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Open Question: will he ever get married to me? and more... Open Question: will he ever get married to me?I have been with my fiance for 3 years now, earlier this year he proposed to me in an amazing way. We talked about it before he went to buy the ring and I said to him that I wanted to be engaged by a certain time and gave him a deadline. He got the ring I dreamt of and everything was perfect. Then I found out he'd told me lies about smoking and his salary and everything started to go wrong. At that point I felt like breaking up with him but we decided to work through it and he came clean about everything. Ever since then things have been so up and down. We argue about silly things and his family mostly. His family have no respect or love for me and they make our relationship really difficult, they have never supported us and its got to the point where they completely ignore me and its like I am not part of his life. He still lives at home and although he has talked about moving in with me, its never happened for one reason or another. His family welcomed me into their home at the beginning of our relationship and everything was fine, but now they treat me like I am nothing and put all the blame of the problems in our relationship on me. I get alot of pressure from my family to sort out the engagement cermony and book a date for the wedding so a few months ago his family came to my house and we started to set dates for everything and ever since then his family have cut me out of their lives and his attitude towards the whole thing has changed. He says we should enjoy being in the moment and not always think about the future. He recently lost his job and so fianncial situtation is not great but his parents have told him they will not help him pay a penny towards the wedding. This really upset me because he will struggle financially without any support. A few weeks ago I just had enough and told him to think about what he wants, we stopped talking for about 3 weeks and then he came to see me and told me that he wants to put the marriage plans on hold until he feels comfortable in the relationship. He said that he feel alot of pressure from me to get married and it got to a point with him where he didnt want it anymore and it all felt wrong for him. Now he says we will still get married someday - what does that mean??? He still wants me to wear my engagement ring buit I dont see the point. I feel so embarrased when friends, family etc ask me about the wedding plans, I just dont know what to say. He says he loves me dearly and wants kids etc with me someday. I feel so confused about everything and have no idea where the relationship is heading. I stayed with him because I am so in love with him. I even moved house to be closer to him and it seems like i have invested so much into this relationship that becomes harder to leave. Help! is he just wasting my time or does he have commitment issues? i should have mentioned that he talked to me about getting engaged for 18 months to me and never went ahead with it so i told him that he can either ask me or we'll go our own seperate ways and i put a deadline on that, I was so fed up of waiting. he is 28 and we are the same age. he says he would have asked me to marry him regardless of the fact that i put a deadline on it. it made no difference to him - at least that what he says!!! when i moved house, the intention was that we moved in together - almost 2 years down the line he still hasnt moved in. i should mention that i come from an indian family and staying BF and GF for this many years is unacceptable in our culture and the elders in my family really disapprove of what we are doing. Open Question: I'm bisexual and have only been sexual with women in the past, now I'm dating a ready to be sexual but?I don't consider myself a virgin because I've had sex with 3 women, although toys weren't used for vaginal penetration with any of them. I've never gone over one finger either, so I 'm almost sure that my hymen is still intact too. Now I'm 19 and I've been dating this guy(24) for a little over a month and everything is going great and he's wonderful. I'm ready to bring sex into the relationship, but I feel that the fact that I am still physically a virgin presents a barrier. I don't see myself as a virgin so this won't really be a special moment for me...but it will be painful. I really don't know what to do! Do I treat it as I am losing my "virginity" or what? I know this may sound ridiculous, but it really is a problem for me, lol. Thank so much for your help! He doesn't know that I've never been with a guy either, just that I'm bisexual. How can I tell him this too? Open Question: Has anyone experienced 2 missed miscarriages back to back?Hi I am a mother of 4 and I have never had any problems in any of my pregnancies, I carried all my babies to full term, all were vaginal births and I had them all naturally with no epidural or pain medicine. My youngest is 9 years old and I am 35 years old, me and my husband decided to try again and have one more baby, so when I got pregnant we were excited everything was going great "at least we thought" but then when I went for my first appointment at 8 weeks the doctor saw no heartbeat, I was told to wait another week just to verify so I did and when I went back the next week