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Open Question: what to get a my confusing boyfriend for christmas? and more... Open Question: what to get a my confusing boyfriend for christmas?hey i have a problem my boyfriend is in his 20's and we've been dating for 11 months now. i have no idea what to get him. he doesn't like sports or video games. his taste in clothes varies. its between punk, ghetto, or just plain goofy. he likes metal and certain classic rock, but he already has all the cds he wants or is getting others to get the ones he wants. he doesn't like shirts with with the band logo on it. he likes scary movies but i gave him a jason action figure for valentines day. he likes to draw but he already has tons of pencils and sketch pads. and he doesn't wear cologne. not to mention the friends of his i do know he's not close enough to to know what he would want. i'm stumped, what should i do? Open Question: What is his problem with me?I have a friend who used to be my girlfriend. She and I had a pretty good relationship for a couple of months and then I got an email saying that she was dating some new guy now. Of course, we broke up. A couple of years down the line we talk to each other again and while we are not having a relationship, we are good friends. My ex-girlfriend told me that her boyfriend and she had broken up a couple of years ago. However, she also said that that her ex (the guy she cheated on me with) hates me because she used to throw me in her face and when they fought, he would always tell her to come back to me. Of course, while they were dating I didn't talk to her at all. Now that we are friends and are ok with each other, we have forgiven each other for a lot of things, however her ex is saying mean things about me. I am confused because by all accounts I should be mad at him, I mean she cheated on me with him and basically they had a longer relationship then she and I had. I am so sick of her ex talking his ****, why is he angry at me when if anything he should be mad at her? When she asked him what his deal was, he said that I should have known that they were together, despite the fact I was with her first. She said countless time that I didn't even know about them until she told me. What is his deal? Additional Details Also, me and this guy have never met. However, I have been told that he talks a lot of ****. I have no anger towards him and by all means, she and this guy had a relationship while I was with her, I should be pissed at them, but it was so long ago I don't care. I know if anything I should be mad but I forgive her a long time ago. Bouncing, I think you are right and a part of me thinks that maybe she used me as a weapon in their fights. Open Question: Bisexual/Pansexual men would you date a transexual woman?FIRSTLY, I'm not suggesting bisexual men/pansexual men dattranssexualal women because they see them as "men". As a transgendered female I'm constantly stressing that trans women are just that! WOMEN!! But the thing is, whilst a heterosexual man may be attracted to transsexualal woman, they are reluctant to date them if they are aware of their transexuality. This is due to their own insecurities and fear of being labled gay even if they are not attracted to men at all. However, since out bi/pan men are already open to their sexual attraction to men they should have no sexual insecuritieses or fears right? And bing bi/pan means they are attracted also to women hence being able to be attracted to trans WOMEN. PLEASE BE AWARE: that I'm talking about transexual WOMEN not transevestites or crossdressers, but someone who identifies as a women permantently and someone that you percieve as a women. In short; My theory is that it is not the attraction that causes hetero men to be reluctant to go with trans women but rather their fear of being labled. And since bi/pan men should'nt (sorry if I'm making offensive assumptions) share this fear they should ave no problem? Guys? Would you be okay with dating a trans women? Any other opinions or complaints about my question are welcome =P All Trolls; get lost! aww caboose! That is so beautiful =P More Recent Articles
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