We've been friends since freshman year of college, and while we kind of dated (neither of us called it that) that came to an abrupt end after a friend of mine drunkenly suggested to her that she make my night and I guess just completely freaked her out. After that we really didn't hang out a whole lot up again for about half a year. 3 years later now she's giving me all kinds of signs towards something. She's gotten ridiculously comfortable around me, which seems weird when you put it in context of her being one of the shyest people I've ever met. She'll change clothes around me even if I'm having a conversation with her in a position with a clear view of her changing. I've never even seen her hold hands with anyone except me, when drunk. Problem is, I asked one of her roommates her opinion a little while back (a mutual friend of both of ours) who said I probably shouldn't and I had probably waited too long. Yet my friend still continues to give me signs that make me want to try to legit ask her out. She still lets me stay nearly every weekend at her place and trusts me more than almost anyone else. What do you do here? Ignore advice and ask her out anyway? I want to just hug her and tell her I want to take her out on a date but knowing her she might get weirded out with even just a hug if she's sober. Get her a little bit of alcohol first before I ask her out even though that seems horribly wrong? Open Question: Its long but please read and answer. Need Advice!?My boyfriend and I broke up 4 months ago. It had been a 3 and half year relationship and we had plans of being together forever, as do most long term relationships. After we broke up I liked another guy who was my exboyfriend's friend (We'll call him J) J had liked me for over a year while we didn't talk and legitimately loves me. Once he found out I had feelings towards him, he was a complete sweetheart, as always. He brought me on the most amazing date, including golf, lunch, a mountain walk, watching the sunset, he rented a movie and he even gave me a back massage. He seemed perfect. So, I decided to date him. While we were dating, every time we drank he was really mean and acted angry. He'd say hurtful things many times. Since I have a father who's an alcoholic, it reminded me of that and hit home for me. Plus, I started to realize I wasn't over my ex. I thought, if I talk to him it will be fine. So we had a little talk about his drinking. One night he drank to the point where he almost burnt my house down while sleep walking. Not his fault, but still a problem. So, I broke up with him. I had told him it was mostly because I wasn't over my ex. Which, he helped me through. After a month of being friends I was starting to get over my ex. J was really trying. He was nice when he drank and still hasn't gotten drunk like he used to. He says he'd do anything for me. Then.. I get a phone call from my ex boyfriends mom saying the ex was in the hospital because J beat him up. Story was, J had been harassing the ex for a couple months and wanted to fight even though my ex didn't want to, he had no other choice. J hit him once and he hit his head on the pavement when he went down so hard that he got memory loss and brain damage from it. I got extremely upset, worried and disappointing in J. I'm not a violent person, I hate confrontations and anger. So I told him I never want anything more then friends. Well after a while J couldn't handle just being friends because he loved me too much, which I understood. It just hurt being so close. We said a last goodbye and he left my house. I was miserable again for 4 days... then he started talking to me again because he said not talking didn't help, it just made it worse. So here we are again.. I do have feelings for him.. but After the drinking situations(which are fixed), the fight which he was a complete *** about, and my ex's parents always telling me how much of a loser he is.. I don't know what to do. Also, my mother says hes a good guy but I should lay low and single for a while. idk I like him but he loves me.. should I just give him another chance? Or look outside the box? Open Question: Thinking about losing my virginity. Please help. I'm 17.?So im 17. I've always said that i was going to wait till i was married to have sex. I started dating this guy on November 28th. I've fallen for him fast! The most ive done really is made out with guys. Hes the 3rd guys ive kissed and i see myself doing more with him. I know hes not a virgin and he said he wont pressure me into anything. I just wanna have sex with him. The problem is that hes a senior and im a junior. We are only one month apart in age tho. My problem is that if i lose my virginity to him, will i regret it since hes gonna be leaving for college and i know we wont be dating when hes in college. I dont know what to do. Should i just experiment with everything else besides sex? Open Question: Does anyone else have this problem?First off, I'm a 20 year old guy in college. All of my friends are around my age. It seems like when one of my friends has a girlfriend, I seriously almost never see them because they are always with their girlfriends. I on the other hand never have a girlfriend or date or anything (I suck with girls!)Because of this, I am always left out and sitting at home alone watching TV or on the computer. (like I am