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Open Question: What should I do with this pain? and more... Open Question: What should I do with this pain?Ok Im here because I have no one to talk and Im in some serios pain right now.Ok...You guys will think Im pathetic when I say this but here goes. I never had a girlfreind before and Im 17 still in highschool.Im just not good with girls. There was this one day where I just felt really loneley and hopless and I always thought that I was never meant to be with someone I love.I would always be lonely livin in a house bymyself for the rest of my life.well that day I decided to go hunting...but in the wrong place.craigslist and I found a girl thats 21.and we started emailin eachother.But I was never really planning to fall in love I just wanted to know how it feels to get a girlfreind.This girl was a freak she was bi and loved sex.and we even had cyber(It was her idea)...anyways I eventually started to talk her more and more and we even talked on the phone a couple of times.we even exchanged pics.then one day she said shes startin to have feelings for me and thats when we started to go out.shes told me so many things about her and eventually even said she loves me...but I didnt really feel the same so I just went with it.Then we finally meet one day and we went on a date to the museum.I even got my first kiss ever :).and the whole day felt like magic.It might of been the best day of my life cause it felt so right.but this girls a freak...and at times she would only think about sex.anyways we went on a couple of more dates and got more sexual.but not to the point where I lost my virginity. The problem is that she lives very far from me...like a 3 hour trip away from me.and I only see her like once a week. I ve grown this feeling...I call it love. the feeling of always wanting her to be with me.I wanna live my life with her and even get married.and she says she feels the same.now were having sex and I lost my virginity to her and was proud...but now Im not.I cant tell if this girl really loves me.If she really cares or she just wants a boy toy to have sex with.and now everyday I cant sleep without the fear of her cheating cause I barley see her and we dont talk as much as she used.It makes me suspicious cause she thinks about sex a lot.I literally get thoughts about her cheating on me 24/7. I dont wanna be hurt.I dont wanna lose this girl. I ll never find another girl like her...In fact I ll never find another girl again.Im hopless.Ive sacrificed so much for her.and she might be toying with my heart.I talked to her about the way I felt and she was "hurt" cause she thought I trusted her...but were still together.This girl has literally stolen my heart. and she can do whatever she wants with it. I wanna trust her. But its just so hard.and my pain is increasin more and more everyday.the only thing on my mind is her all the time.The thought of her lying to me and cheating would literally kill me. Id never date again cause I just wont find another one...how can I trust this girl?is she cheating?what should I do? And yes I know its illegal but it doesnt bother me. Open Question: Would you say it's in my best interest to leave him after this?So this is kind of my fault. I told my boyfriend about my fantasy to get spanked by a guy, and he said he'd be glad to do that for me. Problem is he hit me far harder than I could handle and basically held me down refused to stop until I had tears in my eyes. I did tell him to quit, but he thought I was playing a game...like the whole being punished and begging for mercy thing. So he continued. Now, hours later my butt is still really tender to the touch...feels as if there's internal bruising or something. When he asked why I was crying, I told him that I was totally serious about telling him to stop, and he did apologize and said I could kick him in his balls if I wanted. He asked if he could give me a back rub or if I just wanted him to get out of my house, and I told him I didn't really care what he did, so he pulled up a chair next to my bed and rubbed my back until I fell asleep. So he is remorseful, but now I'm kinda scared of him. Should I continue to date him accepting that it was my fault or leave him? Open Question: Has my girlfriend crossed the line?I have been dating my girlfriend who is 19 for 10 months. She recently started texting an old crush of hers from work, but he is 29 years old and lives about 600 miles away. He never really liked her at the time probably because she was 17. After a few years he starts taking an interest to her. I don't mind if my girlfriend has other male friends, it is just the fact that he texts her all the time, when we are in bed together, during the day, and when we are sleeping because he claims he has insomnia. I read one of the texts and he said "I would do a few positions first and then let you have your way with me." she replied, "I would take control not giving a F*** about what you wanted." I called her on this and she said it was harmless and she is just teasing him because that "asshole" never liked me before so now i am just messing with him. Now all i can think about when she is texting is how she wants to have sex with him. She has always told me she has had a problem with flirting and how she would never act on any of it, she also seems to think that it isn't that big of a deal, and reminds me how he lives in another state. What if she continues talking to