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Open Question: Why did my black friend get mad when i told her that most white boys dont like black girls? and more... Open Question: Why did my black friend get mad when i told her that most white boys dont like black girls?ok so my black friend from my church ONLY likes white guys shes only attracted to them and i told here "you know its gonna be very hard for you to get a white boy." and i told her "your black you should like black boys because thats what you are." and then she asked me "well you like only white boys and your mexican." and then i told her "yeah but i dont look it, i look white." "and most people think i look caucasion." and then i said to her "theres a BIG difference between you and me, i am mexican but i have very fair pale skin and your just straight up african and you obviously look straight up african because your straight up black." and then i said. "iv,e had my good fair share of white boys like me" and then she said "NO STOP IT I DONT WANT TO HERE ABOUT IT JUST STOP IT." honestly how is she gonna compare me to a black person no one would ever suspect i was mexican anyways. she started going on saying about how white boys do like and date black girls and then i told her "honestly how often do you see white boys walking around with black girls?" and she just kept yelling at me saying " NO SHUT UP SHUT UP." and she just kept yelling at me. honestly what is her problem? i forgot shes overweight and fat. Open Question: My best friends boyfriend, HELP!?My best friend has a boyfriend who I really like and i can tell that he really likes me to. He is blond blue hair like me and i always fall for boys like that. I wont to find out how to date him without my friend being hurt and with out loseing her as a friend. I dont really think there a cute cupple eaither. Hes goning to break up with her and if I date him right after he breaks up with her that would be a really big problem. Please help before he breaks up with her! Open Question: Question for those who have OCD-about dating?My daughter was diagnosed 2 years ago. She's been in therapy and is on meds-so most is under control and no problem. She is dating a teen boy (who I think has ADHD-which is fine), as I want her to experience what life has to offer her-so that as she ages-she can continue to live through this OCD thing. So, If you have OCD-how has dating/OCD affected your life, how can I be encouraging to her and what can I expect. I know that they are making out, she goes to an all girls school and gets plenty of sex ed-so I'm not worried that she wouldn't be safe-and I know she/he have goals of saving themselves. But could you give me some parental advice-or let me know how OCD affected your life in this area. I have OCD tendencies-but I'm not anywhere near her OCD type. Thanks.. Open Question: What do I get my boyfriend for Christmas?Quick Facts: We've been dating for about 7 months now. He's 15. He's big on sports, movies, music, and being outdoors. I've ruled out Lil' Wayne concert tickets cause he's going to jail and all. I've ruled out sports jerseys because in the 3 years I've known him I haven't EVER seen him wear one. I was thinking, like, a chain? But the problem with that is that I know his ex girlfriend got him one a while back ago..so I think no. Any good movie suggestions? Or cologne suggestions? Just anything would be helpful! And, uh, please nothing sexual. I'm only 14. Hahaha. Open Question: Stupid boys. Haha. Help?Okay, so I dated this guy for a long time, and pretty much fell for him. He's been there for me through a ton of drama and problems, and he knows me SO well. He finishes my sentences for me and just, knows everything there is to know about me and I know everything about him. We've been dating on and off for awhile and have stayed friends when we weren't dating. Well the last time he broke up with me because I was too "innocent" and then dated another girl. We started talking awhile back, just making jokes and flirting a lot, and his best friend just told me he likes me again. My feelings for him have never went away, but I don't know if I'm ready to forgive him. And I've always thought "forgive and forget" but I don't want him to just walk all over me. So what do I do? Just forgive him? Or should I just try and be done with him? It's hard to let go, because we've been through so much together and I fell for him pretty hard, and I don't know if I want to even try to be done with him. Open Question: Bluetooth on my Sony Ericsson K610i mobile phone does not turn on?The Bluetooth on my Sony Ericsson K610i cell phone does not turn on. When I press the "TURN ON" button for Bluetooth on the phone, the "BLUETOOTH TURNED ON" message appears alright, but the bluetooth does not turn. It just stays off. I have tried upgrading the phone's software by using the Sony Ericsson "Update Service" software installed on my laptop. I follow the instructions and press and hold down the "C" button on the phone while plugging in the USB cable etc etc. At the end of it all, I get the message that "update was successful.. the software on my phone is up to date, bla bla bla.." But when I turn on the phone and try to turn on the bluetooth, it still does not turn on. Does anyone know how I can fix this problem? Open Question: what's going on with this guy?Me and this guy Jason had a date to go to the movies with my friend and her date Kevin. And so when we got our tickets and snacks, we all go into the movie, and a little after it started, Kevin put his arm around my friend, and so then Jason looked like he was about to put his arm around me, but he hesistated. Then, he reaches for my hand instead, and accidentally