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Open Question: winter formal problem!??!? and more... Open Question: winter formal problem!??!?well i ve just begun to talk to this girl lately and we started text eachother a lot (we have known eachother for about 2 years now as friends). well, i like her a lot but i would never have dreamed of askign her to winter ball because shes like one of those popular and pretty girls u see in school that guys would kill for! well i recently have been texting her and she keeps talking about how she doesnt have a date and sees how lucky other girls are that are getting asked. well, i still wouldnt have dreamed to ask her. well this week, we talked together on the phone for a long time and she mentions the winter formal thing again and again! without thinking i asked her on the phone if she wanted to go with me and she said yes. but i still feel very bad because i never got a chance to ask her the right way face to face creatively...even though she said yes im not that sure if she wants to go with me because we dont really have a chance to talk too much at school either. also i think shes very dissapointed that i didint buy her flowers or ask her creatively...at school though she started telling her friends that she is goign with me and everything but when we come face to face i feel very shy and she does too i think. does she really wanna go with me?? im just an average guy... and shes like one of those girls that guys would kill to go out with. im soo confused..... omg help TY!! Open Question: Intimacy Issues; What can I do and why am I like this?I have done my research on this topic but yet I just don't feel as if anything I am hearing is explaining things for me.when I have been looking up articles on intimacy issues, I don't relate with a lot of what I'm reading. I'm starting to wonder WHAT is wrong with me. But to start off i HATE SEX. just doesn't feel good & don't enjoy it.I've tried everything trust me..I just broke up with me ex of 3 yrs due to these problems but we had tried everything. And he wasn't the first person I had sex with..I've had a few other experiences. I don't like to cuddle with people I'm dating. I don't like to be hugged by certain people..actually causes me to feel like I'm cringing on the inside. I don't like to have any kind of emotional talks with certain people and this goes for anything intimate or emotional down to saying I love you to my mom. Im 21 years old and this has been going on for a while now.. since I can remember. Now the difference for me is I don't mind being touched by some people. It's only the people that I am REALLY close with that bothers me. My parents..boyfriends..etc. I grew up in a pretty functional household..my mom was always REALLY affectionate and loving. I was never neglected...actually pretty spoiled. Everything I'm reading on intimacy issues is saying that these people usually come from broken homes..and don't like to be touched by anyone. I don't mind having sexual encounters with people Im not close with although it still doesn't feel good. I actually seek attention and physical contact when first meeting people. Although i do tend to seek out people who are total emotional wrecks and never someone who is worthy. I don't think I have ever loved anyone, didn't even care when I broke it off with my boyfriend just missed the companionship. I did have some sort of a molestation incident when I was younger from age 3-5. And have been through a lot of traumatic events through my life because I always was seeking out negativity subconsciously. But this doesn't explain the physical pain i feel when my mom hugs me. Or the fact that I'd rather have my father ignore me than tell me he loves me. What can I do? and is it intimacy issues at all? Im so confused I get so caught up in my own head. Does anyone relate? Open Question: Know what the problem is with my printer?So I have a brand new HP computer with its printer. The only problem is, my printer is acting a little strange. Everytime I print something, the first page that prints is a page full of the documents information. In a list, it begins with the filename and includes things such as the date modified, the user name, the number of pages, etc. THEN the actual document prints. This is driving me insane! Not only is it wasting a whole sheet of paper, but also my ink! Is there something I can fix in my printer settings? What's going on?! Thanks to anyone that helps. Open Question: do you think this is wrong ? and i should leave?okay so im 19 and my boyfriend is in a band and tours a lot , i mean he is only home for a couple of weeks ,and then gone for like 3 months at a time , i live with him and hes band mate ( who is my best friend too ) im best friends with all the guys in the band . i use to live in sydney but when they toured here we fell in love and i moved to america , merryland and moved in with them , the problem is i dnt really have any friends here , only the band , i have friends in NYC and i was offered a great job there in designing fashion and stuff like that , ive wanted to do that my whole life and i designed merch of my bf bands and there friends who are bands too and they all say they love it and would love to have me design merch and come on tour with all of them which would be heaps fun but the problem is i wanna do so much more then merch , i wanna make nice fashion cloths for heaps of designer brands and i have that chance to do that in NYC but that means leaving my boyfriends and friends behind , i mean i only get to see him about 20 weeks in the year all together and when there all gone i have no one and i mean NO ONE , im so bored and i dnt have a job here becuase he pays for everything cuz hes rich ( but thats not the point ) i really love him and hate when it goes but i love when i get to see him , hes like every thing to me and we have been dating for 3 years and we are engaged ( kinda , he asked me to marry him but i siad i thought we where too young even though i want to , i just