him after I already told her how I feel? Am i just being to insecure about this? What should I do? Open Question: Is it in my best interest to leave him?So this is kind of my fault. I told my bf about my fantasy to get spanked by a guy, and he said he'd be glad to do that for me. Problem is he hit me far harder than I could handle and basically held me down refused to stop until I had tears in my eyes. I did tell him to quit, but he thought I was playing a game...like the whole being punished and begging for mercy thing. So he continued. Now, hours later my butt is still really tender to the touch...feels as if there's internal bruising or something. When he asked why I was crying, I told him that I was totally serious about telling him to stop, and he did apologize and said I could kick him in his balls if I wanted. He asked if he could give me a back rub or if I just wanted him to get out of my house, and I told him I didn't really care what he did, so he pulled up a chair next to my bed and rubbed my back until I fell asleep. So he is remorseful, but now I'm kinda scared of him. Should I continue to date him accepting that it was my fault or leave him? Open Question: I need to get out of an abusive relationship- long story involved?Please guys, serious and helpful comments only please. Im seriously begging for help here. I am 25 years old and had a baby in 2007 with a man I was in a relationship for 3 years. My babys daddy was really abusive while I was pregnant, before and after. He did ****** up **** like chased me around with a tazer, and controlled everything in my life. I don't want any haters to ask me what the hell I was thinking. It's really un explainable. My mom was in an abusive relationship and I used to always tell her I had no sympathy for her because she was the one who chose to be in that relationship and could have gotten out of it sooner than she did. I never understood until I was in one myself. It's unexplainable. It's not that I didn't think I didn't deserve someone better I just was scared to leave, scared he would find me, kill me, start my parents house on fire or do numerous things he had threatened on a daily basis. When I called the police on him it really didn't do any good. It was ridiculous what the police called "help." Sure they helped me press charges and they pressed charges but nothing good came from any of it and it only made my life more difficult. Anyway, I ended up leaving him when he got physical infront of our daughter for the first time and her and I went to a shelter for 3 months and then I had resources from being in the shelter and they helped me get into a program that paid a partal amount of my rent so I could afford to have a place for my daughter and I. I never kept her from him, we worked out a custody agreement....he is a good dad when we are not together but a terrible dad when we are together because of the way he treats me infront of her. My daughter does not need to experience that, witness that or be in the middle of the abuse. It was 50/50 custody and it toally sucked for the first few months because I couldn't stand not having my 1 and a half year old daughter with me all the time, but I got used to it because I had no choice and I wasn't going to get back with him just so I could have her everyday. She was better off sharing custody with her parents than witnessing an abusive relationship. I was apart from him for 8 months and then I had 4 girls jump me at my apartment complex (one of them was supposed to be my best friend), they decided to jump me over the stupidest thing ever..... I had a new boyfriend and wasnt hanging out with her as often as before and she was upset about it and wouldn't compromise her time for me spending time with my new boyfriend. Well when I got into this fight the cops were called by a neighbor and we all got tickets because we were all fighting even though they started it and I was just defending myself. Im not going to let 4 girls jump me without a fight, of course I was going to defend myself and fight back. Because we all got tickets we all got kicked out of our apartments and out of the government program we were in. I was terrified with where I would go. I have no family. My mom and dad live in a different state along with most of my family except the ones I refuse to live with because they are meth addicts or do not have a good living condition that I would want to bring my daughter into. I was going to go live with a friend for a few months while she tried to help me figure out how I could live in my own apartment with my daughter but Steve saw this as his way back in (I didn't think about that at that time but I realize this now) so he begged for me back, cried and pleaded, said he didn't want to loose me and that he had changed, and that he would go to anger management classes. This went on for weeks of him sincerely asking for me to give him another chance. I stupidly did beaing nieve and thinking that maybe I could give it one more chance. Everything was great for 3 months, we didn't argue, he respected me and talked with me when problems arose instead of arguing or attacking me or making me feel like I was stupid or something was my fault. He went over finances with me, spent time with us and just was the perfect guy...prince charming.....everything I had always hoped I could have with my baby's daddy. I love him and want to grow old together and have a bigger family. Everything was perfect. For