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Open Question: Why would my girlfriend leave me for her ex boyfriend? and more... Open Question: Why would my girlfriend leave me for her ex boyfriend?Ok so I was dating this girl and we were dating for about three months. The whole time we were dating she told me how she loved me and always wanted to be with me. She wanted to even have kids with me and I really did not have a problem with that. Then she just decided out of nowhere to just end it and told me that the reason she was breaking up with me was that she worked all the time and never had the time to spend with me or her friends. Also she said that when she did have off that she was either helping her grandparents or just too tired from work to do anything with me. Then later on I find out from a friend that she is trying to get back with her ex boyfriend. So I texted her to find out if it was true and she got all ignorant with me and told me that it wasn't true and to stop bothering her. But it was true cause my friend works with her ex boyfriend who she is now with and told me that she would come to his job and pick him up and would drop him off at his job. So she broke up with me and went back with her ex boyfriend. What I don't understand is how she could tell me that she loved me and always wanted to be with me and then just end it and go back with her ex boyfriend. Also she broke up with her ex boyfriend to be with me. Just another detail cause I'm wondering if it's cause of this that she broke up with me. I lost my job and shortly after that is when she broke up with me. Also she had broken up with her ex boyfriend twice when he didn't have a job. So what I'm wondering is, is she just after guy with money and if they don't have it she moves on to another guy. Because every other boyfriend she ever had she broke up with them. The only guy that ever broke up with her was this contractor guy and she was with him for a year and engaged to him and he just broke up with her. So I'm wondering if it is the fact that she is just after money and not the guy. Sorry for going on so long it just pisses me off that she did this to me and that I didn't realize it. Open Question: Im 17 he is 27, what shall I do?I'm a 17 year old guy (just turned), and I really really love this guy only problem is he is 27!!! Okay here is the story. Basically I'm bisexual and i've never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, Iv had crushes here n there but never dated anyone. So then I was hanging around with my mates one day and I meet this guy at this event he starts talking to me etc quite an interetsing guy but I wasn't really attracted to him. Later on my when we leave my mate tells me that guy liked me and he gave that guy my number. I was like 'oh no' - but didn't really mind. So later on he rings me and talks about general stuff. Next day we meet at the same event again, we keeping meeting at this event for about a week and random phone calls here n there. Then one day I remeber I was thinking about him all day and was looking forward to meeting him, I realised I was really attracted to him now. We meet again at the event and I realise how much I like him, when we left my friend so to me you couldn't stop smiling when u were with him u change so much when ur around him u really light up. Next time we meet at the cinema with this guy and his mates, then we got alone for a couple of mins (I deliberately weny back with him to his car, then i kissed him - he pushed me away) He said that he really liked me and said anyguy who been soooo lucky to be with me but because of the age gap he can't. Then later on in the week he rings me and asks me if i am upset I said I am and he said meet up so we did and then we talked I felt sooo much better so I tried kisiing him again, he pushed me off again, i was upset then he said okay one kiss so we kissed for quite long, I really enjoyed it (my first kiss). But he said that this was it and he is going to delete me of his phone and we can' talk because it isn't right. He has dleted me but I still have his number, I feel so depressed without him, shall I ring him? dont know what to do? I know this is wrong, but I like him sooooo much. and I am so sexually attracted to him, feel like losing my viriginity to him he turns me on a lot too. Would this be illegal cause even if we did have sex I wouldn't tell noone. WHAT SHALL I DO? Open Question: Bestfriend Problem!!! helppp mee!?ok, so i have a bestfriend. shes been my bestfriend for 2 years now and we tell eachother everything. 