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Open Question: Why is the guy I recently started to date acting this way? and more... Open Question: Why is the guy I recently started to date acting this way?First off I HATE mind games. The moment I find a person is playing mind games with me I cut them off with no problems. Anyway I have been seeing an ex coworker. I hadn't seen him in 5 years. I was surprised he remembered everything about me. Anyway, he started to compliment me a lot and it got to the point of making me feel uncomfortable. In fact, the same day he asked to take me out to dinner. I said no do to the fact I felt tad uncomfortable. However, we exchanged numbers. The next day he texted message stating that he was sorry he came on too strong, but he had a huge crush on me when we used to work together. I remember he told me one day at our old job that he wished he could wake up every morning to my beautiful face. He asked to make it up to me. So I said fine lets go out for some drinks later on that night. We went out and had a good time. He was very respectful to me. However, I noticed he could barely look at me. After we parted ways he gave me hug and said our good nights. Then he texted messaged and asked did I get home safely which I did. Then he texted that he wanted to passionately kiss me so bad, but he didn't want to cross the line. I told him I was flattered. He told me that he wanted to see me again so I said what about next weekend and he said whatever you like. So leading up to the weekend he starts to grow on me. We started texting and calling each other baby. He was so syrupy sweet. On our second date he I had a blast. We went out to a wonderful Italian restaurant and took me to movie. At the end of our date he passionately kissed me and took me home. Then I texted him that I really had a good time and hope we can see more of each other. He text me that he was home and said good night. The next couple of days he didn't call or text me, which didn't bother me because I have work and school. Plus he said he works 60 hours a week and has two children (8 and 3 year old), which I understand. Then I received a stating that he hopes I get to work safely and I told him to do the same. Yesterday I called him to let him know that I hope he gets to work safely because we had a blizzard. He told me thanks and he hopes the same. Then he asks did I really enjoy our last date and I said of course and would love to do it again. He said well tell me when you want to go out it's all up to me. So I told him how about tomorrow (which is today), around 8pm EST. He said fine he will pick me up so we can go out to dinner. That was the last time I heard from him. I texted him last night and stating that I couldn't wait to see him. Then I fell asleep. This morning around 11am I texted him that I might be running about 10 mins late.I admit we both have busy schedules,but there's no excuse for not calling. We are both in our late 20's. Open Question: Dealing with a momma's boy?Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We have never had any big problems in our relationship except for his mother. I love him so much and he loves me as well. We always get a long, yada yada yada. Now... he's 24 and a total mommys boy. I can't stand it. It has been a problem with us since the first 5 months we've dated. She controls everything, it seems like atleast. I know he loves me because of how he treats me -- like a total princess. He is totally head over heels with me and me with him.... until his mom comes around. When his mom comes around, she tells him that he can't be with me because she doesn't like me. Well, heres this -- I've only met her 3 times. I dressed nice, cleaned up real nice, acted polite, everything. I gave her no reason to dislike me. At all. When she comes into the picture, he suddenly hates me. He tells me off and wants to end our relationship. When I ask him if it was his mother that put ideas into his head again, he says yes. It's always her. She even controlled him to a point where they both tried to get me kicked out of our apartment (didn't work). For my birthday, we were going out of town. No... she sent him an e-mail saying that he couldn't because she didn't approve. When my car broke down 300 miles from home, she wanted to go pick him up and leave me out there. She came over on thanksgiving and she broke up with me because I was upset that he didn't invite me to dinner and i had to spend it alone. She said I wasn't being fair. Wtf? I was the one who was alone on the holiday. She calls and asks him what we're doing... when we say we are going out somewherre, she goes off telling him what he can spend and what he can't spend. But it's ok if I spend all my money, just he can't spend anything. She calls on the weekends and picks him up to go to breakfast, then suddenly takes him to her house to work. He has no say.. when i ask what's up, I get yelled at I'm having issues dealing with it, especially since Thanksgiving. I have been a secret. He doesn't want to tell her we're dating still because she might yell at him. I understand that it's his mother. I don't want to come between them because that's his mother, so most of the time I don't say anything. Don't tell me he's not my problem and to leave. I am not going to leave him over this woman. He's the perfect boyfriend all around... with one flaw -- mommy. Open Question: Do you think I'll end up alone?True love seems to be extremely rare in today's world. Dating revolves around sex, social images, money and raising children. Although raising