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Open Question: Why would my girlfriend leave me randomly? and more... Open Question: Why would my girlfriend leave me randomly?So i was at her house sunday night and we were just hanging out kissing an stuff then monday she just started to ignore me and avoid holding hands not making eye contact ext. Then Tuesday she says she wants to break up because she feels that shes not ready for a serious relashinship (im her first relashinship) she was crying and feeling bad about it and stuff then i asked about it the next day when shes not as worked up and she says "Honestly, I feel bad saying this. But, I'm not even sure myself, I feel like God was telling me I shouldn't be in a relationship. And for whatever reason that is, which I don't know. I'm just trusting Him that there is a good reason. But, please don't take that the wrong way, or hate God/ Church because of that." So basicly why would she just out of no where feel that way? Is it an excuse or is she serious? We never argued or had any problems and she seemed very happy. by my opinion had an amazing relashinship in all ways and just over night she feels that way with the reason above. I wouldnt think of it to much if we were having problems or she didnt seem happy but to me it seems wierd to just break up over night when we were both happy the day before. Btw we were only dating a month. Open Question: Do I only like my boyfriend bc of his physical?so i'm confused... i dont know if i should break up with him or not... to begin. at first i hated him. because he would ALWAYS pick on me. But we ended up realizing that we just liked each other. He's really CUTE. So, as ridiculous as it sounds, it was like a 1st grade flirt. So now we are dating. But one of my friends asked... "why do you like him? He's such a jerk." This was hard for me to answer... Because although he is cute, i never considered it a reason for me to like him. So I'm really confused. Because I can't say he really cares about me. Because I don't know. When we go out on dates (rarely) we just make out. But when I have problems, he listens. And we constantly text each other, and when we don't we get inpatient... but its usually him joking about wanting to have sex when he's done working. He once asked me if it bothered me, because if it did, he would stop. I don't know... I need hones opinions... should I reconsider? Should I break up with him? Open Question: Relationship confusion, please read.?This is a rather complicated question and I'd like any insight you can give to me. Yahoo Answers has been extremely helpful in the past, and I thank you in advance for your wonderful help. If you don't have time-- just skip to the last few paragraphs and it will summarize it relatively nicely. Basically, I'm afraid to get back into a relationship with a man, let's call him Kevin, I care very VERY much about. We first met two years ago at a New Year's party, and began a very serious relationship very quickly, probably too quickly. Completely and utterly, madly in love, yadda yadda. We got along famously and just "got" each other fantastically. He asked me to move into his house at about the four month mark so we could see more of each other, but his business became very busy and we spent less and less time together. I felt very alone and isolated because I had moved in but he seemed to rarely make time for me, and I soon became unsettled. A year later, December, I said I was ready to leave the relationship. So we ended it. And I found someone else, which made Kevin realize how much he missed me. He was destroyed-- became very reclusive, stopped eating, began to look at work differently and took up boxing to vent his frustration. That March, Kevin confronted me and told me that he wanted me back. He'd re-assessed how important I was and after playing the field a bit himself, realized how special what we had was. I was apprehensive to go back, I was happy in my new relationship. It wasn't the same, but I was happy. The new relationship didn't, however, have the consensual love I had with Kevin (new guy didn't like me as much as I liked him). Kevin gave me an ultimatum-- Come back or he wouldn't be waiting for me when I was ready. (I know this sounds melodramatic, and I suppose it was. He was in extreme emotional distress over the situation and needed some possibility of relief.) So, after much conflict, tears, and sleepless nights, I went back to Kevin. But, truly, I wasn't really "over" the new guy, and didn't truly return to Kevin that April. I tried to go through the motions but it was not the same-- I felt like I had been lured to come back before I was truly ready. It was evident to Kevin and it nearly drove him crazy with pain and frustration that I didn't feel as madly in love with him as he did with me. He had thought, when we got back together, things would be perfect-- and they were far from it. Neither of us were happy. We separated a second time this September. We agreed to wait a month before dating anyone, but soon found new people to fill our days with. We didn't see or really speak to each other for about two months. Just a month ago, this November, I needed a drive to the airport and all my family, friends, new boyfriend were out of town. So, I asked Kevin. He said of course. When we saw each other for the first time, both of us lit up like Christmas trees. My eyes swelled with tears when we embraced. I was so happy to see him, and he felt exactly the same. We began talking again, and spoke of the connection we had when we first started dating.. and realized we did not have anything that resembled the connection with our current