2 weeks ago, she went to colombia and in that time period i got very close to her cousin who is very cute. He recently asked me out and i said yes. Instead of my bestfriend being happy for me, she says that hes not the right guy for me, that hes bad, that i deserve better, and that its akward that her bestfriend is dating her cousin. Last night she calls me up and says that we shouldnt talk for 3 days and see how it goes because she needs some space. That really hurt me. I need my bestfriend in my life right now, and she just leaves me. Then i go on Aim, and her Aim status is ummm maybe 5 days! ugh, idk what to do. Im really mad at her right now, and she should be supporting me. =[ Open Question: How can I get him to want to be with me, and not her?I'm in love with the greatest guy on the planet. I've know him for three years.] He is in love with me too. The only problem is, I live in NJ and he lives in FL. Also, he has a girlfriend. He tells me that we're destined, and that he's only staying with his gf because we plan to meet when we're both 18. (3 years from now). Recently, we were in a minor altercation when he said that this wasn't how he wanted us to be, I ask, what do you mean? He explains to me that he wanted us to be dating. Somehow it turned into him having to choose. I didn't want to seem like the one to be pressuring him even though I wanted him badly, I told him he could stay with his GF. We are both virgins, and plan to give each other our own virginities. When I asked him how are we gonna date each other if we aren't dating now? He says "When we meet, our love will click & come back." I thought that the idea of waiting 3 years was ridiculous when we already act like a couple. I constantly feel like the 3rd wheel, because our relationship isn't promised despite our wishes. I know he loves me, he clearly shows it, he stayed up all night with me.. I want to be his girlfriend, and one day his wife. Most of you think this is puppy love, but this is more. As a girl, I have matured faster and I feel like he could really be the one. He makes me happy in so many ways... Now, the problem is the girlfriend. I already have a couple of issues with her, and him dumped her for me is going to make it worse. She knows he's in love with me but I feel like she isn't right for her. Everyday he's complaining saying that she's flirting with other guys.. What are some ways I can get him to want to be with me and not her? Open Question: How do I convince this girl it's okay to date me? 10 POINTS!!!!?I've been talking to this girl for awhile. We really like each other and she thinks I'm almost perfect. The only problem is, she is afraid to date. She doesn't want to break up, and she doesn't want to get hurt. How can I convince her that none of this will happen and it's okay to date? Open Question: How do I convince this girl it's okay to date me?I've been talking to this girl for awhile. We really like each other and she thinks I'm almost perfect. The only problem is, she is afraid to date. She doesn't want to break up, and she doesn't want to get hurt. How can I convince her that none of this will happen and it's okay to date? Open Question: I like this older guy a lot?I am 14. I like this guy who is a senior right now. I know it is a huge age difference especially for high school kids but I cant help it. I have liked him since summer, and it is december now. He knows I like him and we have been talking a lot. He does have a girlfriend but he says they are having problems. He has told me he might date a 9th grader, depending on how much he liked them. He's not your average jerk, he's sweet and funny and cute and football captain and he plays basketball. We talk every day. He tells me I make him lose his train of thought and his words. I think it might be fate... I understand that I sound naive and shouldn't get my hopes up and the chances of this are pretty slim but I honestly think we are meant to be. Don't tell me I shouldn't worry about relationships now or anything like that because I have liked him for 6 months straight and I need help. How can I get him to like me more? Flirting advice? Good topics to talk about? Funny things to make him laugh? Make him interested? Etc... I'll take all the advice you can give. Thanks guys Open Question: boyfriend help please?i am 15. almost 16. i own a car. now i want a boyfriend, but all the guys who like me are, like, the total OPPOSITE for what i need. *scream of frustration* i'm pretty, kinda...enough. 5"2, i weigh 97 lbs, i'm pale, i have curves, i'm just thin. red-brown hair, bright green/grey eyes and full pink-pink lips. i KNOW it isnt how i look. my exboyfriends all say they loved my voice, and all my guys/gals i've dated are punk or emo hardcore. that's fine. i lean that way, too. [just with more bows, lace and cutesy.] but all the guys who like me are really... submissive. they like to sit and cuddle and say "yes dear" and they all might as well be on weed they're so chill. it KILLS me. i want a dominant guy who is alittle bit more.... exciting(?) i dont want HIM to be the one asking ME for hugs, i want it vice versa. me asking him. or a guy who is gonna at least argue with me when he knows i'm wrong. my personality is... quiet. i'm independant, i have no problems doing what i have to do, i'm a happy liberal protestant, i am a smart-allic, sometimes i do things specifically for the sport of ticking someone off, but who doesnt? i am openly affectionate, i am loyal, smart, and when i grow up i want to be a doctor. a surgeon. i am kinda shy around guys and some girls [i'm bi]. obviously i have the capability of attracting guys/gals, but how do i attract the right one? [girls always go the same way. I want her to wear the pants in the relationship, but she always seems to submise to ME in the end.] BOTTOM LINE: what do i have to do to put off the right signals for a more demanding, dominant partner??? i dont do 2-month dating. i want a serious relationship. what am i doing wrong? Open Question: Unemployment Appeal Hearing?in Sept. I was "suspended" from my job of 2 1/2 