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Open Question: what should i say to her? and more... Open Question: what should i say to her?Please take the time to read fully: thanks! So I'm 24 and bisexual. The story of how I met this girl is quite long but basically we met in graduate school during a 3 week field placement where we worked together as a partnership. At the time I had not spoken to her before because we had different groups of friends at school. We quickly got to know each other very well and laughed and joked so much and realized we have lots in common and that we enjoy each other's company. I never talked about being bisexual. About half way into the placement she added me to facebook and it said she was interested in both men/women. I got very excited, still didn't reveal it myself, but it made me more attracted to her. And I did not expect it one bit, because she is gorgeous and spoke about just having started dating this guy. Anyway, she didn't know I'm bi, but from what i heard from mutual friends she "liked" me a lot and had tons of fun with me. Near the end of the placement she started hinting more at it and always stated things like "I don't know if this guy likes me, would you like me?" and just little cute things. But she never outwordly stated anything. When we returned to normal classes we sort of stopped speaking. It was my fault because by this point I had started falling for her so much that I became nervous and anxious and just avoided her - stupid I know. But I had such a crush! I would read her text msgs like 100 times over! silly I know! Anyway, about 6 months later we started talking again and our friendship redeveloped. I always got butterflies around her and I think she did too - it was a weird mix of feelings and tension when stood next to each other - it was cute and fun and I miss it so much! I even think other people started noticing. Fast forward to today She is still dating the same guy. She loves him and wants to be with him. This i know. But she still complains about him - it's not perfect. He's controlling and a little mean and immature at times. I've since revealed my bisexuality. She states that she doesn't believe in it. I know she's hooked up with girls though. I feel like maybe she is lying because she's not into me or because being with a guy is the 'right thing' for a young woman to do. It's just all so weird because I feel like it's been such a roller coaster of emotions for me. I mean at first it was that crush, nervousness, butterflies, love. And I know for a fact, that even if very tiny, there were some reciprocal feelings on her part, even if only at the beginning when she was still intrigued by me. I've been in love with her ever since the start - over a year now! And I think about her all the time. Even when we weren't talking, I always thought of her. We are really amazing friends now. We have a very strong friendship and I have so much fun with her and just love being with her. I just don't know what to do. She has my heart. I will do anything for her and want her to be happy no matter what. The problem is: I can't tell her how I feel because she apparently loves the guy. She talks a lot about him now and less about anything to do with bisexuality or her past with girls. I don't want to interfere with her relationship and maybe she just realized she wants a man in her life. At the same time, I love her, and I know I can love her better than he can. This love is preventing me from dating anyone else because all I think of is her. So yes I've been alone for over a year, being her shadow, while she's with a guy who doesn't treat her too well - call me pathetic if you want. I just can't let go. I don't want to hurt our friendship but I have all these feelings bottled up. Please help me with your advice! Open Question: I NEED HELP WITH MY DELL INSPIRON MINI 10!! NOT NOT 10v!!!?ok so i havent gotten my dell mini 10 NOT 10v!! yet, but i have a few questions anyways, i want to be prepared. ok so please forgive me, im HORRIBLE at understanding computers, laptops and netbooks. so dont judge me when i ask questions that may be something you learned in kindergarten, lol ok? 1. anyways my dad said that my "net book" isn't really a net book he said that the SIZE is a net book size, but the progams in it are NOT. is this true? i mean my dad woulnt purchase a net book, cause he told me they are a waste of money. but then again, who knows. i have 160GB of "free space" i dont know where i have the 160GB so bare with me here lol, and yea, i paid ALOT of money for this, sooo well actually my parents but its a lot of money for something origanlly cost 400$, my parents paid 1200$ we bought some other stuff like a cordless mouse and the wasabi printer and an external DVD/CD player, but still. is what my dad said true? be honest with me please, and i compared the cost of the mini 10v and the 10 and the 10 was more expensive by 200$.. so is the PROGRAM a net book or a notebook? 2. and im SOOO confused about the tv tuner, ok so i know you plug it in the USB port and then what do you do? do you just wait or something? or can you choose the shows that pop up? and can you watch shows on nickelodian or disney? or is it something boring like fox? and can you see what shows are next and everything (like a tv schedule thing)? 