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Open Question: When should I tell a man about my change of genders? and more... Open Question: When should I tell a man about my change of genders?I got some really good avice on my first question and would appriciate your views on this - I was unfortunately born in the body of a boy and hated it, about 7 years ago I finally admitted I cound not go on and I had to be the woman I am supposed to be. The following years were difficult but now I am complete and have the complete female body to match the real me. I have divorced, got a nice 2 bedroom flat, new car etc and am leading my life as Lorraine. I have moved into a new area, got a new job and even had a promotion. Very few people where I live know about my former life, it is so refreshing that my neighbours, friends and work colleagues see me as Lorraine. Any way I am living a very happy life as Lorraine but now I want to try the dating scene. I always knew that if I became the real Lorraine it might be harder to form relationships but I so want a boyfriend. There is a guy I know, his name is Graeme, and I am falling for him in a big way, we have become friends and have flirted a bit but I want so much more. I have also heard from a friend of a friend that he is keen on me. Now without sounding big headed but he has no idea about my past.... ... we have done nothing yet but I so want to. My problem is when to tell him about my past or should I even tell him. I have formed a really nice life and am accepted as Lorraine and don't want everyone to know about my past... I think I would tell a man if we got serious but I am not going to tell every man that shows an interest! On the other hand the longer I put it off the harder it will be to tell. I know Graeme has a positive attitute to transsexuals (I have casually mentioned it in passing). I just want to get on with dating but as often happens I worry my past will impact my future. When should I tell Graeme or any other guy? Open Question: Why should men trust women ?The last woman I've been with toyed with me , and treated me like shit, and accused me of sexual harassment in a fraud way. The problem is that that woman is not a small girl , she is in a high level. the question I ask myself now and all men and the women also, don't you think that this world has become corrupt enough that women are not loyal at all , and women are 4 times population of men, yet men are becoming viticms of treasons of women ? Should men stop reproducing for the next 30 years and stop marriage, until the next generation of girls learn from their bad mothers ??? I lost trust in all people. how do you know you are dating the right woman, how do you know that she is not giong to cheat , how do you know if the woman is not drug addict ? there are things we will never find out not even in years... let's add that the goverments today are putting men as predators in anything related to women. should men declare revolution and stop marriage and reproduction until the goverments find it self without poeple to rule or men to rule ??? it's true that the goverment will be much better with more money, but the goverment will have to import labour constantly. Note: she is an MIS Teacher Open Question: 16 nearly 17 and never had a boyfriend?Im 16 years old 17 in June, Ive never had a boyfriend kissed or dated yet You might think its young but aaaah :( I've always wondered if im ever going to get one. Im 5''10 and tall And i think that boys are intimidated by my height, I'm quite shy at first and find it difficult to talk to cute boys because I always think that they look down on me. Im not desperate for a boyfriend but I've always felt left out and pressured. I'm confident and I smile alot, & if someone talks to me Ill talk back and be nice, But boys seem to not be attracted to me, why is this? :( I know that if i go out and socialise and meet new people then ill become more confident and comfortable, I want to wait for the right one, I've never been interested in Fling relationships, I've always wanted someone to love me for who I am on the inside & out. But I can't find no one. I get so upset when my friends talk about boys & their boyfriends :( I get compliments that I'm pretty but i don't care about those compliments. my personality isnt bad and i have a good sense of humor. Help me please and thankyou :) i've posted it on yahoo answers, because i don't know who to talk to about it and I kinda feel ashamed of talking about this problem with anyone else who i know in real life. Open Question: What would be a good theme for a story with this plot?This is the first plot: The setting is Albuquerque. Jessica Dixon is graduating from High school. She has the perfect life. Perfect boy friend, Perfect BFF and she is a pioneer planning to be a scientist. Her life is turned over when she breaks up with her boy friend, which happens to be the love of her life Clyde Bruno. Nine years pass, she still is a single. She is in a total depression which she lasts in for nine years and all her dream of being a scientist is stopped while she turns like best friends to the job, a kindergarten teacher. Clyde marries a lady called Amanda and they move to LA, giving birth to a child called Mike. For Jessica life became a boring routine. One day, Clyde and Amanda get divorced and so Clyde move back to the place he grew up in which he grew up, Albuquerque. Mike is now going to Kindergarten. Jessica's safe life turns up side down when Clyde's son is in her class and so with the start of the year they both start meeting with a strict parent/teacher relationship. Jessica still deeply loves him and he loves her but she keeps on putting her mind in front of her heart and so that's a problem. The relationship slowly gets less like a parent/teacher relationship and Clyde starts getting more flirtatious and so they kiss. Jessica gets depressed more by that. Where as all this is happening, their high school friends are doing all kinds of stuff to try to get them together including blind dates. After they kiss Jessica rejects giving him another chance and says that she doesn't want to have a relationship with him. She then tries to date others to forget him but it doesn't work. At the time Jessica is dating others, He is trying to hate her and forget her, unfortunately, and he can't. She start flirting with him on the parent's night, he doesn't talk to her and treat her just like a parent treats a teacher. In the end she tries to suicide he rescues her, they happily make up. This is the second plot: Dimitri Haskell is a Russian who lives in Italy. We track his story since he was young with his parent's divorce, his high school love and his life going on in an unhappy way, when Lissa his dearly loved girlfriend dies. He falls into a depression, his mother, who is now the editor of the squib magazine, pushes