knocks over my popcorn. But I was real chill about it, and told him it was ok. and he says "Umm you know what I'm so sorry take mine and I'll be right back" And so he gives me his popcorn and leaves the theater, and then over an hour later when there's like 5 minutes left of the movie, he comes back and sits like 3 seats away from me and at the end he's like, "so did you enjoy the film" And I said "yeah but where were you?" And he said he was just sitting outside the theater for a little bit, and then he went to the parking lot and was considering whether or not to come back. But he said it's not that he doesn't like me. He said he only came back so I wouldn't think I was the problem..why did he do that? the date was his and kevin's idea. he texted me since then to say hi but won't answer his phone, how do I find out what was wrong? Open Question: Had sex with my best friend. Now what?Ok I met my guy friend at uni. Three years ago in my last year of university whenever we went out we end up kissing, but that's it. After that I was bored with how it was going and decided to move on to another guy, he also had a girlfriend but we were still friends. Anyways now, we started hanging out a lot on weekends, going to clubs and stuff (because before he dated some girl,and i had a boyfriend so we didn't see much of each other), Anyways the last three weekends he suggested we should have sex, he said things like we should go to my place or to your place and stuff like that. But there is a problem, he is supposedly dating a girl, when we talked before this happened he told me that he didn't like her a lot and wasn't going to be her boyfriend because there were things that he didn't like about her, so sometimes he didn't call her and only called her on weekends, some weekends even when she called him to do something he didn't want to. And a couple of months ago I wanted to date a guy and he told me that he didn't see that guy for me, we weren't right. Right now I'm confused because I think I really like him and I would feel like crap if he still dates the girl he is dating. Do you think this would happen again?? Open Question: looking for ideas on what might be going on in boyfriend's head?My boyfriend and I met about 2 years ago when I was hired where he already worked. When we first started dating he obviously took care of himself. His room wasn't spotless but it was neat enough. He kept up on shaving, kept his hair cut, and did things on his day off. He has since moved on and works for another company and had his year anniversary there this october. My problem is that since then he seems to have lost himself. He's gained a lot of weight, he stays in his room all day playing video games on his day off. If he goes somewhere he just throws on his uniform that he wore the day before that's now all grungy and gross, hardly changes his underwear or socks & he's slacked off on taking care of his personal appearance and hygiene to the point that sex has no appeal to me anymore. We had a fight about 3 months back that caused some problems. I found after the fight that during it he had texted a friend's girlfriend's friend and told her she was cute. He said it was because he thought we were over. I told him we would separate and he could decide if it was worth it or not. I've given him a second chance now but he's not the same. He's very negative all the time, especially first thing in the morning and really critical of everyone else around him, even if he has done some of the things he complains about them doing. He gives unsolicited advice and when he realizes hes rubbed people the wrong way he pretty much says they can screw off, & he thinks hes the expert on everything. Even if you know you are right due to experience or education or whatever, he can't even say maybe you're right, its no I know this and you're wrong and he won't give it up until you say yeah ok you're right or something similar. I don't know what to do. This is not the guy I fell for. I don't know if its a phase I can help him through or if this is the true him and I should cut my losses. Any thoughts? there was also a thing we had about him and my best friend (who is a girl) texting each other. I told them I didn't like it and they stopped but they both ask about each other often. Should I be concerned about this as well? Open Question: Unsatisfactory background check?I was recently taken through 2 interviews with a major bank and was sent an offer letter. I got the job. They gave me appt. times to go do fingerprinting... The whole bit. Then about 1 week before I was due to start I received a call from them saying that now they cannot offer me the job because something in my background check came up "unsatisfactory" The 3rd party organization conducting the check never once contacted me to verify any information. I listed all previous employers and home addresses as much as I could remember even went back to research dates houses were bought etc... to be sure. I have NEVER received any type of conviction of any sort. Have never even been pulled over and issued a ticket. Just bought a house 1 1/2 years ago. I just checked my credit besides a student loan payment 40 days late and a old $200 collection from 3 years ago at an apt complex that is listed as PAID on my credit report it also states it is the responsibility of the co-signer (is on their credit too), but besides I would not consider that to be an immediate disqualification. I advised them of the 1 time I was fired from a job they said it was no problem. The only thing I can think is I recently got married and changed my last name, but I have my new SSN card that has my new name & I listed my maiden name on the background check under