it was the same thing still no growth or heartbeat and the doctor said the fetus looked like it stopped growing at 7 weeks, I was told I could wait to miscarry naturally or be given a medicine called misoprostol to speed up the process, at first I said I would let it happen naturally but it was too hard still feeling pregnant and all so I decided to take the medicne and I miscarried within a couple of days went back a week later to make sure it was complete and it was, so the doctor told me to wait till I have 2 normal periods and then try again, well I did just that and got pregnant right away again we were happy and this time I had very high hopes but of course I was still very nervous and scared of the same thing happening again, I went for my first sonogram at 8 weeks and there was a sac but nothing in it so I was told to come back a week later, when I went the second time there was the fetus measured at 6 weeks and a heartbeat was detected, I was kind of confused because I was 100% sure about my dates but felt good that there was a heartbeat, when I went back for my 9 week appointment there was no heartbeat and the doctor said the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks I was so devasted! Me and my husband really wanted this last baby to complete our family but I just don't think I can go through this again, I am really having a tough time and I really don't know how I am going to get through this. Has anything similar happened to anyone and had a succesful pregnancy? Open Question: Is it okay to Date your sister's ex when she's married and has a kid?Okay so here's the problem. Cleeeeeear back in highschool my sister was dating a guy for like three or four months right? They broke up, graduated, and moved on with life. After he graduated I became really good friends with him. I didn't date him because I thought it was wierd because my sister dated him. He went on a mission and just came back. I've been writing him and talking to him for the past two years and the year two years before so i've known him for quite a while now. We've both expressed that we have some feelings for each other and that we would want to go on a date to see how it goes. This is where the problem comes in. See my sister just NOW tells me that she was in love with him in highschool but broke up because she thought it would be best for whatever reason. And she told him three or four years ago that he couldn't date me. But she says to me that he's off limits even though she's MARRIED to someone else AND has a son. She tells me that she could develop feelings for him and that it would hurt her to see me date him. My mom says that i'm being self centered if i even try to go near the subject of "dating" with this guy and she says she will get in his face about it if he pushes it. I told him that i want to respect my sister's wishes but it stil doesn't change my feelings for him. He says he understands and doesn't want to hurt my sister either and that it's only okay with him if it's okay with her. I think it's ridiculous for my sister to tell me that especially since she's married. Should i try to pursue this guy in secret or should I not even go after him? Open Question: Advice on the first part of my story? Please read =)?The biggest problem with being a fashion editor is that you constantly ask yourself the same question, the cheesy and most clichéd question known to women- what am I going to wear? Your friends are getting together for a party. You are going clubbing on Friday night. You want to look your best for a hot date. Actually, skip that last one. What am I, an adolescent? It's hard for me to face the fact that I am a 35 year old woman. Eventually, I decide on a dress from the shoot we did in Malawi for last month's cover. I have always had a petite figure, so the dress doesn't have the same effect on me as it did on the beautiful, curvy model. It hangs off me oddly, bunching about the waist. My slim wrists look ultra skinny in comparison to the shock of the bright blue. Ah well. Like it or lump it. I slide into my killer heels. Stilettos always make me feel important even on the worst days. I grab the snakeslide purse and run down the road. I am not exactly the essence of grace. I am hardly a role model. I ram open the door of the building and almost collide with Dacota. He looks down at me over his glasses. "Are you alright there, Willow?" "Fine." I blush. He isn't austere and strict as such, but I always get embarassed when I'm around him. He carries an authority which I find difficult to deal with. Finally, I reach my desk without sustaining too many injuries. I sit down on my swivel chair, and spin myself around thoughtfully. Valentia, darling Valentia, has brought me a cup of coffee. I sigh in relief. She brushes back her short, fluffy blonde hair and gazes at me. I rub my sore eyes. "Here," says Valentia. "You're going to need this." Valentia is a short woman with wide eyes and an appraising mouth; my secretary. But she has an irritating tendency of acting like my counsellor, or mother. Mother. "Oh, God, I forgot to ring her," I groan. "Valentia, could you send a bouquet of flowers to my mother's house? I would like a message in them. Just write 'good luck.'" "I'm on it," she laughs. "I cannot believe that you forgot again." Having a mother that is a film star isn't exactly easy. My school days were