years due to "falsifying documents." I was unaware my job was on the line until the moment i was placed on suspension, which means my job is on "hold" for further investigation & I am allowed the chance to explain myself & the GM will decide if I can continue bk to work or be "terminated." The reason for my suspension was " I was unable to CLOCK IN to work so I had to fill out a Punch Edit form stating my hours worked. I documented my scheduled time which was 4pm-10pm & the Human Resource Director said I was on camera trying to CLOCK IN at "4:09pm." Once I was notified of my suspension, I explained my side that it was an UNINTENTIONAL MISTAKE, that I did not fill out my punch edit until the FOLLOWING day therefore I did not knowing mis-record 9mins, the reason I could not clock in to begin with was because I accidently came in an HOUR EARLY,I was scheduled 5pm-10pm. Additional information: upon arriving to work, associates are to immediately report to "30 min break" which is automatically detucted from paycheck daily, therefore other associates do not even come to work or clock in until AFTER break (ex. 4:30 instead of 4pm) which has been on going problem b/c I witness associates breaking policy & the manager KNOWING this & no action taken etc) which leads me to this...I appealed my suspension at my place of work, then RESIGNED stating I do not feel I am being fairly treated for multiple reasons, and do not care to work for company that does not follow their own policies (Associate Handbook states, 2 written warnings, & 1 verblal warning every 6months before suspension or termination) I was NEVER verbally or written ANY warning for ANYTHING. The General Manager never returned my call to hear my explaination. HR Director called me twice asking me why I did not want my job back...My manager texted me, which I have saved, stating she did not have anything to do with my suspension & she misses me etc. However, I was determinded Ineligible for Unemployment stating on paper for falsiflying records, yet a rep for Unempoloyment said it was b/c I could not be reached upon apply for Unemply to give my statement. Therefore I immediately appealed the decision..My appeal hearing was last week. The HR Director LIED immediately beginning the hearing, gave incorrect DATES & could not provide info, pretty much she was not prepared at all. She stated I lied on my documents on a DATE that I was OFF WORK, which I of coarse shared that info. & she also told the Hearing officer that my reason for "falsifying my time card" was that I told her, "I clocked myself out early & stayed longer therefore I didnt see anything wrong with what I did". MY MOUTH HIT THE FLOOR! I can not believe she would LIE esp with that response!! When it was my turn I spoke the TRUTH & stated my response for my mistake was exactly that, that i made a MISTAKE & in no way intentionally misdocumented "9 mins." I also explained that the CLOCK BOX & VIDEO CAMERA are on the SECOND floor from the employee entrance, and that I arrived at work at 4pm that shift therefore if I did KNOW it was 4:09 I wasnot FALSIFYING anything because I DID arrive to work at 4pm & that was not a lie. BY THE WAY, get this...the HR Director did me a favor in one of her lies, she said I was called into work that day to come in an hour early instead of 5pm ( I was not called in I showed up on my own b/c later to find out the manager forgot to tell me she changed my time only that day to 5pm & meant to change it back to 4pm or to tell me). So pretty much I was "suspended" for coming in to work an hour before schedule but being on the second floor clock box 9 mins after the hour. WHY WOULD I intentionally lie about 9 mins or ANY MINS, its NOT LIKE I WAS MAKING MYSELF GET PAID ANY MORE MONEY bc that 30 mins (4-430) is auto. no matter what NON PAID BREAK TIME! My testimony only last 5 mins, the officer asked me 3 or 4 questions then said she was ending this hearing..before my testimony the HR director was questioned for 15 mins & the officer kept repeating the same questions to the HR director...what does that mean? Last comment, before ending the hearing the officer said the employee & or the employer had any additional comments to state them..the HR Director said "Did you or did you not sign an Associate Handbook Policy which states "Misconduct such as falsifying documents" is subject to termination without warning." Before saying yes or no I added.."On the same page of Associate Handbk Policy states associates are to be given 1 verbal & 2 written warnings of which I received neither, & yes I signed that." (The HR director told the hearing officer that I was given a warning b/c the hearing officer asked was I spoken to about it before being terminated) ANyway, its just a big mess, a bunch of lies, & contridicting themselves, & unfair treatment to me as an employee, might I add I was nominated Associate of the Month, volunteered Saf Open Question: cannot find max () value in sql?i have one problem in sql. i am a new comer to the sql field. so plz help me i have 20 table with the same column name in all tables like company name, open_price, high_price,low_price,close_price,date .i want to find the max() value of a particular company's high_price value is in which table. More Recent Articles |
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