3. and ive been wondering this question for a long time, well actually for a couple of days BUT anyway, you guys know the game toontown? ok well i was wondering if i can download that game on my (soon to come) mini 10? on the laptop im using now it took up 221MB. will that be a problem? i stopped playing toon town but i LOVE that game! so can i play toon town on my mini 10 or will it be too much for such a small "net book"???. and if i can play that game on it then will it be slow and choppy or will it be fast and quick? and with that game downloaded on my mini will the internet (windows 7) be slow or fast? 4. ok so i have the wasabi printer for my dell laptop. net book WHATEVER. and im really curious as to how im gonna use it. i got the printer today, 2 days before schedule :). i printed 2 pictures off my moms canon camera the quality, is eh, not great but not horrible. anyway, on my mini my dad didnt get bluetooth, will that a problem? or does the "net book" come with special cable thing? the printer came with no instructions on how to print photos off the computer itself. so how will i print off photos? 5. are there any cons i need to know? please name all the cons and if you have time name the pros too :), please. thank you!! BONUS: on the shipping status, it says that my laptop is still in "production" AKA still in the making. and it said the estimated delivery date is JANUARY 29!! im supposed to have all this stuff for my BIRTHDAY! which was yesterday! and my dad ordered it on the 10th of december! will it really take more than A MONTH for it to ship over to my house?!?!?! thanks! and please forgive me, i am pratically a dumbie when it comes to computers and such, PS what is an ethernet port? josh: excuse me, but it was NOT a waste of money, and i simply asked you a question not your opinion. and if it WAS a waste of his money, then why would he get it? my dad said he upgraded almost every thing so it could be more "high" tech or something, i dont know. and he said the PROGRAM INSIDE the "net book" is NOT how an actual net book works he said it will act just like a regular NOTE BOOK!! is my dad right? or not? just the SIZE is net book size not the program inside the laptop!!! is my dad right? Open Question: Having some problems. any girlfriend advice?I am a senior in high school and have been dating a girl for three years. We have shared so many fun times together and seem to be the poster couple of our high school. Recently we have just not been getting along and ill admit its mostly because of me. I think since it has been so long, we have just grown tired of one another. We dont laugh as much as we used to and I never get the puppy love feeling that I used to have. I tend to just feel annoyed and look for the wrong in most of the things she says and does. I dont mean to but I just do subconciously. Also, the sexual part of our relationship has gone way downhill. We rarely do anymore and when we do it just doesnt feel the same. We are going to college in a few 7-8 months when we are going to have to break up but should I try to fix what is going on or call it quits.... Open Question: how far should i go with her?I have recently started dating my ex wife again. since our break up I have been very lonely and haven't dated much and the dates I have been on the most i have seen any one woman was 3 dates. after a few drinks and them telling me more than I want to know or something else would frighten me away and I just couldn't hang with them, but with my ex wife I enjoy the time we spend together and the sex has always been good and I have always thought of her as a friend. the problem I'm having is forgiving her for the way she treated me before our break up the lies and cheating has left me very gun shy about getting in to deep. sometimes I feel I should just hit it and go and some times I want to make it work again. I never stopped loving her and I don't know what to do If she could be true to me I might even want to try again so what does everybody think? Open Question: Do you think he likes me?Do you think he likes me? Ok, so I am not to sure if this guy likes me or not so I want others opinions. I have class with this guy who I really really like. And some say he likes me back but im not sure. But anyway, here recently I have been having some problems with this other guy. And one day the other guy made me cry and the guy I like didnt find out about it until we got home and I texted him. And when I told him he got super mad. And he doesnt usually do that. And he was saying how he was going to set stuff straight with this other guy and everything. And he was like "Your amazing dont let him get you down." Well things got worse with this other guy and now the other guy is spreading a rumor saying that me and the guy I like are going out. And I told the guy I like about it and he got mad. So I automatically got defensive, and was just like dont worry I am going to get him to stop I am not going to let ppl think u are dating the ugly fat girl. And he sent a message back saying "Your beautiful, I just dont like when fake rumors get started." And we talk everyday. But I always have to be the first one to talk. And on his myspace top friends I am number 4 and there are 2 other girls in front of me. And the other day he texted me and was talking about how this cute goth girl sits next to him and wants to know if I think she is flirting with him. So I just dont know if he does. I mean hes asking about another girl. Isnt that a big sign that he doesnt? What does everyone else think? Open Question: HELP!!!! please i have a HUGE problem! ! 