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Open Question: Why do Women have such a big problem with dating younger Men? and more... Open Question: Why do Women have such a big problem with dating younger Men?So I met that same girl (shes getting famous) and at first she thought I was older than she was, when i told her I was 2 years younger, it shattered everything. A complete deal breaker. Why is that. I'm financially set, mature, doing really well in college, the president of a huge student group, have my own car, my own job, and my own life! In other words, I'm not living like a 17 year old but I am 17 going on to 18...and she just turned 20. Whats the bid idea? is it simply because I'm not at the sacred age of 18 or is it simply because I'm younger? I didntt get it one bit,theres's nothing about me that says 17, with me its simply a number! Any insight? Open Question: Asking someone out & first date advice?Alright, I'd better fill in a brief back story. Foremost, I'm 18, in my last year at college (or rather, sixth form at my secondary school). It wouldn't be incorrect to describe me as a geek. I spend most of my time on the computer, I take Further Maths and I'm applying to do Physics at university. I hang around with my geek friends, in fact, I'd consider myself the leader. This does not, however, mean that I fit a basic stereotype in which I wear glasses, am extremely unhygienic and socially inept. In fact, at my school the popular kids tend to like the geeks a lot, they know we have good senses of humour, we're amiable and we're generally helpful if people need a favour. I've been told tens of times that I'm very attractive as well, though that's a matter of opinion I guess. So basically, I'm not a gangly little freak just because I'm intelligent, so don't get that impression before I begin ;). There is a girl who is absolutely stunning in my year. I'm not into the stereotypical big breasts, etc. Rather I am into good facial bone structure; proper symmetrical beauty. I know most guys are into a well endowed body, let's say, but to me she's a perfect 10. Regardless, I was in her class for a couple of years at school. I've liked her for maybe 2 and a half years now but I've never summed up the courage to ask her out, despite being an extremely confident person. When it gets to the moment, I can just never ask her out. People tell me just to switch my brain off, but it never works, my brain overpowers my heart (corny, I know :P). So I guess it'd be nice to ease my troubles about asking her out that seem to be preventing me from doing so. 1. I don't know her that well. My friend group at school consists of about 10 guys and 3 girls (although they don't hang out with us outside of school, they just come over and sit with us a couple of times a week). Apart from people I know online, I'm not close to any girls and haven't been since primary school. I've never asked someone in a date in my life, so this isn't just my first date with the girl I really like, but my first date full stop. When I google my troubles, everyone automatically assumes you're good friends with the girl you want to ask out. Well I am not :P. I'm not sure if this acts as a big obstacle. Should I be asking her out at all? I really want to, if that helps ;) . 2. I don't know what to say to her, and when. Should I catch her on her own, or ask her in front of her friends, or ask her to speak in private when she's with her friends or what? Will a simple "Will you go out with me?" suffice? Everyone always says you know when the right moment is. Well yes, I think I've seen "the right moment" when we've passed each other before and noone else was around, but I never acted on it because I need to grow a pair :P. 3. If I ever man up and ask her out (I'm very confident she'd say yes; she's a very nice person and I'm a nice guy, and, not to sound arrogant, but I have a lot of confidence and charisma (no; really :P)) where do I take her? Bear in mind I don't know her too well. Taking her to the cinema would be weird because it'd just be watching a film with someone I don't know very well. It's not like you can get intimate with someone you barely spoke to. Also, what do I wear? Jeans and a shirt? Or just a t-shirt? Does it matter that my hair doesn't grow straight? I keep it clean, I don't it styled or gelled too, do I? I find gelled hair really fake and it'd be betraying who I am to wear it. I refuse to do that for anyone. I was thinking of just wearing a shirt, some black jeans, converse all stars. That sound alright? (Incidentally, if you were thinking blue jeans, no, I don't have blue jeans, I only have black jeans. I like black :P ). 