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Open Question: What to do with a homosexual roommate? and more...

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Open Question: What to do with a homosexual roommate? and more...

Open Question: What to do with a homosexual roommate?

Me and my roommate got along fine until he started talking about his relationship problems. He was dating Stevie who i assumed was a women until I found out otherwise. They broke up about three weeks ago and just found out Stevie was a man. I now realize that my roommate "Javy" is starting to flirt with me and check me out. I don't want to be mean and tell him to leave me alone or to stop watching me pee. I feel very uncomfortable but he is a good friend. I have other friends that say to just ignore while some say to kick his a**. I don't know what to do and yesterday I got fed up with it because we were talking about workouts when I noticed his penis to be slightly erect. Its uncomfortable and I need advice. Please HELP

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Open Question: How do I get back with her?

I broke up with my girlfriend of about a year. It's been about month sense I broke it off and I've started dating again. But the problem is I can't get her off my mind everytime I go out. I think I want back with her but I don't even know how to approach the situation... What do I do???

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Open Question: Acid reflux, anxiety, or something else?

For awhile now, I've had some symptoms that seem similar to what I've seen being described by sufferers of acid reflux. Occasionally I'll have slight chest pain (heartburn). I often have extremely uncomfortable bloating and/or gas (sorry for the TMI). This doesn't always happen immediately after eating--sometimes it happens without eating at all, and sometimes I eat and am fine. Those symptoms may be something unrelated or they may be a part of the following. I very, very often experience an uncomfortable sensation in my throat--I rarely (hardly ever) actually burp (have always been that way), but it's a feeling that I need to do so (and can't) or that I'm going to be sick (which I haven't actually done since elementary school). My stomach itself isn't usually the source of any discomfort (except with the bloating)--it's a sensation in my throat. When it occurs while/before eating, it makes it very difficult to finish/continue eating (even if my stomach is fine). It also makes it extremely difficult to talk, especially in one-on-one conversation where I have to talk for a long period without a break--because it's like I start breathing faster and feel extremely sick (throat/chest only, not stomach), and have to stop. It's also happened on occasion when I'm not having to talk or eat, and usually in a "social" situation. I'm not a shy person at all, and don't mind being in front of crowds--yet this has become a huge problem. I basically embarrassed myself during a friend's wedding in which I was reading a passage as I had to stop, breathe deeply, and basically looked like I was trying not to puke (which is what it felt like)--in another wedding, I wasn't speaking at all, but I was a bridesmaid and had the same feeling and response--got very fidgety, hand touching throat, etc. The thing is, it's become worse over time. It's gotten to the point now where I experience a similar feeling anytime I'm with someone I'm not totally comfortable with (by comfortable, I mean able to share anything--best friends, immediate family) and/or especially in one-on-one conversation or where I'm the focus. Eating with others (excluding immediate family/close friends) is difficult. Since I'm not a shy person and I actually had a good bit of experience with public speaking when I was younger (without experiencing this problem), this confuses me. I'm not sure if it's an anxiety issue showing up with physical symptoms or if it's a physical issue (like acid reflux). Either way, I'd like to find a way to control it--it's interfering with regular activities (like dating--ever tried hanging out one-on-one with a guy you've just met and are interested in and not been able to hold a conversation without seeming like you're constantly burping/hiccuping or about to have a panic attack?). I'm only 22 and healthy (or so I believe!). I realize that a doctor could also be of help, but I wanted some input here from people who may have experienced similar symptoms. If there's an OTC product that you think could help control the symptoms, or any other techniques, please share.

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Open Question: Isn't he wrong for what he's doing?

I post a question about a associate that is 18 and dating a 38 year old man and she always wants a baby with every guy she gets with. So someone answered my question and basically told me I should mind my business(nobody knows her on here, and the minute she has a problem she'll come to me and i'll have to hear it) and then the person said " well i think she has a better chance of having the 38 year old take care of a baby versus someone young and at least he told her to get on birth control) they've been together for about two weeks and he told her he doesnt want anymore kids(he already has like 3) but he had unprotected sex with her. she thinks he mature but i think he isnt because if you really dont want another child DON'T HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX! i think he would run out just because she gave it up so quick and he doesnt want more children, and doesnt mine messing with a girl young enough to be his daugher! could he be using her? I want to help her because i've seen a old man use someone i know and i know how smarter old men can be but she will get mad so i'll let her make her own decisions. would you let your daugher date a man this old? he is 10 years younger than her mom and her mom shoujld be slapped! im not trying to judge her but now that i think back on it her mom met a guy she went with once and let her spend the night with him out of town a week after they started dating!!! her mom wants her to have a child and when my son is her age i'll encourage him to have fun and make something out of himself.