alternate names that doesn't make any sense either. Anybody know what the heck it could be. They use a company called Choicepoint & said I was to be receiving info in the mail about it (1 week ago -- still not here) so today I logged onto the choicepoint.com site where they allow you to order 1 free public records check a year and for some reason they said they were unable to identify my identity so it wouldnt even allow me access to my own stuff. I have a block on my credit report but that only applies when trying to get credit?? I am so confused. I have never been in trouble and am very responsible with my credit. Score is somewhere in the 680 range??? And no I am not looking for links to scam work from home opportunities I am far more intellectual than to get caught up in that. Just seeking some insight from somebody who may know more about these types of situations or who runs background checks for employers? Open Question: Is this a good story? Its short.?"Will you hurry up Jamie we are gonna be late again!" John yelled from across the yard. Jamie practically raced through the doors with her arms filled with books and papers as she rushed to the car,"Sisters," John muttered as he started the engine. Jamie adjusted herself and looked in the mirror. Her geeky glasses and hazel eyes stared back at her. She tucked back her frizzy red hair into a messy bun and stared at her freckles, Ugh Im hideous! "Quit it your gonna crack the mirror runt," John said snapping the mirror shut. Of course he gave his toothy grin after, showing that he was joking. His deep brown hair and brown eyes were to die for so he had no problem at school. Jamie sighed and stared out the window, pressing her forehead to the cool glass. There is no way I can stand another day here! she though as she passed by the school. Cheerleaders in their little tight skirts and high heels walked by, clicking the whole way. They glanced at her for a second and then flipped her hair, click-clacking up the steps. Jamie hurried in right as the first bell rang and ran to her locker. She quickly got everything and then rushed out, knocking straight into a mountain. Oh no no no no not again!she thought as she looked up, her mouth gaped open as she stared into deep blue eyes. "I...uhm... uhm...uhm," she mumbled. She'd never seen him before but she could have sworn she knew him. Those deep eyes, blonde hair, that crooked smile. "Jamie?!? Is that you? Oh my gosh it's been to long!" the stranger said as he bent to pick up her books. "Uhm," she whispered again. She was pretty sure her brain had melted, "Hi?" "It's me! Andrew.....Andy...you remember?" Suddenly it clicked, "ANDY! Oh my gosh!" she gasped and grabbed Andrew for a hug. "It's been way to long! How is your mom? And John and oh what about the old man?" The smile slipped off her face as he asked about her father. It had been almost two weeks since his car accident and he still hadn't waken up yet. "Uhm well John's good, and Mom's...good. Uhm yeah." "Thats great! Ive missed you all so..." the bell interupted him. "Shit, late again! Ugh i gotta go bye!" she ran. Andrew was her old best friend. She had known him since they were born but he had moved a few years back. This is going to get really interesting, really fast. She thought to herlself as she slipped into the class. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Oh my gosh hes gonna kiss me! Jamie thought as she leaned in. Andrew leaned in closer and touched her lips softly. The kiss was a quick one, but it was still a kiss. They had been spending a lot of time together for the past three weeks and he finally asked her out. "Oh my gosh," he whispered. "What, do i have something stuck in my teeth? Is it my breath? I'm sorry I shouldn't have done this," she said, her face turning deep red. "No, no, no. You're perfect! Almost godess like." "What? I am so not godess like! I have frizzy hair, freckles, glasses, and no boobs, how am I perfect? Im ugly!" "You're not ugly, you're beautiful," he whispered. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ After kissing a while longer, they layed under the stars. Talking about everything and anything. The subject of her father got up so she finally told him. "You should see him, I'll come with you, I promise!" "It's not that," she said,"It's just, I want to remember him the way he was before, you know, if he doesn't wake up." "I know. Uhm James? Can I tell you something?" he saiud, using her old nickname. "Anything Andy." "I'm sick. And not cold or fever sick, but cancer sick." he whispered but it felt like it was just the wind blowing, whispering words that didn't make sense when put together. "Your what?" she stuttered. "Dying." ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Months passed as they were together and still nothing from her father. She still hadn't gone to go see him, even though she had been going with Andrew to the hospital. He had lost all his hair but the color of his eyes still stayed the same. Her mother had started saying something about "Pulling the plug" but Jamie never listened. When the prom came around Andrew asked her to be his date. Of course she said yes but she felt a tug of fear that this might be his last prom. They went together and danced all night, leaving behind all of the fear and sadness behind. As he kissed her goodnight she wrapped her arms around him and whispered in his ear,"I love you, Always and Forever." He smiled because they used to say that all the time. Best friends, Always and Forever. "I love you too, always and forever." he whispered back. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ The next day Jamie went to go visist Andrew but as she got to the door grief swept through her. She shook it off and rang the doorbell. Andrew's mother answered Open Question: Need advice badly. Im 28 weeks and my baby daddy is bi sexual.?Okay let me explain my situation a little bit. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now and we're expecting a baby girl in Feb! I love this man with all my heart and I have been trying everything to make us be a happy family. May 28th I found out he was curious with guys. I found emails he was sending to people around where we live :( It KILLED me. I have never felt a pain like that in my life. It was the biggest stab in the back. We ended up breaking up because I couldn't deal with it. I have never been in a situation like this but also he is my first boyfriend. Im bi too. So how can I judge when I used to date the same sex? The only difference is i would never do this to him! He says he needed to find an answer and I totally believe him. I can tell he is confused its quite obvious. But that still wasnt good enough for me to be his girlfriend. I ended up getting pregnant around June 8th. ( we were still sleeping together bc i have a hard time letting go) When I found out i was pregnant we were both so excited. There was no questioning anything with us anymore . We were determined to be a family. Well now im 7 months and my relationship has changed so much :( for the worse. I can tell he isnt happy with me and I feel like he has a lot on his mind all the time. I sat him down a couple days ago and tried to have an open conversation with him bc i honestly feel like maybe he is gay and super confused right now because i did catch him in the midst of him trying to figure his sexuality out. And when i caught him the thought of losing me scared him so much he just shut down. then i got pregnant! I feel like he got caught up in this huge mess while trying to figure himself out. I want to be here for him and i want us to be happy but by me bringing up this conversation it opened up a whole different side of him i didnt expect or want to know. He wants to have a fuck buddy because to him sex is just sex? and then he will come home to me and it wont affect our sex life. Yeah maybe to him it wont because he sees nothing wrong in this. But sex is a lot more than just sex to me. It is how my daughter was brought into this world. Him and I were supposed to be a family and now he throws this on me. He also says it will make him love me more because i am letting him experience things in life he wants to explore but i am still here for him backing him up. But i cant do that. I do not want my man sleeping with ANYONE. and not to mention it grosses me out thinking about it (just bc he is my bf though) I dont know what to do anymore. We have so many problems and he really doesnt care about me it seems. i cry 24.7 and i feel so stressed and i know its not good for the baby. He said he would not be here for the baby though if we broke up bc of me. It's not my fault we have completely different morals and views on a relationship but how can he does this to the daughter HE WANTED and helped make? Please help. Back in may he sort of didnt explain a lot bc he was embarrassed i think. Then i got pregnant and now its become an issue bc it is actually being talked about. We do live with my mom and her wife ( the gay thing is around all the time) I want to give my baby the best life i can! I want him to be happy and if that means going out and finding himself than i support that and he knows this. :) but he says he wants to be with me so idk. im so confused. Open Question: what is going on with this guy?Me and this guy Jason had a date to go to the movies with my friend and her date Kevin. And so when we got our tickets and snacks, we all go into the movie, and a little after it started, Kevin put his arm around my friend, and so then Jason looked like he was about to put his arm around me, but he hesistated. Then, he reaches for my hand instead, and accidentally knocks over my popcorn. But I was real chill about it, and told him it was ok. and he says "Umm you know what I'm so sorry take mine and I'll be right back" And so he gives me his popcorn and leaves the theater, and then over an hour later when there's like 5 minutes left of the movie, he comes back and sits like 3 seats away from me and at the end he's like, "so did you enjoy the film" And I said "yeah but where were you?" And he said he was just sitting outside the theater for a little bit, and then he went to the parking lot and was considering whether or not to come back. But he said it's not that he doesn't like me. He said he only came back so I wouldn't think I was the problem..why did he do that? He texted me since then to say hi, but he doesn't answer his phone. how do I get him to tell me what was wrong? the date was his idea and Kevin's? Open Question: Relationship Problem-help! ):?Okay, so my ex and i broke up for a completely wrong reason; my "best friend" tricked him into thinking i didn't care about him anymore and that i cheated on him when i never did, and he's really the only one i've ever truly loved. but now it's been three months since we ended, and i still can't get over him. i've tried everything. but it's not as if i'm just dwelling on him; i'm dating this kid mark who's really sweet and everything and he knows that i'm not exactly over my ex (they're best friends.) people keep telling me that my ex still feels the same way i do, even though we're both taken. but my ex says how happy he is for me and my new boyfriend. my ex and i are still best friends, but i don't know how to deal with this pain i still have after the whole misunderstanding. what do i do? ): More Recent Articles
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