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Open Question: Why are friends even like this? You ask for support & told to get over it? and more... Open Question: Why are friends even like this? You ask for support & told to get over it?Gee, you really think you know who your friends are till something tough happens to you. This happened online where I thought I had a lot of great good friends. A period of over 4 stressful weeks. I had a rough confusing situation, asked for help and some people were pretty helpful. I got a lot of different points of views, friends asked more questions to help me out so I gave more details. A lot of them asked me to keep them updated & they'd be thinking of me. Another problem developed with this situation so I ask for more help & support. A lot more help comes. I'm very thankful for these friends & again they beg me to keep them to date. Tons of supportive messages, kind words & personal messages of encouragement over the tough times. A big development to finally hopefully end my problem happens. I quickly run to my friends to let them know and share the good news. I thank them for their support & all. Next thing I know people jump down my neck telling me to get over, I'm obsessing over nothing then boom shut me right back down. How can people turn like this one someone just a few weeks ago were so kind & supporting? Plus clearly see a friend of theirs is seeking help, help them then kick them back down again. I don't get it. Was I wrong keeping "friends" up to date when they asked? Open Question: i had 2 interviews for an office job. the reason was to be sure my personality would fit in. I got the job?I worked 5 days . On my second day I felt insulted by the receptionist because she said when you answer a phone you pick it up like this put it to your ear and say ... then seh said to copy you put the paper in hit copy and wait ... I have 10 years in an office , and before this job she had none. I went to another lady to see if this was her personality or if she was being disrespectful. she had me tell the office manager , who surely cared less and made the comment if you cant get along with her thats your ticket out . I explained i could get along just fine i just wasnt sure why she talked to me like a 8year old. ... on tuesday now the 5th day of working my boss took me in her office to tell me things were working well and that we would be starting a new project on patient charts at the end of the week . I called wednesday morning 30 min before i was scheduled to say my cars battery was dead but i was getting a ride and should be on time maybe 5 min late. she said ok no problem see you when you come in . As i pulled into the parking lot she called and said she spoke to the dr's and my personality wasnt working for the office and she was having to let me go . i was really upset. They pay monthly ... she wants her keys i told her when i recieved my check i would hand over the keys . she called friday and said the check would be available for pick up monday . My question is in several parts. first dose my check have to be dated for the 14th or are they allowed to date it for the 31st . and if it is dated the 31st can i leave the check there until then and hold the keys ? also is it discrimination to fire someone over their personality ? ... can i open the check to be sure it is close to the correcct amount and dated for monday before i hand the keys ? i live in pennyslvania . thank you Open Question: Why is my ex-boy answering me through facebook statuses.?Ok.First off this is going to sound extremely immature, and I have deleted my facebook because it was impeding me from moving on. ( months ago my ex and I became friends after 3 years off war(i kissed another guy when we dated at the age of 18). It's been crazy ever since. Its long distance so it really hard( he lives in Dominican Republic and lives across the street from my family...NOT GOOd!)Ive been loyal the last nine months bc ive wanted to be...we were just fwb so i knew he still was doing his thing...but he causes me such heartache! Two weeks ago I had enough of his bullshit and so I facebooked him and said its I want nothing to do with him and to stope leaving me comments every few days.We used to talk all the time..but I def know i worked harder then him. Anyway since Halloween I have distanced myself and have had a very active solcial life. Anyway i called him less because I knew he it hurt me to know that he liked me, but still wants to date another girls.I started texting him and calling him about once a week.Anyway he wont comment my pictures which he never did on any social site before..He would make lil smart aleck remarks if i said im going out!He then started posting statues that said he was going on this weekend! On tuesday! it was driving me crazy, because I know he has commitment problems and all the stuff but he knows I love him. He is so insecure.What drove me crazy was how he posted pictures of when he picked me up from the airport on Aug 21! I was not in them of course..put he posted the ones I took of him carrying my suitcase...and then we talked that night and he asked me if i saw them.Anyway since the fight two weeks ago...i havbe had withdrawel sometimes...and Ive been freaking posting facebooks status...not always about him and Im noticing a very sick pattern. If i say a saying, hell say it next week. He re posted a saying i had put like too! He has been posting romantic song lyrics.AHHH!!If i use a word in a saying, he answer it back using a the same word!