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Open Question: Would you be happy if you found out that your girlfriend/wife had never been with anyone before you? and more... Open Question: Would you be happy if you found out that your girlfriend/wife had never been with anyone before you?And she's 22 years old and very pretty. Hasn't done anything past making out. I've know her for years before we got together and she really is a virgin but has had plenty of offers. She just didn't want a boyfriend before, she said. She wants to wait until she is pretty sure she is with the right guy. Will this be a problem that she hasn't had any relationships before or dated? What do you think? Would you think she's a prude and won't be very good in bed? Open Question: My boyfriend says he doesn't care if I were to sleep with other guys....?I have been dating my current boyfriend for 7 months now. At the beginning of the relationship we had a long conversation on jealousy, and he expressed to me that he's never felt that emotion towards any of his previous girlfriends because he feels that it leads to irrational behavior and can consequently harm the relationship. I completely agreed with him on that part but he continued to say that he wouldn't even care if his exes slept with other people as long as it made them happy. When he first told me this I thought that it must have just been a way of protecting himself from his previously slutty girlfriends and unhealthy relationships by convincing himself "he didn't care". I thought that as time went by and our realtionship grew stronger, that he might feel differently towards me and maybe show some emotion when it came to feelings of jealousy. But he's repeatedly expressed to me that he doesn't care if i were to see other guys or even if I were to have sexual relations with them because love has nothing to do with lust. I told him that his way of thinking concerned me because I'd certainly have a problem if he were to cheat on me and he assured me that he only wants my happiness and that he'd never do anything to hurt me. I just don't know what to think...I don't find it normal for a person not to care at all about their partner's relations with the opposite sex. I'm not saying for him to be a jealous nutjob but I just feel like his not caring about this kind of stuff is another way of saying that what's between us is not serious. I see it as human nature to be just a bit jealous because of the natural fear of losing someone you really care about...I don't know, is it just me?? What do you think? Open Question: I am 16, i really like this girl and I think she likes me back. Buth there is a problem, please read?She just got out of a relationship but she has been flirting with me and I really think she likes me. The only problem is I agreed to go to my school winter dance in january with one of my friends who is a girl, I agreed to go Before the girl I like broke up with her past boyfriend. So I am assuming it is not right to ask her out and then go to the dance with my friend while I am dating someone else. So what should I do? should I talk to the girl I like about it? thanks for the help the dance is in late january, one other problem is that this other guy i think might like the girl I like, so if i wait until after the dance he might get to her first Open Question: Could anyone please help me with transcription of a dialogue in English?I need to write a transcription of this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=equReyVAanE The problem is that I can't get some phrases. Please help me with the following: David Letterman: Now it's much different and it's… it's young girls, right? But now also in addition to young girls you get… there are some others. Is that correct too? Robert Pattinson: Yeah… That's a very strange experience having all of them clapping in the darkness when you… (???) Yeah, there are some others. And also in addition to that there was… there were a couple more guys on this sequel. … … Robert Pattinson: Well, it depends on your mood, really. And it depends on what you want to get out of it at the end. There's variations of biting. David Letterman: And the woman holds up (???)… small child, offering you here, "Bite the baby", did that happen? … David Letterman: (showing the Bazaar magazine) The nice picture … (???) This is you and Kristen Stewart, is that correct? You're actually dating her. Am I right about that? Please correct my transcription if there are any mistakes. Thank you in advance. Open Question: Finding out everything you knew was a lie?backstory- we were together for some time- we have 3 children together. He cheated 2 or 3 times (that I know of) and I kept giving him second chances. About 2 weeks ago we were having issues, because I wasn't trusting him etc.. anyways- he said "we need a break", however he is still living here- just sleeping in the basement. During the course of that time, I decided I didn't want a break- that I was just finished with the relationship. Last night I found out- that while we were friends- before we even dated- he had "written" 3 songs and recorded them and sent them to me (at that time he lived in another state).. for some reason I never thought to google search the lyrics or anything- and was trusting and believed that he had really written them- epecially when he pointed out a few lines that he "wrote about me" (he was still married to his wife then)... well last night for whatever reason I decided to look- and he never wrote them or even recorded them- it was a total lie... there are another bands songs.. *ugh*... on top of that, I've also learned that even after he told me he was seperated from him wife (we were friends long before he even met her- and while they were having problems, i realized i liked him, but would never ever do anything or take it any farther than friends while he was still married) that they were really still together and that he technically is still married to her (the never talk now or anything- but technically are still married).... He also is a pathological liar- and I don't believe a word that comes out of his mouth. What