flooded with requests for signatures. Everybody looked at me knowingly and asked whether I wanted to pursue a career in the theatrics. I always denied this, and they all went off, tutting and disappointed. I have never desired to be an actress, which sounds stupid. I mean, that's what most people want, right? I am pretty good at drama and I was selected a lot for school plays, but that was mainly because of my relation to the world of movies. My life-long dream has always been to be a fashion editor. Or a designer. To be honest, any thing that involved ditching my home and entering the big wide world of London. And I got it. So that's that. "By the way, there is a man in reception who wants to see you." "Send him up," I say. I gulp down the tea as if it is youth potion. I stare into the mirror and inspect my wrinkles. I am not getting any younger, I know that. My face is still very youthful, but it is losing its cheeky smile and bright eyes. If only I could just turn back the clock… "Hello." There was a man standing at the door. He had the most beautiful mouth. Yes, I know. That sounds stupid, ridiculous and downright weird. Most people rave about the colour of some one's eyes, their glossy hair, their high stature. Not their mouth. But oddly enough, that was the one thing that drew me to him. His mouth was small, slightly parted, and very red. From a distance, you would think that he had worn lipstick. He had a woeful, sorrowful way of looking at you, his eyes soft and round, his head tilted just a little bit down. He wore a long sleeved business-like shirt and unfashionable grey trousers which made him resemble a reincarnation of an office worker. I knew automatically that he was different. Some one who would make an impact on my life. I just didn't know how. His emerald green eyes flash at me and he smiles in an absolutely charming manner. Please read and review! Open Question: I Have a Huge Problem Men Think I Use Them For Sex!!!!!!!?This has been a problem in my last few relationships. I have a very high sexual drive. I don't mind having sex everyday but it's not a problem if I don't. The past 3 men in my life said that all I wanted from them was sex and they were offended. These same men are known for their doggish ways. I heard of them using women for sex. I don't use them though I do in fact like them as a person and we go out and have fun together. I have no idea why they are offended by my sex drive. I DO NOT demand sex but they think I do. I just have a natural flirtatious aura about me. I am dating a guy now who is starting to say sex is all I want. I don't understand. I touched his arm in a playful manner and he said promise me there will be No Sex for one day because we had sex the last 5 days in a row. He comes on to me all the time. We watched a movie at my place with NO Sex and he started accusing me of using him for sex. he really has nothing else to offer me. We are both in college and are being supported by our parents (I work too he doesn't) Why do these same men who DOG other women (they treat me well) feel used by me...I am thinking it's because they really like me and when feelings are involved you can feel a bit used. I have no idea of how to fix myself. Do I even have a problem. I the guy I'm dating now that I really like thinks I'm only using him for sex. i told him I really like him. I am no sex machine or maneater AT ALL Open Question: My HP G6000 screen is dying, anyone offer any help/ advice?hey, im at my wits end. I have a HP G6000 laptop, around 2 years old and in prime condition. there is something wrong with my screen or graphics, i do not not, im not a specialist. the screen on the laptop flickers uncontrollably, not on and off but like stuff from the bottom of the screen appears in the middle etc i.e. my start menu button is currently visible in 3 different places on the screen also the screen sometime freezes and displays like random colors, not solid colors but kinda looks like it is bleeding or being messed up with a magnet or something, nonetheless it is completely useless. im running on NVIDIA GeForce 7000M / nForce 610M visual driver. the driver is up to date. when i plug my laptop into another screen the display on the other screen is fine but the laptop display still fails. when i turn off my laptop literally the second before it turns off the screen is fine. the problem has happened before but fixed itself however this time the problem is persisting. is there anything i can do or is it simply time to get a new laptop? Open Question: What should I do? Love/Disrespect? (We're both 18 years old)?I've posted this before, but I just need more responses. It's a very long story, so I'll try to condense this. When things between me and her had been so great, well, they were absolutely great. But, things crumbled, and even though she doesn't feel anything towards me any longer, I guess I still feel something. In fact, I feel much stronger about her now than what I ever did, because now I've learned to genuinely appreciate this girl. I guess I know that things won't ever be the way they used to be; she's engaged, and even though she's only dated this guy for about 4 months, I'm not going to question their feelings for one another. I've changed so much though since things between us soured, that I know that I'm not nearly the same person. I just want her to know that, and to