$ days ago i mentioned i had a new guy and then he posted a song saying Your boyfriend is a fool....I'll steal you...That was yesterday!! It was driving me crazy because I'm just so mad at him and I finally had enough of his games. So i cant get my self to call him..and he def wont since he is so prideful!...Im sick of it so I'm taking a break from the internet...but someone please tell me what doe sthis mean??????/ Open Question: Can someone help me out with Girl problems?Hey guys I have a major problem.. I've currently been talking to this girl for 2 weeks. He boyfriend hadn't spoken to her in two weeks because they were mad, but now they are talking again. But she told me that she doesnt know if she should choose her bf over me.. At the moment she is leaning toward continuing her " so call" relationship , with this jerk.. Question is.. How do i get her. Should I stop talking to her so she can miss me a little or should i keep nagging her? Any ideas are welcomed! O. I did kiss her on thursday but on Friday she went on a date with her bf.. I just want her, please dnt tell me to quit.. Thanks Open Question: how do i get over him?me and my bf would have been dating almost two years now. recently we both had to move because of family problems.I live in france now,and he lives in australia.His number got disconnected and he has never gaven me his new one.We talked over msn messenger for the longest time.But there would be really long periods we wouldnt talk.I was planning to move in with him this month, but i havent talked to him in a month now. I have no number to call or anything and i dunno what to do.Everyone says i should just move on and find someone else..but i cant. I cant really move on till i have closure[know whats actually going on]. there was this guy that he was becoming really close with..i guess someone he used to date or something anyways.. Im sure no one else has been through this situation but..its just really hurting me. i have no clue what to do ]: Open Question: anyone want to give opinions on my essay?A long time ago, I learned that knowledge was the most important attribute in life, a precious gift which opens new doors, and a brighter future. When I was a small child, I learned firsthand of what a life knowledge can be. It was the beginning of winter and my dad and I were driving to downtown Phoenix, and as my dad was making a hard right turn, and then came a loud shrilling sound. I first thought we hit something. Then realized we had a flat tire. My father pulled the car over, and told me to stay put in the car. I however had other ideas, and the moment my father was busy fixing the tire. I opened the door, and started exploring, and I happened to come across a homeless man. I was both nervous and curious, and I was wondering what to say, or if I should just walk away, however I chose to ask him a very obvious why he was living on the street. He replied to me the reason he was leaving on the streets was because he never had a chance to acquire intelligence, which left him hopeless and lost. I was and inspired by his few words, and started actuality giving much effort in school, to do well in school, and end up successful. Years later, when I started understanding more, I came across a quote which held me on strong. I was not unable to forget the rest of my life these two quotes of Carlos Castaneda: A man goes to knowledge as he goes to war, wide awake, with fear, with respect, and with absolute assurance. Going to knowledge or going to war in any other manner is a mistake, and whoever makes it will live to regret his steps. ALEXANDER POPE: A little learning is a dangerous thing; drink deep, or taste not the Pierian Spring: there shallow draughts intoxicate the brain, and drinking largely sobers us again. I first could not understand these two quotes. They both seemed to be saying the opposite of each other, one was saying knowledge was good, and one saying it was bad. Then I started thinking hard about these quotes, and started understanding. In life not knowing will only give you problems, like eating something without the knowledge that it can cause great harm. And in life knowing too much will make you sorrow, and depressed forever, like knowing the date of your death. Lastly, the time I actuality experienced of what knowledge can get you. I was 14 years old, and it was the summer before I went to High school, and I thought it be a good idea to see how I could do on an interview for a job. I was not actuality thinking of getting a job, just wanted to see how I handled myself on applying for a job. I applied for position of a manager for Target. I applied, and took on an interview, and in that moment, when the interviewer asked me questions of my skills. I found out how important knowledge could be, and I wasn't chosen for the position, due to my knowledge and experience. I found out that knowledge shows where you belonged, and what you can do. I have used the value of knowledge in my life to succeed, and do well. I can not believe how my life would have turned out if I didn't recognize the value of