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Open Question: getting parents to move to another state so I can be with someone I love?

how can i convince my parents to move to a different state so i can be with someone i really love. we've been dating for about 4 months and i haven't told them about him but they know of him. i really love him and i want to be with him. but i don't know how to get my parents to move. they want to move anyway but i don't know how to get them to move soon. i'm afraid that if i don't move soon that i'm gonna lose him. today we got into a fight cause he has trust problems and hes afraid i'm gonna cheat on him. i love him with all my heart and i just wanna be with him already. please help me. i'm begging. how can i get them to move and it will also help move the move along if you know of any teaching jobs in New Hampshire, possibly southern New Hampshire. Thank you all. I hope you can help me!

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Open Question: I can come across as creepy to women in social situations. How do I stop this?

It only seems to happen with the opposite sex and is greatly amplified when I'm under the influence; however, the problem is still there when I'm completely sober. I know that a lot of girls can be just as superficial as guys are accused of being so I should say that I don't feel that looks are really the problem. I'm good-looking, tall, and thin. I'm not at all stuck-up nor do I carry myself as god's gift to women but for all I know, that's exactly the problem. I'm also 6'3" so I'm not hitting on girls taller than me. I'm really funny but I don't think it comes out just right at first. I'm also very articulate, have a good command of the English language, and am a bit brainy. Interestingly, if I'm out on a date with a girl I met online or through other means, they already like me and this never seems to happen. It only happens with strangers. I know this is a very vague question, but I don't even necessarily know how to define exactly what creepy is. As a result, it's actually gotten to the point that complaints have been made about me and I'm not welcome at certain house parties. This has become a serious problem and I want to stop doing this. Please help. Thanks!

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Open Question: What do I do to get this girl?

Ok, so I met this girl a couple of years ago and shes 2 years older than I am (Im 17 and shes 19 now). I didn't think much other than, "yeh, shes pretty...so what" but recently (past 6 months) I've had the chance to get to know her a lot, lot more and well, I fell in love with her. So I started feeling strong vibes coming my way, I muscled up the courage to tell her how I feel about her in hopes that she feels the same way. All she kept saying softly was that I was younger than she was and she doesn't date younger guys but when I asked her if she had feelings for me, she would get real quiet. After that moment, I totally disconnected myself and about 3 weeks after she was acting really seductive and flirty. This keeps happening, when she feels I'm going after her, she backs off & vise versa. But the biggest problem is that shes constantly hanging out with this one guy that I know from before to be the biggest ladies man I know. This guy ALWAYS gets his way with women and I'm afraid hes going to get his way with the women I want so, so, so BADLY. please help me out....what should I do...I cant get her off of my mind for a consecutive 5 seconds.

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Open Question: NEED HELP WITH TAKE HOME QUIZ, technology problem?

http://www.authentichappiness.sas.upenn.edu/results.aspx?id=286&it=0 thIS is THE WEBsite that I needed to take a quiz at for school tomorrow, but I am 2 weeks late, the results show the date, and I cant seem to edit/change the date. I even tried copy and paste, then teh graphs won't show up . Please help me

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Open Question: What the heck is going on?

recently my mom and her boyfriend have been having problems, im always her shoulder to cry on, so yesterday i found out he told her he wanted to date other women, they have been together a year and a half and he was fresh out of a divorce. So i spent the day trying to make my mom feel better and she was sooo upset. then today he called and asked my mom if it was okay if he brought us dinner..he has his truck and motorcycle here so we thought maybe he wanted to come get them but he said no he just wanted to bring us dinner...what the heck is going on?

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Open Question: Induction this Thursday. What do you think I should do?

So, Im 40 1/2 weeks pregnant. Im 4 centimeters dialated and 80% effaced. My doctor wants to induce me this coming up Thursday for some reason but im not 100% sure I want to do it. I mean, I dont have any medical problems or anything. At my 32 week ultrasound the ultrasound tech said the baby was 4 pounds 11 oz. what do you think she weighs now 1st off? 2nd, do i HAVE to be induced if im 41 weeks pregnant or could i just wait it out and see if i go into labor naturally? im sooo confused and really need some advice. i already have a child (whom is 3 years old) and i had her naturally. she actually came 4 days before her due date. what do you think i should do and how much do you think my baby will be? my water hasnt broken, babies head is really low into my pelvis, im 80% effaced, 4 centimeters dialated as of yesterday and ive been having un-regular contractions here and there. my due date was december 2nd. help! =)

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Open Question: I am in love with my same sex best friend. Only problem..He is straight.?

I am a 17 year old male and so is my best friend. He knows that I am gay and he is straight. I am in love with him so much that it hurts. I have always loved him and he loves me as his best friend, not sexually. I respect that he is straight and would never force him to do anything but I love him and could never go out/ date another guy. I know that I would never be happy without him (even though I will alwaysl have him, just not sexually). Advice?

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Open Question: can some one help me with guy/mom problems?

well, I'm a 14 year old girl.My mom wont let me have a boyfriend till im 16. i think that's crazy!I've dated in the past with out her finding out but i really wont her to know so i can stop hiding it.Is there anyway where i can convince my mom to let me have one? Last time i asked her she said there's no need for boyfriend's just hang out with everyone.Even though ALL my friends hve one. Please help me!

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