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Open Question: why wont he admit his social anxiety and problems after he has known me this long? and more... Open Question: why wont he admit his social anxiety and problems after he has known me this long?So ill make this short.Have dated a guy off and on for 4 years.He has made me feel stupid,inadequate and hurt over the years.Maybe that was just his projections of himself onto me idk .Never wanting to go in public much at all.If we did go to dinner it would be the same place and when many people werent around.Started to give me a complex.He would never really say why.He always pushes me away.Communication like pulling teeth. I was never around his friends ect......Well I lived a hour away from him I moved closer 6 months ago and started going out in his home town for the first time.He was extremely uncomfortable with both but would never give me a reason why.First time I walked into a bar and he saw me he ran out and I mean ran.Panic attack?Weird right? So it turns out he has social anxiety disorder.He was trying to hide it from me but his friends told me.It all made sense thats when everything clicked together.Im mad he hide it always let me believe it was me and his unexplanation of some of his actions caused great pain and friction ect... So I tried confronting him about it in a supporting way.Now he wants nothing to do with me wouldnt talk about it. wont confirm or deny ect.....Its like as soon as I moved closer he got more freaked out and defensive.I dont understand why he never could confide in me.I would never judge him.What is he so afraid of?What should i do? I know I am the only girl that has stayed around and by his side.He hasnt had many girlfriends at all!!!!!! Its been a month.Should I just leave it be? I fear he hates me.Im so so hurt and confused.I truely just want to be there for him. Open Question: are some straight men likes playing games to gay people?im 23 years old gay guy, i moved to the city where i work and i found an partment with 4 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms, a nice living room and a kitchen. i met the owner of the apartment building and i told him that im interested to take 1 bedroom and willing to share the remaining 3 bedrooms with other people since im also looking for a new friend and a nice roommate. the owner told me that there are already 3 men who are living in that apartment and also looking for 1 more roommate. that day i feel so lucky that i already have found a nice apartment and excited to meet my future roommates. but before im planning to move in to that apartment my sister and her husband wants me to live with them so that i could save money and i dont have to pay my rent. my sister is a doctor and her husband is a lawyer they dont have kids yet, i like my sister but she's very protective to me, the reason i refuse to live with them its because i feel i dont have freedom in my life she doesn't want me to go party 4 times a week, date guys that i just met in the club or at the party and she hates it if i go home late at night. so i told her that i already found a nice apartment which is not expensive and i lied to her that my roomates are my old friends in the past. after 1 week i moved in to my new apartment and i met my roommates i did not expect that they are attractive guys.at first they dont know im gay coz im a straight acting gay guy. they are cool and very nice to me so 1 afternoon we are all together in our apartment, im in my room fixing and putting all my things in order then we talk alot to get to know each other. im comfortable with them but i just want to be more open to them that i was gay so that i can be more comfortable being my self if im around with them. that night after dinner while watching tv i talked to them and open up about my sexuality and i told them if they are not comfortable with it and they dont like me thats fine im going to move out. im expecting that they will get offended for who i am. but instead they told me thats not a problem and they think im cool coz im open to them. im so glad that they are my new friends we always go out night time partying, clubbing, watching sports game etc. i sometimes think they are gay but they are not, each one of them has a girlfriend i saw their photo and sometimes on weekend they bring their gf's in our apartment. i like my new friends alot coz i feel close to them they like to play games around me they hug me and told me im your bf now and laugh about it i know its a joke but most straight men they dont usually say that but sometimes i also flirt with them. they feel more closer to me coz i know how to cook and also when they found out i know how to do body massage almost every week end they ask if i could do body massage for them and give me money as a payment of it but i did not accept it. i notice they are horny and i also learned that they love watching porn and invite me to watch it with them im cool with it but i feel weird watching it while they are laughing so i just laugh together with them LOL. 1 mon. after, they found out that next mon. is my b-day they told me they have something to do on my b-day. on the day of my b-day while im still at work they already called me to come home early for a surprise. when i went home and open the door im in shock and smile that my 3 roommates shout happy birthday and they are only wearing boxer shorts dancing in front of me and they let me sit down im front of the tv and they bring some foods like cakes and drinks. then they turn on the dvd player and im expecting were going to watch a nice movie but what i saw is a porn movie with 2 male guys having sex i just smile and they keep on dancing in front of me asking me to touch them they hold my hand to feel their body i feel like im a slut that time. i did not say anything i just went out to the apartment and go to my sisters condo and stay there for a week she asked me if theres any problem with me i just told her im fine. until now i didn't go back to my apartment and my roommtes keeps on calling me if im okey and if i could come back in our apartment and talk about it. i still have alot of question in my mind the fffucck is wrong with them its so weird actually i dont feel angry or i hate it, honestly it happened to me with guys that i know in the past and have sexual experience but what my roommates did i feel weird, im shock its ok if they told me they do it for gays before and thats fine with me i still like them for who they are. my question is are there really some straight men who likes to play games like that? im also thinking if im going to stay in that apartment or start looking for another one. Open Question: Question to frequent (or all-time) laptop users?I have two dead HP laptops. The first one we got in 2007 and it consequently died in late 2008, after the warranty had expired. I was in need of a new one urgently so instead of fixing it right away, I bought a new one, also HP, just a newer model. It's warranty expired in April this year, and it died yesterday. Same problem. Looks like HP have noticed that these series (pavilion) have this serious fault, where your graphics fail, and then your screen is blank, with "melting effects", even though your laptop is running fine, lights and fan is on etc. I am thinking of buying a different laptop, it's just that HP pavilion are everywhere and I assumed they're worth the price -- but I can't possibly buy a new laptop each year. I am looking for someone who always uses a laptop for personal, entertainment and work, daily, for advice on brand, etc. I am looking for a hard wearing one, obviously, one that can cope with not only movies, but up-to-date games and so on. Thanks in advance guys. Super M > thanks for your reply. I don't know if a system restore will do any good if my graphics card failed - a hardware issue - and I was looking for ideas from other daily laptop users for different, trustworthy brands whose laptops don't die within the year. thanks! The ONE> Thank you as well. How long have you had the gateway laptop? I don't mind whether it's portable or not, it's usually at home and not travelling a lot. Also, Gateway is not a brand i am familiar with - how trustworthy are they? Open Question: POP outlook 2007 for email with yahoo, downloads twice.?Hi, Recently i had to change my OS... before changing i was using outlook 2007 with yahoo... i had my emails up to date...in a outlook .pst file Then i changed my os and installed Outlook 2007, then created a new profile for my email.. then added the yahoo into outlook... on the same outlook .pst file Now the problem is it started to download tons and tons of email from yahoo server which i already have in my outlook .pst file... Now all my emails are doubled... How to stop outlook or the yahoo server doing this.. Help me on this pls.. More Recent Articles
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