2 guys, cnt choose!?omfg! ok so last year in 8th grade i dated this guy for almst the whole year and we went out this year for lik 2 weeks at the beginning of the year then he broke up with mee. (we had alredy broken up once over the summer but got back together) it took mee awhile to get over him, but i did eventualy. now im dating this guy who ive been frends with for a long time who i rely like. i just found out that my old bf still really likes mee (he told my frend over myspace). and i think i still rely like him but i rely like my current bf too! my old bf didnt treat mee so well but i loved him anyways. my new bf is soo sweet. HELP!!! Open Question: Why is she still interested in me?I think a week ago, i was talking to this girl. We have been talking for months over the phone. I have switched schools since May, the last time I've seen her. Well anyways we chatted on Facebook, and I soon after told her that her profile pic was cute. Funny thing happened was that after I commented her picture, said said "yea, that pic reminds me of my bf". Of course bf means boyfriend but why all of the sudden to tell me that? To me back in my place or what? Before we chatted I asked her out, she said "yea" but now i think its a hang out as in friends than a date. She then asked me if she could bring her friend. I said "yea of course", then she replied that i will like her soon after she described her as nice & cute. That's cool with me, it's sorta strange that she will describe her friend like that for some reason though but after the whole bf deal, i don't really want to have anything to do with her anymore since she pissed me off like that. A couple days later she sent me a mail asking me when can i go to the mall with her and her friend, i then told her that i was not sure, and whenever they were available. I'm still going with them no matter what since i haven't saw her in a while. I know I said alot about my problem since this really affects me when it comes to relationships on here. So the real question is that why does she still want to have anything to do with me after she told me that she has a bf? Open Question: Would you ever date someone who's "not out"?I was just thinking how i'm always alone, and it would be good to find a partner to go out with and talk about each other's things. The problem is that I'm not out, and I don't plan to be out any time soon, so I was thinking if it's gonna be hard to find someone. And If I do find someone are they willing to go out with me after I tell them how things are with me. So would you put up with it and date someone who's in the closet? Do you think it's gonna be hard for me to find someone? Open Question: HELP BOYFRIEND Problems?So my boyfriend of two years used to be sweet and caring. I am totally in love with him. I think about him all the time and like i always want to be with him. But like he says he loves me too but, it doesn't seem like it. He is always saying I love you more but he only says I love u when I say I love u to him first. Like I am always the first one to text him in the morning like Good Morning I love you. I wont text him till like mid afternoon and Ask hows your day going? Like little texts like that just to show i am thinking about him and it lets him know i miss him. So i do this like almost everyday there isn't a day go by that we don't talk. So I was like what if I don't text him first would he text me?? So its saturday, and I haven't texted him all day or spoke to him nothing! And guess what NOT A SINGLE TEXT or phone call. And its SATURDAY! Don't most couples get together and go to a movie or date?? And We are in college and finals are over so don't you think he would want to go out and celebrate?? Like and I am always the one that texts him first wouldn't he notice something was off today?? Like a text saying "Hey Whats Wrong You haven't talked to me all day"?? Am I being paranoid?? Like dating for almost two years and every single day we have talked to each other and he doesn't say anything?? Am I being weird?? Oh and if he thinks i am busy or something wouldn't he ask Are you busy? Like he has done that before. And I would reply yea today I won't be able to hang out or something like that and he would reply oh ok I love u ttyl or something like that! He stopped doing that a long time ago. Do you think he is kinda losing interest in me? Open Question: Baby Shower question???I am due Feb 1st. We have the nursery almost finished, a crib, a burrow, and a swing...everyone keeps telling me to wait for my baby shower to get more stuff that I would need. I am having nightmares that she is going to be born before the baby shower. (its Jan 9th, just 3 weeks before my due date!) Should I wait? We arnt the wealthiest people but I have been working my ass off to make sure we can make it without a problem. I want her to have everything she would possibly need. Am I crazy to wait or just paranoid? Open Question: mute Icon that won't go away.?I have never seen a problem like this mute icon that I can't get rid of. I have a duel boot system. Windows vista and xp. I have an xfi elite pro audio card. I have a AMD phenom mother board quad processor. I have 4 gig ram. Whenever I have had a problem before I would go to the other operating system and the problem would not be on that system. But now this mute icon appears on both systems not only that IT APPEARS ON THE FIRST SCREEN WHEN I REBOOT AND ALL OF THE REBOOTING SCREENS AND SYSTEM LOG IN AND DESK TOP. It is though it has been written in the FAT or the cmos! It started when I opened a tv show that I downloaded this file was a metroska video file. I double clicked on the file and a unseen before video player opened up. I then tried to close the video player and when I closed it it left a icon saying mute with a red x crossing out a speaker. So far I have tried to find the video player with no luck. I have reinstalled the drivers to my audio card. I have restored the computer to an earlier date. I am now scanning the computer for viruses and malware. Does anyone have any idea how to get rid of this icon. Of course i right clicked it and tried to delete but the icon is always on top even when it comes to the mouse. Open Question: Girlfriend problems??me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 3 months now and from the begging of us dating she has been pinches me calling me stupid hitting me and staring at other guys that she thinks is hot. can you guys give me your opinion on this does she want something from me. does she like me? thanks More Recent Articles |
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