know that I love her too. I'm in no way trying to still pursue her; I know my boundaries, but is expressing yourself ever a crime? I know that I'm not going to make her confused in any way either. The problem is just getting to her. I spoke to her today for the first time in over 4 months, and even though she was expecting me to speak (we had a meeting arranged after school), she gave me less than a couple of minutes to talk to her. I've made it clear to her that I wasn't trying to win her back, and I tried to express myself genuinely, but I doubt that anything went through to her. Her disrespect hurts so much, but despite all the signs that tell me just to quit, it's like a part of me says not to. I love her just as much as her fiancee does, and I'm willing to do anything to let this girl know that I care genuinely about her, but doing nothing will not convey that message. I once sent her flowers (when she wasn't with the guy), but that only reinforced her disrespect about me. If I were just to stop now, I know she'd always remember me as that creepy guy with an obsession. I'm not creepy, this is not an obsession, and I don't want to be remembered that way. I know my boundaries; I'm not trying to pursue her, but I'll never get the closure I need if I can't even express how I feel. What's strange about all this, is that I just found out about the engagement last week when I spoke to someone about my problems...she's been engaged for two months; I just felt that if I weren't supposed to say anything else to this girl forever, then I would've never found out. It wasn't until I found out about this news that I could finally find the courage to speak this girl and know what to say. But like I said, today's meeting went terrible. I don't know what to do, because now I feel that my heart isn't even certain. I'm tired of this coldness and disrespect, but I know I won't feel any better if I do nothing. I just don't know how far I'd have to go get her respect back, if I ever could. I don't want to be remembered this way. What do I do? We dated throughout April and May of this year. I know her choice not to speak to me isn't because of her fiancee's wishes; I've heard he is a good person, and I'd like to think that he'd at least allow me to say this. I've tried forgetting about her multiple times throughout the year. I've tried thinking about other girls and burying myself in my schoolwork, but my mind always goes back to her. Fate always occurs, but only because the actions we choose in themselves are predetermined. Open Question: what should i do???!! IM CONFUSED!!!!!?well, first of all im sixth grade, and im a girl, and im 12 years old. so theres this twin in eigth grade that is 13 years old that i really like. he knows me and he knows that i like him, but we dont really talk. so theres a girl in his class that shes my friend, and she told him, but she said that he said that im pretty and stuff, but that im too short for him. the problem is that i have a problem with my size, and im like the third smallest sixth grader in my school. the boy that i like the name is andrew. andrew isnt sure about dating me cuz of my size. hes not a bad person, hes nice and everything, but i dont know what to do. please help me, i really like andrew a girl in my class asked him she said that he said that he kinda likes me a little but i dont know what to do!!!! please help!!! im actually a very hot gurl a lotta boys like me, but i dont like them. i even got a nose ring. plz help im desperate!!! im not lesbo im the only hot girl i know Open Question: I HAVE A HUGE PROBLEM MEN FEEL I USE THEM FOR SEX!!!!!I AM NOT A MANEATER?This has been a problem in my last few relationships. I have a very high sexual drive. I don't mind having sex everyday but it's not a problem if I don't. The past 3 men in my life said that all I wanted from them was sex and they were offended. These same men are known for their doggish ways. I heard of them using women for sex. I don't use them though I do in fact like them as a person and we go out and have fun together. I have no idea why they are offended by my sex drive. I DO NOT demand sex but they think I do. I just have a natural flirtatious aura about me. I am dating a guy now who is starting to say sex is all I want. I don't understand. I touched his arm in a playful manner and he said promise me there will be No Sex for one day because we had sex the last 5 days in a row. He comes on to me all the time. We watched a movie at my place with NO Sex and he started accusing me of using him for sex. he really has nothing else to offer me. We are both in college and are being supported by our parents (I work too he doesn't) Why do these same men who DOG other women (they treat me well) feel used by me...I am thinking it's because they really like me and when feelings are involved you can feel a bit used. I have no idea of how to fix myself. Do I even have a problem. I the guy I'm dating now that I really like thinks I'm only using him for sex. i told him I really like him. I am no sex machine or maneater AT ALL I am faithful I am not a Whore Open Question: I HAVE A HUGE PROBLEM MEN FEEL I USE THEM FOR SEX!!!!!!!!!!?This has been a problem in my last few relationships. I have a very high sexual drive. I don't mind having sex everyday but it's not a problem if I don't. The past 3 men in my life said that all I wanted