4. What happens if the conversation just dies? How awkward would that be? If we didn't have enough in common it'd be cringeworthy. Or turn into an interviewing session. How do you start off the date? Tell her she looks beautiful, then get to the destination, and then what? Ask her to tell you about herself or something? Just seems extremely weird to make the effort to ask someone out and then get there and be like "Okay, now tell me about yourself". And I don't want to resort to having to talk about something general like the news. "Pity about all those dead soldiers, eh?" doesn't sound like a good thing to say on a date ;) . Thanks in advance. And I won't be awarding the points to the first person to write an answer so please don't just skim this and put a flimsy answer down, I really need someone to address all my concerns to ease my mind so I can finally ask her out. And I don't need genero comments like "be yourself" and "be funny" or whatever. I am always myself, I get annoyed at people who succumb to peer pressure or changing their behaviour based on what other people think, and I'm very talkative. It's getting the conversation started in the first place that's the problem; I can keep it Open Question: Only 1 USB port of a total of 3 working, how to fix the other 2?I have a laptop which has no port for a wired mouse, so I'm using a wireless mouse with its receiver connected to the only USB port that works. But I've just gotten some speakers that also happen to require a USB port. If I want to use the speakers, I must give up the mouse, because the other USB ports don't work. How to fix them? I've already checked and they're up to date according to Device Manager. Besides, not all of them have this problem. What to do? Open Question: Would you be happy if you found out that your girlfriend/wife had never been with anyone before you?And she's 22 years old and very pretty. Hasn't done anything past making out. I've known her for years before we got together and she really is a virgin but has had plenty of offers. She just didn't want a boyfriend before, she said. She wants to wait until she is pretty sure she is with the right guy. Will this be a problem that she hasn't had any relationships before or dated? Would you rather be with (longterm) a girl who is a virgin, someone who has slept with her one or two previous boyfriends? What do you think? Open Question: Sorry, I know this is long but I really do need help, do I even have a chance?Sorry it's long, don't bother complaining cause I warned ya This girl is one of my closest friends at college. When we first met we went on awkward half dates (mostly started by her) for a while up until her roommate drunkenly told me that I should make her night and f-ck her. Maybe things would have been easier had I followed her advice, but at the time I wasn't very interested in her romantically and stopped dating. I continued to hang out with her though because as I said, she has become one of my best friends. We share a ton of interests and have many of the same friends. That was freshman year. This is middler year. We both have been in a failed relationship since then, and are both single now, trying to find someone else. We spend nearly every weekend together, and since I don't drink much and she enjoys drinking a lot we frequently go out to bars and such. I watch out for her, and she trusts me to mix her drinks for her at parties so I can cut her off before she goes overboard. Problem is, we're both pretty shy. Sure she let me hold her hand to guide her back to her apartment last weekend, but she was also blackout drunk. But she also only told me when she was coming back from her internship a week earlier than expected a month ago and wanted to surprise everyone, just to make sure I would be there (cause I live so far away). Basically... I'm madly in love right now. I want to tell her, but I also don't want to screw up this kind of friendship. I know I USED to have a chance, but now I have no idea. If there's the chance it'll happen I need to try, but if there's no chance at all, well, I better keep silent. Regardless I need to make a decision soon, if she gets asked out before I tell her sh!t is gonna hit the fan. Help me? Open Question: my heart is in pain with faith on questioning?I been dating this girl whos 3years younger then me, its 7th months and shes thinking is this realy going somewere and she asking questions i cant answer, i love her with all my heart, i hardly say i love someone because i know there is a diffrence from liking and having feelings much more, i love this girl i asked her what shen would like from me but im waiting for the answer, i know she cant think straight at the moment, all i want is her to be happy and i dont want to screw up her life on her grades to become what she wants to do, im 19 my heart opened up to her and she kept coming towards me even after pushing her away but she wanted to date me, she been having second thoughts, she says she does love me back and i know this sounds stupid but this is a long distance, she realy picked helped me and put me back on tracks of my life. i love her i want whats best for her i want to be with her but i know that might not be the answer my relationships have not been that great in the passed, with girls cheating on me in the passed and not having