the last 2 months he has slowly been getting worse, arguing with me over any small disagreement, yelling at me infront of our daughter, not calling me to check in after 10 hours of being gone. Im not his probation officer but I think it is just respectful to check in with your family to let them know how your day is going, when you may be expected to come home, just common respect in my eyes. I show him that respect and he expects it, almost demands it but yet he doesn't give me the same respect. We don't talk like best friends anymore, we don't laugh together, have conversations, go out on dates, I feel like when we talk it is business. Like he will day things like "hey do you know where this is, can you find it for me? Hey can you goo google this for me?" It's like when we talk it is just on business type terms not normal loving conversations.Anyway, he got physical with me infront of my daughter over the stupidest thing last night. I asked him if my daughter and I could go up to my grandparents for a couple of hours on Christmas because my parents are coming out out for christmas. He blew up saying he isn't allowed up there so no and to shut my mouth about the topic. Well here comes another bad part about this situation... He is my moms brother and he raped me. I was nutral about abortion, he didnt believe in abortion and neither did my family after we spent a thousand dollars on genetic testing to see if our baby would be deformed. My daughter is amazing, healty and totally up to the level she should be at in all developmental aspects.....thank god. Well, this is why he is not allowed at my parents, my dad hates him to death and has every reason to. I need help, any resourses you guys might have to help me, thank Open Question: I'm in love with my not-single, best friend... to wait, or not to wait?So... after a year of horrible, horrible things- my mom committed suicide, my sister who i was taking care of got REALLY into drugs and i had to put her in foster care, i flunked outta college, I got led on and then brushed off (Again...) by the guy I was in love with for years, rebounding with a guy that got me pregnant (on the pill, i might add...) after two weeks and then went abusive-psycho, losing the baby and then having to have surgery for it... After all that, you'd think that maybe things would get easier for a bit. And that's when I realized that the guy I've been best friends with, through all of this, the one that has held me, talked me through and let me soak his shirt and pillows and many other cloth-covered items in tears... is the best thing that ever happened to me. The problem is, other than a mild crush since high school (7 or 8 years ago...) I didn't recognize the love between us as more than just friends... until I found out that someone else felt the same way about him as I do, a few months ago. This last two weeks, with losing my baby, has been the hardest of the whole year, and ive been staying with him, at first sleeping on his floor, but five nights ago i slept in his bed with him and he held me through a whole lot of agony and tears and... well... two days later I had to tell him how i feel. It turns out, he's been crazy about me since he was 14... but he won't leave Olivia for me. He's mad I didn't tell him how I felt before she came along, and I'm mad he didn't tell me. Yay for mixed messages. Since that night, there have been some serious all-nighter cuddles and lots and lots of touching, though we've both controlled ourselves and he hasn't cheated on her. Close, very close... but nothing that could damage either of our moral sensibilities. He is one of those rare, chivalrous guys... one of the reasons I truly love him. This is his first real relationship- he's 22- and I can't get over the feeling that with all we have in common, and the love that really, truly is there between us, and knowing he's a genuinely honest good person... that I should wait for him. I asked him if he'd date me, if he wasn't with her, and he told me that he would, in a heartbeat... but, again with the chivalry- he won't just up and break up with her out of the blue. Again, this is his first real relationship, and I really doubt it will last forever- they live 9 hours apart. Should I wait?? Am I crazy? Open Question: Ma girlfriend is a wonderful woman,i love and she also loves me.But i have this problem.?I have not hv sex b4 i met this lady and always wish 2 marry a virgin. But i fell in love with his girl b4 knowing that she is not a virgin. My problem is that it pains and haunts me any time i remember that a girl am dating and promised to marry is laid by more than one man. This makes me develop some hatred for her even though at the same time i love her because i abstained from sex because i dont want to mess ma life. Anytime i have this feeling i feels very bad and dont respect her again. I personally dont like what am feeling but i finds it very difficult to let go of it any time ma friends or people share the number of virgins they break and honestly i feel like cheating on her because i feel that such a girl dont deserve a man like me but at the same time am afraid to lose her in the process of having a chance to break one, because i sincerely and from the bottom of ma heart love her sooo much and she als loves me that much. plez help me out of this feeling. Open Question: Friend and Ex BF problem. please help.?Im 13. This Guy added me on facebook. we had 200 mutual friends his profile