significant others. My misguided relationship was already on the verge of disintegration and ended, but Kevin's still continues. We see each other maybe once a week, and both of us live for the idea of seeing one another again. If a plan gets canceled, we're both completely dejected. It's not sex or kissing or anything like that, he still has a girlfriend, it's just spending time with one another and holding each other when we embrace. It's quite clear we're still in love-- and everyone who sees us interact is confused as to why we're not together. Honestly, so are we. >>TIME-CRUNCHED PEOPLE JUMP HERE<< He's still in a relationship with another woman where he's happy enough. Content. We, however, think of who we would want to be with if the world were about to end and say each other's names. He says he would drop it in a second if I were ready to begin our relationship again. We both imagine starting a family together and spending the rest of our lives with one another. But, I'm still scared. What has changed to stop this incarnation of the relationship from being riddled with the same problems we've faced before? Is this vision of our love just an illusion? I don't want to hurt him again if this apprehension is not unfounded. To further complicate the situation, I'm leaving in March to teach English in Japan. Kevin and I have two options at this point-- to remain "friends" and keep hope in the faint idea that the fates will bring us together again, OR start up the relationship again try to work on our problems while I'm still here, and plan to get married upon my return. It's not fun, and damn messy. Anyone who read this and is willing to offer their help is a personal hero to me. Thank you so much. Peace. Open Question: Sims 3 WA crashing at neighborhoodscreen?I have been playing sims 3 for a while now and just bought the expansion pack world adventure, but it wont load beyond the neighborhood screen which loads up about 1/5 and crashes to the desktop. i removed the game and everything in it, did a disk clean up and uploaded the base game and WA again, still its crashing at the same place. i wrote to EA but no response. My question is, Is my system able to play this game? or should i upgrade my graphic card? pls help me. im ready to bang my head against the wall now Below are my system stats ------------------ System Information ------------------ Time of this report: 12/12/2009, 13:19:58 Machine name: RANJITH-PC Operating System: Windows Vista™ Home Basic (6.0, Build 6001) Service Pack 1 (6001.vistasp1_gdr.090805-0102) Language: English (Regional Setting: English) System Manufacturer: Acer System Model: Aspire 5735 BIOS: Ver 1.00PARTTBL Processor: Intel(R) Pentium(R) Dual CPU T3400 @ 2.16GHz (2 CPUs), ~2.2GHz Memory: 3000MB RAM Page File: 1762MB used, 4474MB available Windows Dir: C:\Windows DirectX Version: DirectX 10 DX Setup Parameters: Not found DxDiag Version: 6.00.6001.18000 32bit Unicode ------------ DxDiag Notes ------------ Display Tab 1: No problems found. Sound Tab 1: No problems found. Input Tab: No problems found. -------------------- DirectX Debug Levels -------------------- Direct3D: 0/4 (retail) DirectDraw: 0/4 (retail) DirectInput: 0/5 (retail) DirectMusic: 0/5 (retail) DirectPlay: 0/9 (retail) DirectSound: 0/5 (retail) DirectShow: 0/6 (retail) --------------- Display Devices --------------- Card name: Mobile Intel(R) 4 Series Express Chipset Family Manufacturer: Intel Corporation Chip type: Mobile Intel(R) 4 Series Express Chipset Family DAC type: Internal Device Key: Enum\PCI\VEN_8086&DEV_2A42&SUBSYS_01761025&REV_07 Display Memory: 1308 MB Dedicated Memory: 64 MB Shared Memory: 1244 MB Current Mode: 1366 x 768 (32 bit) (60Hz) Monitor: Generic PnP Monitor Driver Name: igdumdx32.dll,igd10umd32.dll Driver Version: 7.15.0010.1527 (English) DDI Version: 10 Driver Attributes: Final Retail Driver Date/Size: 7/11/2008 23:47:00, 536576 bytes WHQL Logo'd: Yes WHQL Date Stamp: Device Identifier: {D7B78E66-6902-11CF-6276-7C21A7C2CA35} Open Question: Flirting, Keeping a conversation and flattering in Texts/IM?Okay, so there is this girl who had a crush on me about a year ago (she told me), and she is starting to get a crush on a different guy now (She has told me this) (after breaking up w/ a boyfriend) -it's been about a month of a crush on him-. He told her he liked her, and they havent officially dated yet. I have liked her for a while, he hasnt shown signs of a crush up until about 2 weeks ago... so I still have some time to strike. She and I have no problem keeping a conversation going in person. Does anyone have any ideas for conversation/flirting/flattery over IMing and texting? I need to keep her thinking about me, and I need to keep the sexual tension REALLY high, even when we arent in person. (She Any tips would be greatly appreciated!!! Also, she says "I am like a brother to her" so this is a little trickier than past gf's. I was dating them for sex, and I got sick of it-I want an emotional relationship. Oh, and I am turning 17 in a month to give you an age range to deal with) I am also considering transferring to the local public school (I go to a catholic private) because of PTSD at the end of the semester. Open Question: I have my doubts about this guy's ability to fix my car. I'm about to demand that he take it to a garage?that I believe knows what they're doing. What do you think? Look at our emails. Since 11/30/09? It's a 98 Ford Taurus Wagon, 196K, bought now since 11/30/09 for $950, registered, insurance, and now a parking spot at the job for $60 per month waiting. I'm impatient. Maybe I'm wrong? He works on it on his own time. He's a mechanic, too, but not at a Ford dealership. Won't