feelings for one person who never cheated on me so im probably like a spounge of emotion, im kinda starting to question my faith, i dont know what to do, god is he real or not, if he is then why cant he guide me through this even a little. i think i know what alot of you are going to say so i need more then answers like, end it but still keep in contact and god does excist or he dont ect. I need a proper answer, my heart is open and bleeding not knowing what path to take the funny thing is... i helped alot of my friends out with this type of problem both online and real life but i cant find this answer to myself. she picked me up from the darkness if the bad comes then there will allways be a spot for her in my heart and the memeries wont go from the good she has given, im scared i become an emotional wreak if the worst comes and i dont want to be like that specialy when im questioning my own faith. I love her but i dont want to keep her if she is not feeling happy i want whats best for her, there is something els i want to say but i dont want people to get the wrong end of this stick so here it is. Before i left highschool i said, army or r.a.f is the last option in a career only LAST option because i like to do one of them but try other things 1st to make sure it aint a mistake, also i will not join if i have someone (cant put another human inocent feeling be worried when i get called out) im strong but at the moment im not. please answer my main question only and only answer what you can. i LOVE her but i dont want to be selfish if she dont feel the same. Open Question: I officially am giving up on long distance relationships.?So i met this one girl online about a month ago. we would talk on the phone alot and on myspace and everything. She would tell me how much she cares about me and how much she likes me. We talked frequently, but then she would get grounded and what not. last time i spoke to her was last week, and she spent an hour writing paragraphs about how much she cares about me , AND note, she has a problem. SHE likes a guy that lives in her state thats FALLING for her, and i WAS falling for her too, and she said she might be falling for ME or HIM. BUT NOW get this. I told her i really care about deeply and i would do anything for her and you know what i find out today? I talked to this girls friend, and i asked her to talk to this girl at school. So this girl that i like, guess what she told this chick that went to talk to her? THE GIRL I LIKE SAID TO HER... SHE WANTS ME TO DISAPPEAR FROM HER LIFE AND THAT IM CREEPY. HAHA, WHAT THE HELL DID I DO TO DESERVE THAT? SHE WAS ALWAYS NICE TO ME AND SAID SHE CARED ABOUT ME ALOT AND ANY GIRL WOULD BE LUCKY ENOUGH TO HAVE ME, AND SHE WOULD SIT THERE WRITING FOR HOURS, SO WHAT? IT WAS ALL A LIE, I CANT BELIEVE ANY OF THIS. The funny thing is, im not hurt, i think its funny that people take advantage of my kindness and my heart and break it, and you know what, thats fine. I have learned my lesson, i dont know why she would do this to me. I knew her for a month and a half and she liked me so much, and now she wants me gone from her life. Thats fine, i hope she enjoys dating that guy that lives in her state, not like she was going to pick me anyway. Jeez, what did i ever do to deserve this... Open Question: am i getting my hopes up for nothing?my husband and i separated in feb of this year. after breaking up with his first gf in march we talked about getting back together. we decided we weren't going to get a divorce but start over and take things slow. then in april he started seeing someone else. i filed and served him in june. things between us got ugly and we were fighting about him not spending time with our daughter. in august we were getting along and started having sex again. i know it was wrong because he had a gf but i still didn't stop it. in sep. his gf dumped him for someone else. ever since then we have been going on dates and having sex like we are a couple but we aren't. i love him and i don't want to get a divorce but i'm scared he doesn't feel the same way. when we talk about what happened he tells me he is afraid i'll bring up those problems again if we get back together. Help what do i do? Open Question: How do I tell my friend that his relationship is weird?I have a 16-year-old friend. I don't really like him, but i feel like I should tell him what I think about who he dates. It's not really who he dates, it's HOW he dates. He doesn't keep girlfriends very long, and if he gets dumped (he never breaks it off, he's the one who always gets dumped) he always has another within three days. I think that's ridiculous, because he's had about 8 girlfriends in the last 4 months, no joke, but that's not even my problem. 2 days ago, he started dating a 12-year-old. she's in 7th grade, he's in 10th. Everyone thinks this is weird and has been talking bad about him. How do I tell him that this is just wrong? More Recent Articles
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