pictue was so ugly. he went to my school. He was a year older. he sytrated talking to me and kept txting me i got annoyed but whatever. I didnt really know him. His face was familiar though. He asked me to be his secret girlfriend I agreed. We broke up the next day. me and my friends would always make fun of his profile picture and his way wit words. He asked me out a week later I said yea. Tha night I had a dream we were sitting toegther snugling and holidng hands. A week after i met up with him. He was sooooo HOT! he looked exactly like he was in my dream. he didnt talk. he was soo shy! my friend told me not to talk to freaks so pulled me away when i turned around he was wlaking away. We texted our feeling and got back together. We went out for dinner. Than walked in the dark. I got to know him so well. We mae plans the day after he had so much to say. We fell inlove wed hold hands and snuggle (just lk in my dream). One day I was with my friends and he kised me on the cheack. theybtold me i was moving too fast. We had an agreement to stay prude til Sophmore year. But i kissed him anyway. My friends found out and arent alowd to talk to me. i didnt care cause i still had him. One day he told me his friends hate me so he wanted to be secretly dating. I said fine. It was hard to hangout, so we didnt. I decided to breakup with hmimbecause it want wrking out. We talked after. A month after i decided to ignore him cause i wanted to get over him. He would keep texting me "wsp" after 10"wsps" he told me he lovd me i told him i love him back. The next day he was with his freiends so started to be rude when he texte dme i said fine dont taalk to me. i found out all my old friernds love him and he went out with 2 of them. I forgave hima nd now we talk once in a while. He told me old best friends that are now my enemie that he hates my guts and regret going out with me i asked him if its true he denyed ever saying that. I forgave him but i still blieve he said it. i still love him. last week he told me i love yu. than the next day we were talking he told me why everyone thinks we madeout i sed idk i told him he was my greeneyed lover he told me he only wnats to be frends and he said he ment "i love you" as a friend i told him no he didnt and he cant just change his mind. my friend told me to tell him that i like him as a friend too so i sed "ha! i like you just as a friend too" than he said "i love you rit u think u can control me but you cant ok" i got so confused but understood he was playing with my head again i told him enough with lying ad chnaging your mind he sed "u never say anything sweet or nice that why poeple hate u" he crushed me. i told him i didnt want everything to get to peresonal so i told him bye. in school my friend told me he told her he hates me and that shes dating him. i know she was kidding bout the dating part to make me jelus but i knew the hating part wa strue 2 hours ago he texted me "wsp" i sed "im a btsh and u hate me" he sed "stfu i nvr called u a btsh" i sed "bye. dont start" than an hour after he texted me "wsp" i ignored him he kept saying "wat did i do wrong" than i told him they hes telling people you hate me hes lke "wtf r u saying" than i told him "karol told me you hate me and that your dating her" hes like "yea im dating her" I CRYED FOR 10 hours because me and her were friends. in school i found out they were both liing about dating to make me jeolous. she caims "they broke up" bt i got the truth from one of her best friends. they just told me to make me jelous. noone like sme cause i kissed him. and everytime i tak to my old best friends they roll there eyes and start telling secrets. the all laugh. and i feel crushed. idk what to do about my friends situationa nd my ex bf situation. please help. Open Question: if you were an actor and a fan had called you to ask you for help to become an actor, what would you do?A friend of mine went on vacation in May of 2008 to Hollywood, CA. He had mentioned it to a guy on Hollywood Blvd. The guy had told him if he knew an actor or actress. He could get a hold of him or her to help him to become an actor. So he went back to Michigan and called the Screen Actor Guild (S A G) and named a few celebrities. One was Actor Danny Pintauro. He had called the number (thinking it was his agent's number. Come to find out it was Danny Pintauro's cellphone number. He had thought that Dan had called him back under private name or unknown number. So he called him back a few times. Instead of Dan calling him back. He had text messaged him saying he never called him back and don't call him again and he had called the police on him. This happened while he was on vacation celebrating his birthday in Hollywood, CA in 2009. Boy, Dan is a real snob! Dan Pintauro would not like it if someone had done that to him. Dan should be ashamed of himself. Especially he had posted an ad on a dating gay website. Also has a nude picture of him on the internet. Just go to google and type in Danny Pintauro and go to image results. Click on it you would see it there. My opinion he is a coward, a wimp, and a weirdo little freak. My friend wasn't even threatening Dan Pintauro in any way shape or form. I think he should grow up and handle his own problems. Thankfully my friend was told the right way. Not realizing that he doesn't need help from anyone. He just had to use his head and think. More Recent Articles
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