now) I only see my friends maybe once a week anymore. So my question is, what am I to do? does anyone else, girls or guys, have this problem? Open Question: Moving away from true love????ok so i am IN LOVE WITH THIS ONE GUY. his name is kenny and i <3 him more than life. he: -texts me everyday -holds my hand in front of our friends -tells me he loves me everyday -always tells me how beautiful i am- -will randomly message me love quotes on myspace -took me to new moon on our first date and insisted on paying for everything So yeah hes basically the perfect guy <3 Just one problem: im moving this summer Open Question: I have problems with women, help?So I'm 16, and I've had my first girlfriend just a year ago, and she broke up with me while I was asking for a hug. (NO LIE lmao) Then I dated this other one who dumped me because her friend didn't like me. And my last one basically put me through hell, she cheated, dumped me numerous times and went back to the ex. Mind you, I was extremly nice to all of them and I know how to properly treat people, I try to make the person I'm dating feel special and be really nice/happy torwards them. But jeez, it just feels like women (Women I've encountered) walk all over me. Now I've been single and I don't know anyone I like, and I'm not like trying to rush into dating. But I'm craving sex like alot, and I don't know why. I want to do it, but I don't like to hook up with a girl I don't really like. There is some girls I admire and think are pretty but my self esteem is in the gutter and I'm too frightened to talk to them. I mean, I'm sure this is just a period in my life, but it bugs me. I don't get any girls! Well, any pointers are greatly appreciated, thank you. Open Question: Like this girl but I have a problem?ok i meet this girl last year and we became good friends,but i think it could maybe be more. Here are the facts. The first time we met she came to talk to me,i didnt go to her and we became friends imidiately Now during this time she was dating so i never aksed her out,but it turns out the people she dated were complete jerks. Now she hates highschool relationships,and i respect that,but heres were it gets complicated,when going home on the bus from a compition,we cuddle and basically fall asleep on eachother.We agree on everything and she laughs at the jokes i occasionaly say that arent very funny.we talk constanly online,she even had me sing to her.Now ive never asked her out before,but everytime a friend brings up relationships,she says she hates them.then she tells me she wishes he could find nice guy who respects her but ist going to be an asshole or be a pansy. I fit that category. I want to be that guy,but im hesitent to ask. Im pretty sure what i listed isnt something she does with other people,and im 90% sure im not taking this the wrong way,it could be a mixed message but,i just dont know,what do you think? do you think she likes me?,im planning to get her a gift this sturday,and did i mention shes from the city next to me which isnt far but i only see her on saturdays. im going to ask her out either way i just want to make sure that im not the only one who sees this as something more. p.s. the part about her no like relationships is never brought out when i talk to her only when her friends do Open Question: How can a get a guy to ask me out? Please don't say I should ask him out myself. Please read details?I've just started law school this year and am really lonely. Make that extremely lonely. I'm 26..never been on a date before or had a relationship with anyone. I just don't want to hit 40 and still be alone. I've made a lot of efforts of introduce myself to guys in my class or anyplace I'm out. I make small talk with them and smile a lot..a lot know I'm single too. I've noticed some seem to get weird or uncomfortable when I talk to them. I don't understand why because I'm easy going and polite..nothing different from normal. I know men are visual so I do my best to look nice but natural. I'm slim and work out..I wear light makeup, I wear perfume and am clean (for a while I was paranoid that maybe men didn't ask me out because I smelled or something), I keep my hair long, and I wear pretty nice clothes. Please don't take this as me being full of myself but I do get a lot of compliments on my looks and am told I'm beautiful (but rarely from guys my age..mostly older men and women or younger children); that's one of the first things people comment on when first meeting me. I brought that up because I thought if I look well kept and am nice I'd be able to get a guy to show some interest in me. I approach guys I like and talk to them but I get nothing. I don't want to ask a guy out because I'd like to be pursued. Please understand that. I feel like a reject. It's like I have some weird force field around me. I don't know if people think I'm weird..I don't act weird. It's like when I first started school I noticed a lot of my classmates were just staring at me. When I'm with a friend they will point this out too. I'm not an alien but sometimes I feel like one based on how some people act around me. I just really want someone to share my life with. Has anyone else had this problem or do know anyone else that has? Any explanation? Thanks. Now time for my daily sob. More Recent Articles
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