really gets me- is how I feel like EVERYTHING has been a complete lie... I don't even know him. Here i've been with this man for years, had children with him, and I've just realized / been shown that everything- has been a complete lie. Before when we had problems and he cheated- i told him to leave we were done- and one time he threw the "well im just going to kill myself" out there... and he confessed to loving me, but not being in love with me anymore. He finally stopped cheating in the past 3 years- (well besides an emotional affair.. but ugh that doesnt matter now anyways) and I put everything I had emotionally etc into trying to make our relationship work and for him to get the "in love" feeling back... Earlier I found out- that his "break" is because he doesn't want to abondon his kids....but that he never even was attracted to me.. ever. I was ok, with ending things- but after finding all this out- it makes it hard. Everything I thought I knew- has been wrong.... I feel so completely and utterly violated.. I don't know how else to put it. I am so extremely hurt and devastated and feel just AWFUL that our kids have to go through not having their dad around anymore =( How do you deal with things when you realize that EVERYTHING was a lie? (It's like those people who find out their husbands were leading completely different lives in other cities with another wife and kids etc...) There is no way I am ever taking him back- that's not the question. I guess what got me is him saying he isn't/wasn't attracted to me.. that hurts really bad =( How awful =( (but no wonder we hardly had sex- and when we did he only cared about himself getting off and then rolling over and going to bed).... Jordan give me a break- you know it's not easy to just "move on" when have a lot invested in someone and have children. It's not been that much time- so excuse me for not "getting over it" in .02 seconds. And if you were really reading- you would see that he and I were friends before he even met his first wife. We remained friends while they dated and while they were married... it was only after they were having problems and he confided about them in me- that my feelings changed towards him as more than a friend- however, I kept them to myself while he and his wife tried to work on things- then they had been seperated for a few months and our relationship changed... but they were still "working on things".. and I thought she had moved out... And I'm sorry i'm not a person who just "throws in the towel" the first or second time something goes wrong in a relationship. I had no idea he was still married. He very clearly knew that I would NEVER EVER be with someone who was married or working on things..... he knew how I felt about that- in fact I even helped him and his wife get counseling etc to work on things.... I was not evil in this at all.... =( Open Question: Need advice as how to make my would be happy and not to be tired...?I did, i did a lot of things to make him happy. but i feel uneasy when he's quite tired from his work and i can feel the weariness,annoyance,impatience in his voice when he's talking to me , and he tries to make me feel that he's okay but i know him very well that i can make judgement about his mood all by listening to his words and voice. Ofcourse, we both have went through many difficulties and he's the one who has gone through a lot of worse conditions in our personal life. I try to ask him what's the problem with a very soft voice and convince him and console him, even i beg him what's bothering him. He hides me things which will make me sad and he always prefer to share joys with me and keeping up sorrows with him, but i tried to tell him that i am his half partner and he can share anything to me, but he always says that he want's see me happy and not bothered by his sorrows.I just wanted to make him feel happy and jolly (his original character is he always put a regular smile which seems to be now irregular,and he's having quite a lot sense of humour which now is not coming from his words)... i think you understand what i feel... he always make sure that he's okay and says he's a little bit tired from work and that's reason why he's being wearisome, but i don't believe in it, advice me dearest friends how to make him feel comfortable and how should i behave with him? how i have to talk to him? ( we're having wedding date in 2010 august,still living with my parents now and no scope of meeting him even for 5min) Open Question: I don't know if I love my boyfriend anymore. How can I tell?We are a week away from our five month anniversary. I am a high school sophomore and he is a senior. (if these things matter) The lowdown: When we first started dating (and for like three months after wards), it was magical. Everything love was supposed to be and more. I love him so much and he made me so happy. He made me feel beautiful and needed. But now, the love just seems to have disappeared. I don't feel anything when I kiss him or look at him. I know it's harsh, because I truly believe that he really loves me and he say I am his whole life. I have a lot of friends but he doesn't and he's got a bad family life. I was like an escape for him. He could go to be me when things got bad at home or if he was bored and he wasn't working. So I would feel terrible if I broke up with him. I was his first real girlfriend and the first person who believed in him. He doesn't have that many girls beating down his door. (It's the cold hard truth. He's got a little bit of a weight problem.) What should I do? How do I know if this is just a phase or not? Open Question: i'm in love with a jerk. is that such a bad thing?i have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now and i love him to death, the problem is, is that he has cheated on me twice and dumped me three time. he flirts with girls all the time and he hurts me. the problem is that i love him so much and would never ever hurt him and everytime he asks if i will take him back i say yes. i know he loves me and all but what should i do???? More Recent Articles |
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