knowledge. Open Question: I cant tell where this guy is trying to go with this?!!?I do some modeling here and there and have been in touch with this photographer online. We were just friendly through messaging. Then we learned that we'd be attending the same event a couple weeks later and he asked for my number and mentioned that he'd like to hang out after the event. So we go out for drinks and have a good time, end up kissing at the end of the night. He asks me what I'm doing the following week, because he'd like to see me again. He doesn't call me, he only texts (which annoys me, but I didn't want to make a big deal of it). So we make plans to go to this dinner event I was having that Tuesday. Then Monday night, he texts me saying he had to schedule a photoshoot that evening, so we'd have to reschedule. So we reschedule for that Thursday. Thursday morning he texts me saying he wasn't feeling well and I gave him the impression that that was my only free day for the remaining of the week. So he picks me up and we go to dinner, then to this lounge for drinks. The way he spoke to me, his body language, everything signaled that he's interested in me. We had plenty of laughs, he held my hand every chance he got, kissed me on the cheek a couple times randomly. Then again, we end up kissing at the end of the night. And again, he asks whens the next time we'll be going out. Then I don't hear from him for two days. I was tempted to text him, but I feel that if he's interested, he'll make that contact. This guy is super attractive, charming, talented. Everyone likes him, he parties almost every night. We have a ton in common based on our conversations so far and I'm really laid-back and more reserved than he is, so I think we balance out well. But my problem is not only not hearing from him, but just not knowing for sure if he's interested in me. I know he likes me, I know he's attracted to me. And I know it's pretty early in the game, but I just want to get a heads up on where he's trying to go with this? If it's looking like we'll end up dating. I really like him so far, but I just don't want to let him know or make first moves in any way until I can tell what his intentions are. How do you guys view the situation? Why hasn't he called? Any signs of anything you can point out will be helpful. Open Question: stay with boyfriend, or leave for crush.?okay so theres two people (ima use fake names) gage and colton gage: my boyfriend, i love him sooo much. i have known him for 2 years. we dated before and then broke up. it happened a couple times, but we always seem to draw eachother together again. BAD: he is really clingy... and he gets supper sexual. sometimes i want to keep it real you know. he dated this girl i hated and he cheated on her... and it was for me. he promise me that he is never going down that road again, but its hard to believe it, but in a way i do trust him. he has done weed... but he says he wont do it again for me. he says he wants to by me a necklace but doesnt have the money, but every day i see him with a new 20 dollar bill. when we werent dating he called me his best friend, but he never talked to me in the hallway. he never looked at me or anything, but outa school we always talked (we are dating now). GOOD: i cant stop thinking about him, im in love with him. sometimes i think about spending my life with him. he is always there for me, listens to all my problems, helped me threw most of them. whenever im with him he cares for me. he is always by my side and i cant forget him. colton: my best friend, he is supper funny, the funniest person i know. im always walking with him to next period at school. we have a couple classes together. we are known as the schools closest friends. gage is jelous of colton. BAD: hes a really bad player, dates way to many girls. he is only looking for sex from girls. hes really mean to my other friends that are girls. he talks about my boobs in front of me. and is real sexual it get nasty and is a turn off. GOOD: he has the skater look, black hair fliiped to the side, hes normal weight, and wears skater clothes. hes hilarious! always makes me laugh. i dated him once last year but not that long haha. but hes always helping me with work. we are constently seen together almost more then me and my bf. (maybe thats not good) he compliments me alot. and everyone knows we are best friends. i know he likes me and i dont want to tell him i like him, but i think its gonna happen sooner or later. who do you think i should stay with??? this is just opinions here. Open Question: I'm starting to like this girl...?she's great and i like her friends too. i think that she likes me too but i'm not quite sure. i want to to ask her friends if she likes me but i figure if i ask them then they will tell her that i like her and if she doesn't like me then that could be a problem. so is there anyway that i can figure out if she likes me or not without having to confront her about it. i have never dated anyone before so i won't really know what to do if i confront her about it. Open Question: Awkward situation, help!!!!?A couple days ago I was in town and I met this girl from my college waiting at the bus stop. It was really cold and snowy and we waited forever, so I bought her hot chocolate and made conversation. She was pretty but I