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Open Question: Why is he acting strange all the sudden? and more...

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Open Question: Why is he acting strange all the sudden? and more...

Open Question: Why is he acting strange all the sudden?

I've been dating my boyfriend for over two years now and he only texts me once a day or calls me once a day now. He says hes busy and hes doing stuff with his family which he is (hes a family guy) but my gut is telling me he is somehow avoiding me. He says i love you when we get off the phone, but im senseing something is wrong. I've tried to talk to him about it but he just says hes busy and he doesnt need to text me once a hour, i dont want a text once a hour, i just dont want to just talk to him once a day. if this helps, we've been having issues with how he cheated last year, but other than that im the one that has no problem, he does. :-(

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Open Question: I need counseling Please advice me?

Hi there, am 33yrs old Guy... now am married n have a kid... when i was 20 I was in love with a girl, n that girl (14 or 15 yrs at that time) was also in love with me (If u say infatuation cant accept).. we never had a discussion, never spend time together... all with smile and eye contacts n some hand signals.... when everything was going smooth... suddenly she stopped seeing me and stopped smiling at me.. Later she moved from my place, shifted to some other place... I will often go there n will see her without her knowledge... Coz her dad smelled that am roaming behind her, n even this girl stopped seeing me... so without her knowledge I use to see her.... I never proposed her, as I had a fear that she may reject me, or it will spoil her studies and life.... later I got married few yrs back, my wife is such a good girl, no one in the earth can get such a lovely wife... she loves me like anything.... recently, it happens to meet that girl online, i mean I saw that girls profile in a social network website... I wrote a big mail, as I thought that she got married and my intention was just to recall those few teenage hrs memories and wanna have a smile... she was very happy on seeing my mail n she replied in a friendly way.... which help us to maintain a online friendship... when it happens to converse more in mail n chat, she started telling me all stories... She was in love with me for 12+ years, till date... after my episode she got so many proposals but she cant replace anyone in my place... she came to know that I got married n settled n was willing to marry some one else but nw she din get any opportunities now... On hearing all these stories, I was haunted by my past, and was worried abt missing this girl.... It hurst me a lot that when i cme to knw that this pain or missing feel is mutual... more over wen ever she tells me something about who are all proposed her and the circumstance, I terribly get upset n I felt a possessiveness.... later we decided to be a good online friends, even it seems to be very very difficult for me to continue this relationship, as I feel that I have to give 100% love to my wife, shez such a wonderful girl, a motherly care n love which my wife shows is something great.... I feel that chatting or mailing or maintain a friendship with my Exgirlfriend gives me more pain and a guilty feel that am not Loyal to my wife, coz when ever we chat, it will be like a chatting of lovers not as friends... at the same time without mailing or chatting with this girl seems to be even more painfull.... I dont knw hw much truth is there in her messages.... now my wife came to knw that am chatting with my exgirl friend... I convinced her... but my problem is I cant sleep or eat... some one help me to come out of this.... i wanna concentrate on my family and my business... its not that I don wanna worry about my ex-girl friend.... I really don't know what I exactly need.... all i need is an advice.... and a counseling... help me... heal me... save me from this pain....

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Open Question: What should I do in this relationship?

I've been dating a girl for year now, and things were going great at the beginning. Now, we're both really busy and it seems like every time we do get time together we get in an argument. I feel like I'm criticized for everything I do, and even the littlest mistake will set her off. We've almost broken up multiple times, but she starts crying every time we almost break up though so I think she wants it to work out. She just seems completely different. There's no chance of pregnancy or anything so it's not that, but she just seems really irritated with me specifically. She acts completely normal with friends. Lately I feel like I don't even want to be in it anymore, but at first everything was so great it's hard to leave. And to make matters more complicated, lately I have really been thinking a lot about an ex girlfriend who I dated a few years ago. It's not that I never thought of her before, but lately the feelings seem a lot stronger. We dated for several years and had a great relationship. We never had any problems and only broke up because I wanted to be able to experience dating other people because I hadn't really dated anyone other than her. Otherwise, the relationship was really good. We don't talk anymore because of the relationship I am in now. Basically, each time I enter a relationship, we don't talk, and if I'm not in one we will talk. She hasn't dated anyone since we broke up. So I guess I don't know if I should stick it out with the relationship I'm in with the ways things have been and how I've been feeling lately. I don't know if my feelings about my ex are so strong because of the ways things are now or what. Opinions are appreciated. Thanks.

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Open Question: How do i know what my address and port is for my proxy server for HTTP connection?

Hi i am very lost just installed norton anti vir 2009 but its stating it is out-of-date! I tried almost everything to fix it. Its also saying it cant connect to Norton's live-update when i try to fix a problem, so th one last step it can help me with is to enter my port and address but what is that? Don't know whether to give up are try to fix it oh i also called the help line and was on hold for an hour ..

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