pass the emissions test for a sticker. What else could be wrong? ------------------------------------------------------------------------- Hi: Thanks , and I found some loose pins on 1 conection , so I am going to try to get done and go for sticker before 5pm , if not tomorrow mornning. Have a good day Date: Thu, 10 Dec 2009 17:34:39 -0800 From: Subject: RE: Ford Taurus Wagon To: I got your message. Go ahead, then, with your electrical investigation option. Please e-mail me about your progress. Thank you for doing this on your own time. --- On Wed, 12/9/09, wrote: From: > Subject: RE: Ford Taurus Wagon To: Date: Wednesday, December 9, 2009, 9:05 PM Hi I undestand , and tomorrow I think I will be calling you with good news. Today was too nasty to drive around , And I will show you the new parts I installed .Is all related to emisson , so I have to drive every time any thing changes for at least 20 mins to see if got better . Have a good one Date: Wed, 9 Dec 2009 06:08:03 -0800 From: Subject: RE: Ford Taurus Wagon To OK. Thanks. Sorry to be upset. Days like today, I really missed not having the car. --- On Tue, 12/8/09, wrote: From: > Subject: RE: Ford Taurus Wagon To: Date: Tuesday, December 8, 2009, 10:27 PM Hi I undestend your disapoiment , but is taking longer because I am doing on my on time before and after work . But is nothing to be concerned , is just the EGR pipe was cloged , I clean that out and did both rear O2 sensors , tomorrow mornig I am going to drive and make sure pass inspection. I will e-mail you around lunch time . Thanks Date: Tue, 8 Dec 2009 11:43:59 -0800 From: Subject: RE: Ford Taurus Wagon To: Would you please tell me exactly what the "problems" that you are having with the car? Let's agree to have it repaired and inspected by this Friday. If not, then I would ask that you bring the car to my own mechanic's garage and he will repair it. Perhaps we can agree on you paying for the labor and I will pay for the parts? Needlessly to say, I'm disappointed that a 1998 car can not be repaired more speedily than it has been. --- On Tue, 12/8/09, wrote: From: > Subject: RE: Ford Taurus Wagon To: Date: Tuesday, December 8, 2009, 10:38 AM Hi I install the new O2 sensor but I am getting the same signal . Is ome more thing that can cause that and I am going to do that , but May be the end of the day , so you will not get the car tonight. I am afraid to promess when will be done because I am running in to problems , but please give me more time to get you all set . Thanks and let me know Dec 7,2009 Hi, I know you want your car soon , but I check the car yesterday and you will need a o2 sensor to pass inspection , I order the part this mornning but will not be here untill this afternon.I will do today but not in time to get the sticker. You don`t have to pay for any thing . So , let me know if is ok to give you the car tomorrow , if every thing goes well . Thanks for undestending and let me know. Today: he called to let me know the he was still getting an error message from the gas station where he is trying to get it inspected. I was driving it a while to get it warm. I think this guy means well, but I think it must be more than he can handle. Hmmm??? Open Question: My laptop is going berzerk! Plz help me!?When I turned it on the 1st time it just had the wallpaper up- no start or desktop icons. So I pushed cnt+alt+delete and restarted it. Now it just goes 2 that screen that says windows was shut down improperly, use arrow keys 2 select how u want to start-normal, safe mode, s.m.w/ networks or s.m w smthing else- each 1 I selected did the same thing. It'd go to another lite blue screen that says it has 2 check for so.mething. I hv the option to either let the comp check 4 whatever or skip. If I let it continue- it just lists a bunch of stuff. If I skip it, it goes 2another (darker) blue screen for like a nano second before it just shuts down n starts the whole scene all over again. Does any1 have any suggestions? I have 3 different anti-everything on this laptop. Bc I am on the co.mputer for 5-6 hours a day, I run 1 each day. I hv macafee, cyberdefender and malawares (my personal fav bc it even gets rid of worms, trojans ect that may be on windows-not that I know what that means) This laptop is 3 yrs and 4 months old. The last time it went kerflooey on me I took it to geek squad where I learned it was cheaper for me to buy a new laptop than to have them look at it, find a problem and fix it. So I boughta new 1. It was at thattime that I learned how important all that anti stuff is. I NEVER had any of them on the laptop I'm asking this question about. So I purchased all the software, loaded it onto thislaptop, ran it- it found, quarintines and deleted like a million problems and has run like a champ ever since. Until today. Is it possible that its the fan? The 1 thing I notice is that it gets hot as hll quick as crap! Please plz plz helpme! The other newer laptop isn't nearly as good as this one even tho its so new. This laptop (the problematic 1) has all my favorite software, every digital pic taken ever, is compatible and connected to every electronic I own- cameras, video cams, ipods, phones, photo n office printer, my faxs even go thru this laptop! WHAT CAN I DO! I need to fix this myself as its christmas, the city is trying to reduce all possible opportunites for overtime (he's a cop- he used to get a court date for every criminal he arrested- now the criminals have to wait until my hubby has a total of 5 arrests before they get a court date, and they will all be on the same day) I have a tons of kids and I'm broke! More Recent Articles
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