children is a perfectly valid reason to be married, very few people seem to get married for love. Dating comes at the price of your time, money and in many cases your emotional well-being. In my case, I'm extremely shy and kind of socially awkward. For whatever reason, this seems to be the single largest turn-off for women. Never mind the fact that I've succeeded academically, financially and that I'm in good shape. Being socially awkward around women reduces my value to zero with women. I'm advised to seek psychological counseling or to read self-help books about how to 'fix' my problem. In all of this, I've realized something. The source of my awkwardness is that I'm not comfortable with acting this way. Because it's not right to act this way. My instincts saved me from becoming like the rest of the animals. I do not have a problem. American society has a problem. That problem is one of a very subtle gender role and a cultural addiction to sex. The expectation that men must be outgoing, assertive and hunt for sex. Any deviation from this norm is classified as weakness. I'm shy. What of it? What's wrong with being quiet and introverted? America is a nation of overly-extroverted sociopaths that have replaced God with money and love with sex. There is nothing wrong with me. I'm one of the last few pure, sane people in a society driven mad by excessive consumerism and sexual proliferation. I've been shamed, made to feel inferior because of a lack of a 'skill' at playing a game. I'm not wrong, this... whole damn system is wrong. Like a splinter in my mind, it's been there the entire time. I'm done looking for love in a culture where is no longer really exists. I won't be like you filthy animals... controlled by pride, greed, lust and your petty wrath. My name is Will. I'm a 25 year old virgin, and I'm above this game. I've given up on love, and I don't care if I end up alone or not. I won't die a worthless death, because I'm going to make a difference in this world. My happiness isn't as important. I've steeled my heart. It was wrong for me to try and fit into this corrupt society. I'll remain calm and confident in myself. Unless I create the perfect conditions, I won't succeed. Open Question: Why is this guy play games with me?First off I HATE mind games. The moment I find a person is playing mind games with me I cut them off with no problems. Anyway I have been seeing an ex coworker. I hadn't seen him in 5 years. I was surprised he remembered everything about me. Anyway, he started to compliment me a lot and it got to the point of making me feel uncomfortable. In fact, the same day he asked to take me out to dinner. I said no do to the fact I felt tad uncomfortable. However, we exchanged numbers. The next day he texted message stating that he was sorry he came on too strong, but he had a huge crush on me when we used to work together. I remember he told me one day at our old job that he wished he could wake up every morning to my beautiful face. He asked to make it up to me. So I said fine lets go out for some drinks later on that night. We went out and had a good time. He was very respectful to me. However, I noticed he could barely look at me. After we parted ways he gave me hug and said our good nights. Then he texted messaged and asked did I get home safely which I did. Then he texted that he wanted to passionately kiss me so bad, but he didn't want to cross the line. I told him I was flattered. He told me that he wanted to see me again so I said what about next weekend and he said whatever you like. So leading up to the weekend he starts to grow on me. We started texting and calling each other baby. He was so syrupy sweet. On our second date he I had a blast. We went out to a wonderful Italian restaurant and took me to movie. At the end of our date he passionately kissed me and took me home. Then I texted him that I really had a good time and hope we can see more of each other. He text me that he was home and said good night. The next couple of days he didn't call or text me, which didn't bother me because I have work and school. Plus he said he works 60 hours a week and has two children (8 and 3 year old), which I understand. Then I received a stating that he hopes I get to work safely and I told him to do the same. Yesterday I called him to let him know that I hope he gets to work safely because we had a blizzard. He told me thanks and he hopes the same. Then he asks did I really enjoy our last date and I said of course and would love to do it again. He said well tell me when you want to go out it's all up to me. So I told him how about tomorrow (which is today), around 8pm EST. He said fine he will pick me up so we can go out to dinner. That was the last time I heard from him. I texted him last night and stating that I couldn't wait to see him. Then I fell asleep. This morning around 11am I texted him that I might be running about 10 mins late. We are both in our late 20's. I admit we both have busy schedules. Open Question: i still have feelings for him:/?Okay, my ex bf and i just broke up..about a month ago. i really fell for him, badly. he hates me now cause i saidd somethiing mean, or talked crap.. but i guess just to help me get over him. i love him, you have no idea :/ i feel pathetic asking this on here.. but i have no idea what to do.. everytime we talk, like text he doesnt reply to me or we argue. it's cause..again i guess he hates me, i dont. i think i will always like himm.. blah i wrote this: His name here, and the day we dated here More Recent Articles |
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