from them was sex and they were offended. These same men are known for their doggish ways. I heard of them using women for sex. I don't use them though I do in fact like them as a person and we go out and have fun together. I have no idea why they are offended by my sex drive. I DO NOT demand sex but they think I do. I just have a natural flirtatious aura about me. I am dating a guy now who is starting to say sex is all I want. I don't understand. I touched his arm in a playful manner and he said promise me there will be No Sex for one day because we had sex the last 5 days in a row. He comes on to me all the time. We watched a movie at my place with NO Sex and he started accusing me of using him for sex. he really has nothing else to offer me. We are both in college and are being supported by our parents (I work too he doesn't) Why do these same men who DOG other women (they treat me well) feel used by me...I am thinking it's because they really like me and when feelings are involved you can feel a bit used. I have no idea of how to fix myself. Do I even have a problem. I the guy I'm dating now that I really like thinks I'm only using him for sex. i told him I really like him. I am no sex machine or maneater AT ALL Open Question: I just want some advice on how to deal with my ex?I dated my ex for almost 3 years. I cheated on him once (worst mistake of my life) and ever since it happened he's been iffy about me. After he found out we didn't talk for a whole summer. We eventually started talking again and got back together mutually. It was obvious we missed each other. Ever since then, he would randomly bring up my cheating in the middle of a fight that had nothing to do with the cheating to try to make me feel bad. He would constantly call me names because of it, and would compare me to my girlfriends, because some of my girlfriends are extremely promiscuous, but I feel that I am nothing like them whatsoever, because what I did was a stupid mistake that I regret. Recently he just found out that I hooked up with one of his friends, who is also one of my friends over the summer when we weren't speaking to each other. I don't think its a big deal because thats what happens usually and he also hooked up with some girls during that summer, but I am not mad about it because its nothing to be mad about. He has a bad temper and I knew this is what would happen. I also know that it was one of my girlfriends who told him about it because some of them were at that party that night. I have officially cut off contact with most of them because all they are doing with their lives is partying and barely passing their classes in college. Its a very small town with very little options. I have friends who are good friends and that are working really hard and saving up money to finish school and start a new life elsewhere. This is my biggest dream as of right now. The problem is, I have friends who I want to hang out with, but my ex is friends with them also, and he is always at the same parties that I go to. I'm at a time right now where we should not even be seeing each other at all, because he will spend the whole time yelling at me and trying to upset me. But i feel that I shouldnt be staying cooped up at home just because he's at a party or with some friends that I want to be with. What should I do to deal with this? IT SUCKSSSSS. Open Question: is having a school boyfriend really possible?me and this boy named chris known each other for 4 yrs and i guess we have been "dating" for one month now. the problem about all of this is that at skool we are like the perfect couple and everything but once we go back home we dont talk on the phone or go on real dates.so i wanna know wats his problem and can it be fixed Open Question: I HAVE A HUGE PROBLEM...He Is Sagittarius and Iam Taurus!!!!!!?This has been a problem in my last few relationships. I have a very high sexual drive. I don't mind having sex everyday but it's not a problem if I don't. The past 3 men in my life said that all I wanted from them was sex and they were offended. These same men are known for their doggish ways. I heard of them using women for sex. I don't use them though I do in fact like them as a person and we go out and have fun together. I have no idea why they are offended by my sex drive. I DO NOT demand sex but they think I do. I just have a natural flirtatious aura about me. I am dating a guy now who is starting to say sex is all I want. I don't understand. I touched his arm in a playful manner and he said promise me there will be No Sex for one day because we had sex the last 5 days in a row. He comes on to me all the time. We watched a movie at my place with NO Sex and he started accusing me of using him for sex. he really has nothing else to offer me. We are both in college and are being supported by our parents (I work too he doesn't) Why do these same men who DOG other women (they treat me well) feel used by me...I am thinking it's because they really like me and when feelings are involved you can feel a bit used. I have no idea of how to fix myself. Do I even have a problem. I the guy I'm dating now that I really like thinks I'm only using him for sex. i told him I really like him. I am no sex machine or maneater AT ALL. This is the same guy who said I belong to him!!!!! More Recent Articles
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