a girl towards him who would help him be away from the depression. She is called Beth, the ex-wife of a police-man called Jenks, A sexy lady. He had an affair with her and then she dumps him to go back to her ex. He falls into a deeper depression, his best friend then suggest him to go live for a while in a relaxing place called ((La Faviere)) in France. He goes there into the beautiful scenery and to his surprise he discovers that Jenks went there for relaxation too. They befriend each other and at last he tells him about his past too. The story mainly shows flash backs of lives of different people and how people could have different reactions. Beth then seeks revenge from Jenks for something in the past between them. Dimitri gets the job he always dreamt of, an author. He falls in love for a girl called Amber and Jenks fall for her sister. It isn't a totally happy ending because Dimitri's mother gets into an accident and so she dies. His father dies too committing suicide revealing that he always loved Mrs. Haskell although they got divorced. Jenks gets killed and at last Beth dies in prison giving birth to Jenks's son. Amber is sterile and so they adopt Beth's son. Life goes on Open Question: Univ. Guy Problems... would dating be okay?I really like this guy, but he's a university student, and is 20. I'm only 16, but I'm used to hanging out with university students and he used to be my upperclassman... would dating be socially acceptable? ... I said date, not sex! Sheesh! Open Question: Please. I need help. Me and my ex girlfriend broke up a month ago and im head over heels in love with her.?she said she loved me too.. and i believed her but now it's hard to tell if she ever did. We only were serious for 3 months but we were hanging out and hooking up for 5. Ive already made all the mistakes of trying to get her back, acting needy, telling her i love her over and over, begging, to be honest i even tried to commit suicide over it and ended up in the hospital for a week.. Im better on that note but im still in love. I have been talking to her for a month and she is trying not to contact me but still talks to me when i need to. We never had an unhealthy relationship we broke up over a misunderstanding where she heard i hooked up with someone else so she did too the same night and started dating him right then and there, and than she found out i didn't do that. She said while she was with him she still loves me and wants me back but couldnt bring herserlf to leave him. It's killing me i want to spend my life with her. The problem is I had suspicions that she was hooking up with someone else so i didnt trust her and it lead to a couple fights and us breaking up 3 or 4 times and this drove her to think i didnt care. I realized she wasnt and i feel so bad. To make matters worse she had a rebound boy for about 3-4 weeks. He strook up a conversation with me and was begging me to tell him what she was saying to me. So sent part of our conversation and he FLIPPED, it was just about her caring about me and still having feelings. He dumped her. She got pissed at me and thinks its my fault. I tried to express how sorry I am and did not know that would happen. She now tells me there is no hope in us ever getting back together. That she just has major trust issues and it will take her very long to even think about trusting me again. I know I hurt her but she had geniuine feelings for me at one point I know this and I know they could come back, if they are gone. I just had a good conversation with her telling her that my love had changed for her and i still love her on the level that i will always care about her and i helped her with some problems in her life. I think shes greatful that she has me to confide in. Now im gonna break all contact for a while and work on myself. Im working with the magic of making up. Should i go through with this i really do love her and want her back in my life to show her what this really means to me. Do you think if i stick to a plan i have any chance at all? or is her mind made up about me. Can i bring back her trust by changing myself and showing her that I am strong and am able to fix things. Or is she always going to resent me leading her to the rash decision that we will never work out? Please, i appreciate all insight. By the way, im 17.. i may seem blind to you but i know i am in love. She still makes me happy even with the pain of this. Weve always made eachother happy. Open Question: Should I continue pursuing my ex girlfriend?I'm bestfriends with this girl whom I've also dated before. I haven't had / looked at any other girl after her. I respect her dreams and ambitions. I see a future in her and she does so too, with me. She told me that I changed her life for the better, for she claimed that I changed her view on men, and marriage too. However, people think that she seems to be too good for me. She's tall, very beautiful, smart, talented, mature... but she comes from an upper class family. I haven't seen any other girl like her, and I love her so much. Everytime we would face obstacles along the way, our relationship's just getting stronger... even during times that we're not allowed to be with each other physically. But, like I've mentioned earlier, people are looking down on me. Her parents believe that she deserves someone better. She told me about that before, and she said that she had terrible relationships with the men her parents suggested... she's only considering them because, although they still had the upper class image, they're experiencing some financial problems. As for me, I'm just kinda normal. I am presently a pre-med student, but my life's pretty ordinary. I don't look bad at all, but her other suitors are pretty much better looking than me. Not to mention, more financially well off than me. This is somehow affecting my self-esteem, even if she accepts me for who I am. I am now undergoing a strict diet and works out at the gym, to make myself at least look better, physically. As for the financial part, I'm doing my best with my studies, so I could at least be able to afford the same future these guys can give to her anytime. I am not quiting on her. It also hurts that her parents, specifically her mom, doesn't accept me yet. I have received hurtful words such as me being a social climber and a bastard (I came from a second family). I'll do anything to save our relationship, but I'm also fearing that she might break her relationship with her parents, whom I still respect deeply. Her mother is much stricter about this matter, although her dad believes in the possibility that we might just be for each other. Please read my story first, kindly refrain from answering with just "yes/no". The reason why our relationship ended is because it was halted by her parents. More Recent Articles |
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