decided she wasn't the kind of person I wanted to date/hang out with so when we got back to campus I didn't ask for her number even though it looked like she wanted me to. I was walking to dinner with three girls I'm friends with and I told them about it. Not wanting them to rag on me for not asking for her number, I said I did get her number but that I wasn't going to call her. I told them her name and they said it was their friend. I quickly said she had different colored hair so they wouldn't think it was their friend. Here's the problem: She lives in the dorm next to me and I'm bound to see her and she will recognize me and my friends will say something about that I said it wasn't her and that I said I got her number or something. AND IT WILL BE REALLY AWKWARD!! What do I do? Open Question: How should I get this girl to be my GF?Hey guys I have a major problem.. I've currently been talking to this girl for 2 weeks. He boyfriend hadn't spoken to her in two weeks because they were mad, but now they are talking again. But she told me that she doesnt know if she should choose her bf over me.. At the moment she is leaning toward continuing her " so call" relationship , with this jerk.. Question is.. How do i get her. Should I stop talking to her so she can miss me a little or should i keep nagging her? Any ideas are welcomed! O. I did kiss her on thursday but on Friday she went on a date with her bf.. I just want her, please dnt tell me to quit.. Thanks Open Question: Should i break up with my bf?Well, we've been dating for 3 years and have a very good relationship. I mean hes the full package makes me feel special surprises me with random gifts plus we just have a great time together. The sex is also great too. But, theres this one problem when i hinted to him why don't we get married he said. "I'm an old school type of guy i don't believe people marry outside their race." So i told him how we been together all this time and what if i was to have a child would he be there for me. He replied "Well, yes i am seeing you but, where not married and as far as kids goes you should already know i'd be there if i take care of my nephews every summer why wouldn't i take care if my own child?" Which is true and i honestly believe him on that. But, i feel kind of hurt now that he won't marry me over something i can't even change nor would i if i could. I care about him dearly and hes such a great guy and has been for the 3 years we've been together. But, i feel marriage is essential for any couple thats just my opinion though. Does that make me shallow for even considering to break up over something like this? Just incase you didn't want to read all of that basically he doesn't want to marry me because if my race. Open Question: My parents took my phone away practically forever...boyfriend issues...HELP?My parents are SUPER strict, and one day my mom took my phone away to find messages with my and my boyfriend talking to each other. she thought they were way to intimate...though they were things that probably you would say. Just various versions of "I love you" "I miss you" "I want to kiss you" more and less of that stuff. we've only been dating 3 months and are both 15. But they don't want me with him...because they're just super strict and too protective. They like him as a person, they just don't want us together. Who knows why?? Problem is, I'm HEAD over HEals for this guy. He's smart, funny, charming, cute, and an extremely good kisser. This relationship is the first one i feel really secure and safe in. So, i can't really leave him. He loves me too and doesn't want to lose this. But now I'm sneaking around behind their backs and i have to hide everything from them. What's worse, is i hardly get to talk to him and never get to see him outside of school. I don't know what to do. Any help would be appreciated. Please? Open Question: Need help with sleeping! Sleeping position, nightmares, help!?Lately Ive been having alot of trouble falling asleep. I'm finding I'm laying there and will fall asleep when the sun starts to come up. I would try to sleep when the sun is out however I cant just sleep all day. No matter what position I lay in I'm always uncomfortable. When I lay on my stomach I can feel a slightly painful bulge on my left side, around where the spleen and intestines are (I have gone to the doctor for his and he said it is a bit inflamed and I am going for an ultrasound for it soon). However when I lay on either of my sides my hips are get sore too. I recently lost alot of weight so the usually fatty cushion is gone. And when I lay on my back it pushes against the one spleen area and feels just uncomfortable and I get some odd feeling (not painful, at least). When I actually do fall asleep at a decent time, I have nightmares, usually involving my boyfriend leaving me in some way. We have had problems somewhat related to the dreams (though the dreams are much more intense) in our relationship in the past, however that was due to the fact we live 8 hours away and hardly got to see each other while I was dealing with alot of extreme family issues. Makes things hard, but we now live together and have been dating for almost 4 years. We have no problems at all now. However the nightmares persist. I usually whimper and twitch and occasionally sleep talk, which