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Open Question: why cant he choose with who? and more... Open Question: why cant he choose with who?Me and my ex boyfriend broke up months ago. and a week after we broke up he was dating another girl way younger. see the thing is we have been on and off for about 7 years. even after we broke up he took this girl he barely met and went to cancun. for months he has been telling me he doesnt want to loose me yet he has not left this girl and still sees her ever ever so often ( not as much as before) but the thing is i tell him to leave her and he says as soon as our problems are worked out! I know what to do but the thing is that i always think of the what if's....what if there is a possibility he will change...what if things dont change. i try and think of the good and bad but cant seem to move with my decision. Can someone please help me. sometimes being brutelly honest helps. Open Question: I'm about ready to give up on this girl... a lot of details inside.?History: This girl and I both work together at Hollister. I've know her since February of this year. We have/had a great relationship at work. She used to ask me to go on breaks with her and hangout with her outside of work all the time, but now she has stopped. We've hung out before like go to the movies together and once at the beach at 2am. The way we interact with each other, some coworkers and managers thought we were dating at one point. She doesn't know I like her, but honestly the way I treat her she should know unless she's just dumb. I can't tell if she likes me as well because she's so friendly to everyone that it's hard to read her. Problem: Yesterday she had a party which I wasn't invited to, but that's not the problem. She invites one of our new coworkers and I guess he tried to start a fight at the party and she's mad at him. She comes into work today tell her story to everyone, but I acted like I didn't care because it's really none of my business. Anyways today for the first time I saw a side of her that I can't stand. She was bitchy and rude. I walked by her to cheer her up and she says "either help me fold this or go away!" I just walked away. Then I noticed that she looks at me like she wants me to say something, but I didn't the entire night. Question: From her actions do you think she even liked me? Do you think she has lost interest? Should I take offense of how she acted today or brush if off because she wasn't in a bad mood? I was going to tell her I like her, but now I kinda think don't bother? I sorry for this long explanation, I just need to get this off my chest. Thanks anyone who helps! Open Question: What should I do about this douche bag of a guy?* = Name changed. Okay, so this douche bag named *Marshall broke up with my best friend *Kylie. (She really is my best friend, NOT me.) He broke up with her because she became friends with her ex-boyfriend. A few days later Marshall and Kylie got back together, but Kylie broke up with him today because he was being a jerk and he broke her heart. So now Marshall is calling Kylie a hoe and saying she gave guys bl0w jobs, when she never did. Kylie told the vice principal, the guidance consular and the social worker at our school. She can't tell her parents because they don't allow them to date. PROBLEM IS: Marshall said that he is going to ask ME out. I of course am going to say no but I want to crush him for hurting my best friend like this. How should I say no in the most painful way? I know it sounds mean. I can't hurt him physically either :)! - OCD. Open Question: how to convince someone that staying friends is a good idea?a very hard think to do, i agree, but yet it is very necessary for me. here is the set up: a guy and i have been dating for a year. 6 months ago we broke up. since then we've been talking and been close friends. neither one of us want to be "in a relationship" with each outer. we can agree on that. but now he says he don't want to be friends either. but i do. he's one of my very close friends, and i don't want to loose that, how can i persuade him to stay friends... logical argument please :) p.s. i don't know his reasons why he don't want to be friends but neither one of us are stocking each other nor are we all in each others business... we're just close friends (no sex) that are able to get together, watch movies sometimes, play games and be able to help each other with problems (like borrow money/ give a car ride to the store... whatever) i don't want to FORCE a friendship... i want to LOGICALLY convince him to stay friends. there is no jealousy. no agenda. no sex involved. Open Question: DATING AND SEX FREQUENCY?Hello! I ask you for a sincere opinion on following matter. My girlfriend and me are dating for more then year and half now. We really love each other, it was as in dreams but now we have some problems. She lives at her family and already has two children (18 and 25 years), while I have my own apartment. We used to see us for average three times a week. But in last months she never gets enough time for us. She works a lot in job and at home, is very independent and competent. A lot of her time goes for taking care of children and parents. But children are already big and parents aren't that old not to take care of themselves. But she likes to make all other people around her happy and doesn't think about herself at all. She actually feels enjoyment when helping others. Very nice, but because of that she many times "forgets" about us for she considers that our time comes only when other needs are satisfied.. So now we see us 2 times a week, but mostly evenings, we haven't spent entire day together for more then a month by now. I dream about her all the time but she admitted she doesn't even miss me because she is so busy. I like to see her, talk to her, go out, and have sex, of course. So we have sex 2 times per week. But sometimes she has excuses so we haven' do it for more then a week now. Am I exagerating? Am I a just thinking about lust? Well, I know that I like to do together with her anything that is possible, sex also, and I like to enjoy life. It seems to me that as life would be sleeping through my fingers slowly, not used to its full.We are young just once and waiting for free time when we are old is not good perspective. We talked about that but she can't change her mind, she "must" take care for others, only after we two come into plan. We have long debates about that for half a year and we are getting tired off it. Sincerely, what would you do in my place to solve the situation? Thank you! Open Question: Friend/boyfriend problem?Well I'm 14yr old girl and my friend is a 16 yr old guy. we have a thing for each other and we both know it, we're both thinking about dating and I think it will eventually happen....but my mother and father has a problem with him.... he really is a good kid, I'm not one of those naive teenagers who always wants to be right..but I do know he's changed a lot in the past year.. my mother told things about him to my dad before I was even friends with him because she works with his grandmother and hears stories about him and his problems. he has AD-HD and takes medication for it now but before, he used to get in a lottt of fights when he was 15 and at one point got into drinking, which he doesnt do anymore.. but because of the fights he got kicked out of school (until next year) and I feel so bad for him because people deffinetly judge him on his past, anyways... so my mom told my father all of this before me and him ever even knew each other but my father knows who his is and what he did. my dad knows we r friends now but he said "I've heard things from his grandmother and I know he's a problem child" but my mom and dad dooo both know that being kicked out of school straightened him up and the meds are helping him, and he's better off now.. a cool calm collected character lol he's getting better and better but my parents tend to judge people of their past (and always have, not just people I am involved with) and I can see why at times, im their daughter, that makes perfect sense to me.. but what should I do? and if we dooo end up dating, what should I say to my parents? he really is a good kid, and they know he has changed, but once they have an oppinon of someone, they tend to stick to it.. help please?? 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