dnt wanna be married this young maybee in a year , so i still wear the ring as like a promise ring to get married , corney i no lol ) anyway , we like love each other so much and we like never fight and we are just so great together , but as i siad hes not there much , i dnt have a job and i have no one , sould i go to new york and have the job i dreamed of so much and would love so much and have some friends up there or be with the one i love and go on tour and just designe merch , i mean i still get to design just not wht i wanted to , i really just dno wht to do and i cant keep putting it off , if i leave i gotta do it soon cuz the job starts soon and because there coming back home for 3 days in two weeks and i cnt leave if he is there cuz i no i wouldnt leave , i just dont know what to do . Open Question: Guy or job ? best answer 10 points REALLY NEEEED HELLLP?okay so im 19 and my boyfriend is in a band and tours a lot , i mean he is only home for a couple of weeks ,and then gone for like 3 months at a time , i live with him and hes band mate ( who is my best friend too ) im best friends with all the guys in the band . i use to live in sydney but when they toured here we fell in love and i moved to america , merryland and moved in with them , the problem is i dnt really have any friends here , only the band , i have friends in NYC and i was offered a great job there in designing fashion and stuff like that , ive wanted to do that my whole life and i designed merch of my bf bands and there friends who are bands too and they all say they love it and would love to have me design merch and come on tour with all of them which would be heaps fun but the problem is i wanna do so much more then merch , i wanna make nice fashion cloths for heaps of designer brands and i have that chance to do that in NYC but that means leaving my boyfriends and friends behind , i mean i only get to see him about 20 weeks in the year all together and when there all gone i have no one and i mean NO ONE , im so bored and i dnt have a job here becuase he pays for everything cuz hes rich ( but thats not the point ) i really love him and hate when it goes but i love when i get to see him , hes like every thing to me and we have been dating for 3 years and we are engaged ( kinda , he asked me to marry him but i siad i thought we where too young even though i want to , i just dnt wanna be married this young maybee in a year , so i still wear the ring as like a promise ring to get married , corney i no lol ) anyway , we like love each other so much and we like never fight and we are just so great together , but as i siad hes not there much , i dnt have a job and i have no one , sould i go to new york and have the job i dreamed of so much and would love so much and have some friends up there or be with the one i love and go on tour and just designe merch , i mean i still get to design just not wht i wanted to , i really just dno wht to do and i cant keep putting it off , if i leave i gotta do it soon cuz the job starts soon and because there coming back home for 3 days in two weeks and i cnt leave if he is there cuz i no i wouldnt leave , i just dont know what to do . Open Question: Can a shy person please answer this question about dating?I was wondering if you all have any problems with dating. I am 18 and I have been single almost my whole entire life. I have only had one relationship in my whole entire life. The reason why I am asking this is because some of my friends think it's because I'm shy and I wonder if you all have problems with finding a significant other because you are shy. I hope nobody gets offended. I was just wondering. Thanks for your time. Open Question: im having boys problems nd its driving me nuts?soo im stuck between 3 guys. .. one of them i dated for a month , not that long but he grew on me and i still love him. we dont really tlk that much but i miss him constantly and whenever i try to tell him he just seems like he doesnt care. the other one ive known for a year , never dated but we hangout a few times. we fight alot but nothing major and hes starting to grow on me now and i wanna give him a chance because i no he can change but the problem is that my parents dont really like him that much. and the last one i just met a month ago .. total sweetheart but lives in the town where my ex b/f lives , we talk everyday and wants me to be his girlfriend but i feel bad and i dont no what to say cuz i have feelings for these other guys too i dont no what to do .. Open Question: first date with her friends?I'm going on a first date with this girl tomorrow, after talking for about 2 weeks. The problem is when I asked her out, she already had plans for this friday and she works during the weekend, so she said that we should have our first date with her two friends that she already had made the plans with. She said that we might wind up ditching her friends if it gets too awkward, but that she wanted to go on our date as soon as possible. I've never done anything like this, so I was hoping for some tips and what I should expect? I'm used to the one on one dating, where I pay for her and everything, but now I'm confused. Help? Open Question: HELPPP! pleaseeee! :l?soi went to a really small private school grades 1-8. now im going to the HUGE publlic highschool. people from my old school went here too, including my best friend,but i still feel kinda out of place.ive made tons of friends and everything, but everyone already has their "groups" from middle school. so i hand out with them in school and in my classes but out of school and stuffff im still mostly with my friends from the previous school. another problem about thisss is boyfriends. i really like this guy, but if i startedd dating him i wouldnt know his friends they wouldn't know me and i feel like it would just be really akward. please help mee! thankss everyone<3 Open Question: I'm afraid to give him a kiss? Am I going too fast?Ok, so there's this guy who I met at summer camp. He's really cute and sweet and I really like