is when my boyfriend wakes me up. I dont know how to get rid of these nightmares, I get them at least 3 times a week, if not more. I dont eat anything before I go to bed or read or watch anything that may influence the strange dreams. I know of different crystals and stones that can take away nightmares, such as amethyst or citrine, and of dreams catchers, but Im not sure if they actually can work. Im pretty against taking sleeping pills because my mom became addicted to them and would get high on them. I know if i take them responsibility Ill be ok, but just no. Can any one give me advice to reduce nightmares, sleep more comfortably, or just ways to fall asleep? Its really becoming a problem :( Open Question: How do I convince my boyfriend to propose?Back story: We've both already agreed that we are mutually the only people we want to spend the rest of our lives with. This is great, he's given me a commitment that someday he'll commit. We live together and get along fine. We have our problems but they never last more than a few hours before we resolve them. We've talked about kids, our future, etc, but when it comes down to him just popping the question that he said he would... he can't and the reason always changes every time I ask him about it. I've already tried proposing to him (that didn't exactly go spectacularly) and I am at my wits end because if I get one more call from my grandma asking of I set a date or get another lecture from my mom about the importance of commitment and the dangers of "living in sin"... I might just spontaneously combust! Open Question: how do i get over it? help im going crazy :[?me and my bf would have been dating almost two years now. recently we both had to move because of family problems.I live in france now,and he lives in australia.His number got disconnected and he has never gaven me his new one.We talked over msn messenger for the longest time.But there would be really long periods we wouldnt talk.I was planning to move in with him this month, but i havent talked to him in a month now. I have no number to call or anything and i dunno what to do.Everyone says i should just move on and find someone else..but i cant. I cant really move on till i have closure[know whats actually going on]. there was this guy that he was becoming really close with..i guess someone he used to date or something anyways.. Im sure no one else has been through this situation but..its just really hurting me. i have no clue what to do ]: well..logans a dudes name.. o.o so..its obvious? Open Question: mixed signals... what do do?ok so this guy has been keeping in contact with me for 7 years now ... he was 5 years older than me so when i was younger we could never have gotten into a relationship. he called and texted me a lot when he was in college to let me know if he was or wasnt going to be intown or to take me out to dinner.. now years later im in college and we were still doing the same dance untill one day he told me over the phone how he felt. the problem is im in north carolina and hes in florida. so when i come home for the summer we start to hook up- he gets mad at me for little things like being too busy or ( i hooked up with one of his friends 4 years ago) . i then tell him that i cant go through with hooking up unless we are going to date cause i like him too much... he then tells me how he feels always likeing me but im in NC and hes you cant start a relationship long distance. he says you have to be with that person for a while first. so we decided to be friends and for me to live my life dating other guys up here. but he wants me to call him whenever i am in town. now when i got back up to nc he kept in contact and before i went home for thanksgiving break he called schedule hanging out. when i got down to fl i had to cancel i cept trying to reschedule but he wouldnt answer. then i started to get mad cause he wasnt returning my phone calls. when i talked to my friend she said he never wanted to date me (i was thinking than what was all this bullshit) i defriend him on facebook... realize i overreacted without talking to him. when we talked he was an ass he was like i thought we were just friends and when i asked if he ever cared he was silent and then he asked why i defriended him i told him cause hes been sending me mixed signals for a long time. his answer : i disagree. i hang up the phone furious at him ... later he texts " hey sorry i wasnt very articulate when we spoke at the beginning of the week. i like you. i think you're cute but you're in college. you need to do your own thing. i will always be there for you:)" my question is what does he want from me. should i forget him and see him just as a friend? does he just want to hookup? or does he really like me and want a relationship after college if were in the same place? Open Question: computer tells me i have 2 Display Adapters?I was looking at the results of my Driver-bot scan and it said that Intel(r) 82915g/GV/910GL Express chipset [Display Adapter] Was out of date It also told me ATI HD 4550 [Display Adapter] was up to date am i sopposed to have 2 display adapters? The ATI HD 4550 is my graphics card. And i have been having problems with Display drivers latley, could this be the problem? More Recent Articles
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