him, and I KNOW he like me too(he's been giving off the flirting signs) I'm going to see him on saturday at a party, and I was like, "planning" when I leave, that I would give him a little kiss on the cheek. But, the problem is, I've only seen him once at camp, once at a party last week, and once at church. I feel that I'm going to be rushing by doing that! Also, last week, the day before church, I was textinh him, and I was like "are u dating anyone? someone told me you were. I had a bad feeling that he could tell that I liked him, so that next day at church was akward(he didn't talk to me like he did last time), but he still kinda flirted a little(I could really tell.It was obvious) If you want to know, he was really smiling, messing with his friends, and when he saw me, he said in a whisper "there she is" and the he walked by me with his friend and was like, "Hey mary*) *mary is not my real name. Do you think it would be going too fast?Would it be a bad i dea to kiss him? (sorry its so long but help is appreciated thanks!) Open Question: I don't know how to slow down with my boyfriend.?My boyfriend and I have been best friends for four years. We know eachother better than we know ourselves, and we've been dating for almost four months, and I know I'm with a good guy. We're both sophomores in high school right now, and I'm waiting till I'm out of high school to have sex. I'm still a virgin and I plan on keeping it that way for a while, whereas my boyfriend was with someone before me and they were very sexually active, and I know pretty much all about it because, like I said, we're best friends :3 I've been in a relationship with one other guy before, but my current boyfriend is the first guy I've been with that I trust completely and I've done everything with (he was my first kiss, and then..everything else that follows after kissing..) We were taking things slowly at the beginning of our relationship, but things have gotten pretty crazy and we're already at third base (I've gone down on him, he hasn't done it on me yet because I don't know if I'm ready for him to do that yet or not..)! I don't regret doing anything with him, but I feel like after barely four months of dating and then us having to wait another two-three years to have sex is kind of pushing it, because where do you go when you get tired of third base? I don't want to end up having sex in high school because I want to avoid drama and rumors and stuff and my boyfriend agrees with me. But the problem is we both like making eachother feel good and giving eachother pleasure and I don't find giving a b***job or h***job a chore, and I actually like doing it, so when I do it, I do it not only because he wants me to, but because I truly want to do it, too. And since we're both teenagers, we have all those raging hormones and we get turned on by eachother so easily and stuff and it makes you act on desire and impulse. Like, I'll be at his house and we'll be watching a movie and kissing on his couch, and he'll get a ***** and then it gets really hard to not ask him to take me right on his couch. Then I'll come home from hanging out with him and I'll be happy about what we did, I don't ever feel regret or guilt but I'm just relieved that I DIDN'T ask him to take me on his couch. And we've talked about going slower, but it always fails in the long run. I'm kind of unsure of what to do. I want to go slower, but I'm pretty sure we won't be able to keep to going slower. And I'm very determined to sticking to my decision to have sex after high school. But I don't know how to talk to him about going slower, because I like where we're at now. But like, I wish it was easier to listen to what my heart says instead of listening to the horny little devil on my shoulder when I'm with my boyfriend. And I feel like a skank putting this on Yahoo! Answers, but I really want some advice or anything to help me in this situation. P.S. My boyfriend respects me and I respect him, he knows I have morals, and he wouldn't rush me with anything. He always asks me if I'm ready to move forward because he's done things that I haven't done and we wants to make sure I'm ready, and we have a healthy relationship that's based purely off of trust and communication among those other important components, so my boyfriend isn't one of those a**hole guys that's only after sex :P Open Question: I think ive made an massive mistake. This boy really likes me but I only want to be friends?My friend asked me out. I've rejected him before and i didnt want to hurt him again. So i said yes. The problem is he is like a brother to me..and i dont feel the same way about him as he feels about me. I thought i could give him a shot. But i feel so uncomfortable talking to him now and this is just talking on m s n. like he's sayin all this corny stuff and its sweet, but i feels so wrong. I think the best thing to do is to break up with him but im not sure how to like do i call him, or meet him somewhere. He wants to meet me in on Wednesday. It's all organised, I couldnt tell him no. He said that he couldnt wait to meet me. I think its like a date. My question is should i break up with him on wednesday? or before? or after? Thanks for answering, I could really do with the help! Open Question: help? suggestions? thaaaanks :)?soi went to a really small private school grades 1-8. now im going to the HUGE publlic highschool. people from my old school went here too, including my best friend,but i still feel kinda out of place.ive made tons of friends and everything, but everyone already has their "groups" from middle school. so i hand out with them in school and in my classes but out of school and stuffff im still mostly with my friends from the previous school. another problem about thisss is boyfriends. i really like this guy, but if i startedd dating him i wouldnt know his friends they wouldn't know me and i feel like it would just be really akward. please help mee! thankss everyone<3 More Recent Articles
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